What interests me is that moment after a stranger has had his orgasm with me and his interest in me has concluded. His arousal has been vanquished and I am less than nothing to him. Usually, at this moment, I am still in a shuddering, disoriented, post-orgasmic state of my own. Normal female tendencies have me wanting to be held, cuddled and reassured. It doesn't happen. I must be content with the resolve of my own passion and the reassurance that I will get will come later from Stephen when ... read more

I have been wanting to visit an environment where public sex is possible. I get the idea that the Hedo resorts provide this, but I don't know for sure. I tried and gave up on online hookups finding that most of the males were too pushy for comfort and that I can always hook up just about anywhere I want.

What I would really like is to visit a clothing optional resort where I can look, see and find males that interest me and have sex with them on the spot if we click. I don't want to get to... read more

I must confess to taking a peculiar pleasure in denying Stephen sex during periods when I am sexually active with others. He is aroused by my encounters with other men and he understandably wants to consummate with me soon after I've been with someone else both to relieve his sexual tension and to win me back. Usually, I like nothing better than to satisfy his needs. At other times, the idea of maintaining his sexual tension at a peak keeps me aroused and hyper-aware of our attraction for one... read more

In response to Robert who sought clarity, I wrote:

I agree that there are a multitude of similarities in men and women. I wanted to abstract those salient qualities that would explain the attraction and workability that I've observed in cuckoldry as a lifestyle.

Traditional marriage is currently enjoying a divorce rate as high as 50% in some regions, which gives it a hit-or-miss quality to my way of thinking. Polyamory is certainly built into the male psyche, but isn't necessarily condu... read more

A Tribe member has asked me about the asymmetry of cuckolding and why I want monogamy from him while having sexual freedom for me. Here is my answer:

Your question is a logical and obvious one per the doctrine of 'Good for the goose...' I think any relationship should be defined by the two people involved. While I have sex with other men, my relationship is with Stephen.

Leaving aside passion and getting clinical for a moment, it is well established that men, the sort I'm interested in,... read more