Male

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Since you didn't ask but would like to know upfront, I am 5'11'' brown, fine (but a full head of) hair, blue eyes with long lashes and and a solid Celtic / cylindrical build of 195 pounds. (I am not a waify emo boy.) I have lots of energy and diverse interests. I am comfortable and conversant in almost any situation. I am internally and externally aware. I am sensitive to presence and nuance. I love to dance like a fool, practice astanga yoga and I am a step aerobics fiend and junky. I hate pretension and materialism, but I enjoy little luxuries. I love snuggling for hours. I will gladly clothes shop with you and hold your purse, but don't ask me if your ass looks fat in those jeans if you don't want to hear an honest (but at least diplomatic) answer. I am an excellent shot (rifle and pistol) and enjoy post-impressionism art. Green party member. Masturbation is much better than sit coms. I am not a conflict based person - I am a understanding, awareness, growth and resolution person. Vaudeville humor. No really; fart jokes are indeed funny. Candles are great. 'Happiness comes from being a part of things, not owning them.' Yay for languorous massages and foot rubs. Two Words: Dive Bars. Rare is the time my underwear does not coordinate with my outfit. I have a very dark and sick sense of humor along with silly whimsy and an adoration of puns. I am not a player or scammer. Fashionable is not merely a charge card and Nordstrom. I make really yummy slow smoked ribs. I am not uber cool nor do I aspire to be. Integrity. I am handsome and look best with some morphing form of facial hair. Cards and flowers are great things. I use my body, sweat and revel in it. I have a professional job and enjoy it immensely. I don't have cable. I am sick and twisted in an endearing sweet way. Presence. Friends and family are precious. I love to soak in hot water and I squeal at fireworks. Very Verbal. Every woman I have ever dated's mother loved me (they don't see my darker edges). I have been told I naturally pull Buddhist concepts out my ass; however, while that is my bent, I am not that crunchy. All of my personalities generally get along well with each other. Sex is a sublime pleasure, expression, art and celebration that should be explored and savored. Acceptance. While I have a dozen suits, I am more comfortable in Dickies and a wife beater. I am a public radio member and junkie. I have made my own beer but love PBR and a good Syrah (usually not together). I revile consumer debt. 'Life is a banquet and most poor bastards are starving to death.' -Auntie Mame