joined on 03/19/07
last updated 10/24/09
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Whenever people say they agree with me, I always feel I must be wrong. -- Oscar Wilde
Great. I love having friends, even (or especially!) imaginary ones.
But I keep some things a bit private, and make them accessible to people who are on my friends list here.
So I like to know the people I add to my friends list. I tend to be more positive about accepting invitations if we've interacted, exhanged messages, or if I've seen you posting in tribes I frequent. If none of those things apply, I may put your invitation "on hold" until I feel I've gotten to know you better. That doesn't mean I feel "un-friendly," and you shouldn't take it as a rejection. Thanks for being interested, and taking the time to look at my profile (and this message)
Cheers!
PS: WARNING to clueless e-males: crude e-mails from strangers seeking sexual favors may be publicly posted, unless I'm of a mind to accept the invitation. Sort of a fun dilemma, ain't it, boys?
I ain't as good as I once was
I got a few years on me now
But there was a time back in my prime
When I could really lay it down
And if you need some love tonight
Then I might have just enough
I ain't as good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was
--- "As Good as I Once Was" by Toby Keith
about me
Just another late-fifties polyamorous pansexual slut of ambiguous gender. When I was younger, I'd explain my sexual orientation with a quote from James Dean: "Why go through life with one hand tied behind your back?" Now I just say "No reasonable offer refused."
"Girls will be boys, and boys will be girls
It's a mixed up, messed up, muddled up world."
----"Lola" by The Kinks
Little Bobbie Dylan sang that, back in the "good old days."
Today, of course, there's no day shift and you're competing for a 15 hour week at Starbucks against a gothed-out little chickie whose main qualification is that she was hanging around while her girlfriend's garage band practiced and went on the beer runs. Dylan, need I say, has turned out to be even lamer than our parents said he was at the time and has just released a fucking album of fucking Christmas music. Gaaaag hack huuualp ...
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 12:16 PM
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"Before enlightenment chop wood and carry water.
After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water."
-- Wu Li
In this case, it was more like "After enlightenment, hang with a famous composer and go out to your chauffeured Lincoln waiting parked next to a fire hydrant."
Just a quick snippet from "Glass: A Portrait of Philip in Twelve Parts." Glass is meeting with some Tibetan llama, the meeting ends and then the Tibetan guy proceeds as described above. But that's Zen for ya, ain't it? I...
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Sun, April 12, 2009 - 7:36 PM
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Originally, I picked this photo to accompany the Eric Clapton lyric in the next post below, but decided to post it here as a bow to the unquestionable presence of beauty and grace and divinity in this world.
Sun, April 12, 2009 - 1:49 PM
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Don't matter none to me if'n your cult comes from the Himalayas or the banks of the Ganges. If it makes people be kinder and behave better and helps liberate folks from poverty and oppression, fine, but can't you just do those things 'cause they're what's right?
The photo is of the guru who owned 92 Rolls-Royce cars driving past a bunch of his followers... I picked another photo related to tennis, but decided it belonged in another post.
Eric Clapton - Anyone for Tennis Lyric
By eri...
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Sun, April 12, 2009 - 1:23 PM
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The human tragedy of this young woman's murder can scarcely be fathomed. It's sad to see the good Jesus-lovin' God fearin' trailer-park dwelling folks in her community try to cope with the fact that none of their religious hooey means a damn thing. I feel for their pain, but can't forget the pain and horror inflicted on others in the name of that religion.
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From SF Gate www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi
Suspect in Tracy slaying is chur...
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Sun, April 12, 2009 - 12:17 PM
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"Twenty years of schoolin' & they put ya on the day shift."
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Little Bobbie Dylan sang that, back in the "good old days."
Today, of course, there's no day shift and you're competing for a 15 hour week at Starbucks against a gothed-out little chickie whose main qualification is that she was hanging around ...
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Not Exactly Wu Li
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"Before enlightenment chop wood and carry water.
After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water."
-- Wu Li
In this case, it was more like "After enlightenment, hang with a famous composer and go out to your chauffeured Lincoln waiting parked ...
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Anyone for tennis? (Maybe there *is* a God.)
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Originally, I picked this photo to accompany the Eric Clapton lyric in the next post below, but decided to post it here as a bow to the unquestionable presence of beauty and grace and divinity in this world.
No slack for other cults, sorry. (Happy Easter #6)
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Don't matter none to me if'n your cult comes from the Himalayas or the banks of the Ganges. If it makes people be kinder and behave better and helps liberate folks from poverty and oppression, fine, but can't you just do those things 'cause they'r...
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R.I.P. Sandra Cantu (Happy Easter #5)
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The human tragedy of this young woman's murder can scarcely be fathomed. It's sad to see the good Jesus-lovin' God fearin' trailer-park dwelling folks in her community try to cope with the fact that none of their religious hooey means a damn thing...
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Fear the Rainbow (Happy Easter #4)
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Fear the rainbow!
A storm is gathering. Are you afraid, Christian? Are you afraid *enough*?
