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To know or not know??

   Mon, May 8, 2006 - 8:02 PM
This is a question I have been battling with over the past few days. In more ways than one. Recently I found out my ex was dating someone new. At first I only knew that he was dating someone, then a few days ago he called me and wanted to talk about a lot of things. One of them was her. I then found out that I knew her, had even met her before. It was a girl that I thought he was messing around with when we were together. He swore up and down that nothing happpened until way after we called it quits. He also told me that he was a much better boyfriend to her than he was to me. I think I was doing much better without that information, but it has me now wondering...if I didn't know about all this would I have been able to move on easier? Right now, I feel as though I really don't want to have anything to do with him anymore, but would I have felt the same if I hadn't known all this new information?

So is better to know or not to know??



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Fri, June 9, 2006 - 2:57 AM
in my humble opinion it's always better to know. theat way you dont wonder and your mind doesn't wander. i recently had an encounter along the same lines with an ex and you know what, i am definitely better for it. it was the only way i could get to where i need to be. remember my friend, knowledge is power. now, i'm not going to tell you that this sort of thing doesnt sting cuz i know it does but i can tell you that you arean amazing woman and it's his loss. my only hope is that you use this information to help you move on and if you do't want anything to do with him so be it ( i'm having some trouble with that one myself)...