By Mark Morford, SF Gate Columnist
Friday, April 10, 2009
My favorite part has got to be the lightning.
The fake lightning, that is, flashing ju...
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The Pope on Condoms (Happy Easter #3)
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www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi
Pope, extra ribbed
Benedict says condoms make AIDS worse. God recoils in shame
By Mark Morford, SF Gate Columnist
Friday, April 3, 2009
What sort of wretched deit...
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"Crucifixion" (Happy Easter #2)
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web.cecs.pdx.edu/~trent/oc...ixion.html
Crucifixion
By Phil Ochs
Em D
And the night comes again to the circle studded sky
G B...
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Stand Up For Judas (Happy Easter, #1)
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Here are the lyrics to a lovely old Irish Ballad. I strongly urge you to download the recording from Amazon (come, on, spend a buck) and hear the lovely anger and loathing for this bloody sham of a religion.
www.amazon.com/Stand-Up-For-J...
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Wanted to check in here last night, and of course "Tribe Was Down."
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So I'm not sure whether anyone is still on here, but I'll post a couple of things appropriate to the day and look around for other signs of other life.
Didja change your clocks?
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A less-and-less relevant question. I only have a couple of clocks that aren't either hooked up to the net or don't otherwise set themselves automatically.
Unfortunately, the clock that tells me when it's time to pee seems to be pretty independ...
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Doing lots of photography...
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... my sweetie gave me a very nice digital camera at x-mas. I've been pretty skeptical about digital photography, but have been having a bunch of fun with it. Of course, I've dug out some prints I made from my 8 x 10 camera, and some slides I shot...
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Shit fuck piss cunt crap cock scumbag motherfuckers.
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There are thieving dirtballs in our neighborhood who have been stealing plants from our garden.
It would be bad enough if they stole the little petunias in 4" pots, or the iceland poppies in 8" pots, or the little herbs (sorry 420 fans, I'm ta...
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You don't want to know about this -- the mutilation horror continues.
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There's nothing you can do, really. But you should know.
I suppose the mere reporting of this story is positive, and the fact that there is resistance and official support for resistance is positive. But still it's horrible and distressing. (P...
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Kim's Autumn Pasta
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OK, all the ingredients are fresh, top-quality, "the real stuff." OK, you can substitute dried herbs for fresh, use a good base instead of stock if you must. While it's pretty damn good without the truffle, but the truffle moves it from lovely a...
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Rising social inequality, or "neo-feudalism"
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College May Become Unaffordable for Most in U.S. -- www.nytimes.com/2008/12/03...ollege.html
You see it all over the world, but in the U.S. it's particularly obvious and marked: the gap between the haves and have-nots gets ...
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The Gulf of Time Yawns Beneath My Feet
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I've posted previously about the Christmas Eve I spent hitching to Prunedale; it ended up with an old guy (I'm probably older now than he was then) in a battered Mustang picking me up and saying, after a few minimal preliminary niceties, "I've bee...
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Still alive, still here...
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... but not as much as I used to be.
And -- for some odd reason -- not all of the e-mail from Tribe is finding its way to my "real" mailbox.
Hope all's well with you all.
Trouble in Curvy Woman Land.
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Many of you know about the kerfuffle ( www.merriam-webster.com/dictio...rfuffle ) involving a tribe that used to be one of my favorites. I've posted about it below, ( people.tribe.net/e7041df3-...log/e21...
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Crimes against humanity.
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The phrase has a specific, legal meaning. Here's what Wikipedia says: "In public international law, a crime against humanity is an act of persecution or any large scale atrocities against a body of people, and is the highest level of criminal offe...
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Just Another Routine Outrage - Digital Devices Seized for Any Reason or No Reason!
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www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...30.html
Travelers' Laptops May Be Detained At Border
No Suspicion Required Under DHS Policies
By Ellen Nakashima
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, August 1, 2008;...
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"It has often been said that if the Gravenstein could be had throughout the year, no other apple need be grown."
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That's attributed to Luther Burbank, a fellow who knew a thing or two about fruit.
We have a Gravenstein apple tree in our back yard. You can see part of it in the photo a couple of posts below. In fact, it figured in my first blog post here....
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Creeping into the 21st Century...
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My sweetie and I needed new cell phones. I'll skip the sturm and dreng with Sprint, except to say neither of us ever saw ourselves as poor helpless doormats who'd stay in an abusive relationship. Finally, after eight years we broke free and ran to...
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* sex talk *,
**Booty Call**,
Ask a Sexy Man ANYTHING,
Ask a Sexy Woman Anything,
Ass Lover,
Bad Advice ON Any Subject,
Bears and Chasers,
Bisexual Love,
Childfree by Choice,
Chubs and Chubby Chasers,
Dean's party,
Don't Care If You Pass: T4M/M4T/T4T,
EduKink - at UN Reno - Wed Nov 25,
Erotic Writers Support Group,
Fist me like a Muppet!,
Fucking Machines,
gender non specific,
Gender Queer,
Girls pegging boys,
Have I mentioned I'm a tranny?,
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