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Anya

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joined on 09/13/05
last updated 05/15/08
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A Bit about my bits

Gender
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Location
SF Bay Area
about me
I say what I mean and I mean what I say....enough said?
I am currently exploring hyper-personal growth and stretching beyond my comfort zone...
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My Recent Activity

Sassy Sexy and Single! (blog entry) Well, I made it!!! After months of healing I am at that point where the toxins of the past relationship are out of my system and I feel really free...
It's great to feel confident, attractive and know that I am a free agent able to make decisions... read more
blog entry posted Sat, April 26, 2008 - 9:00 AM permalink - 3 comments
Forgiveness Heals Heartache (blog entry) This topic is one that we've all had to deal with at one time or another-someone we love and invested our precious emotional resources into has made a decision to split off and be unavailable. In the past few months I have gone through the rollerc... read more
blog entry posted Fri, March 7, 2008 - 9:11 AM permalink - 1 comment
Healing As It's Occuring (blog entry) Being in a relationship in the beginning phase is breezy. There is little attachment, fantasy abounds and chemistry cooks up one heck of a hot meal for two to share. As the relationship progresses, there is more revealed, vulnerabilities are share... read more
blog entry posted Thu, January 24, 2008 - 6:54 PM permalink - 2 comments
The Man Who Killed His Muse (blog entry)
Once there was a boy, an extraordinary and brilliant young prodigy who grew up on an island. Only he was incredibly active and curious and would constantly be told by the adults around him about how bad he was and how mischievous his actions. Th... read more
blog entry posted Mon, January 21, 2008 - 8:08 AM permalink - 0 comments
Blessings in Disguise (blog entry) I was recently asked by my partner of 2 and 1/2 years to move out so he could be single again. This came as a total shock to me as I was under the impression that we were deeply bonded in love and shared a very special connection. I guess this is ... read more
blog entry posted Mon, December 17, 2007 - 10:44 AM permalink - 5 comments
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My Blog

Sassy Sexy and Single!
Well, I made it!!! After months of healing I am at that point where the toxins of the past relationship are out of my system and I feel really free...
It's great to feel confident, attractive and know that I am a free agent able to make decisions about my life without considering the lasting impact on a partner (at the moment of course!). I am expanding my heart in ways that feel healthy and redesigning my vision of what I want my next relationship to look/feel/taste/sound and be like. Meanw... read more
Sat, April 26, 2008 - 9:00 AM permalink - 3 comments
 
Forgiveness Heals Heartache
This topic is one that we've all had to deal with at one time or another-someone we love and invested our precious emotional resources into has made a decision to split off and be unavailable. In the past few months I have gone through the rollercoaster ride of heartbreak-
the pain freefall, the swirls of sadness, and the loop-de-loop of anger. It's a lot of energy and attention that damn it all cannot be avoided unless you want to draw out the process over years, like an emotional layaway ... read more
Fri, March 7, 2008 - 9:11 AM permalink - 1 comment
 
Healing As It's Occuring
Being in a relationship in the beginning phase is breezy. There is little attachment, fantasy abounds and chemistry cooks up one heck of a hot meal for two to share. As the relationship progresses, there is more revealed, vulnerabilities are shared and bonds are deepened.
After some time, there are challenges. Challenges take on different forms like juggling schedules, decisions about mutual activities and attraction to other people. When there is commitment to the love that is shared, norm... read more
Thu, January 24, 2008 - 6:54 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
The Man Who Killed His Muse

Once there was a boy, an extraordinary and brilliant young prodigy who grew up on an island. Only he was incredibly active and curious and would constantly be told by the adults around him about how bad he was and how mischievous his actions. The boy believed the people who wrapped their labels around him like a swaddling blanket. He began to rebel in all kinds of ways and by the time he was old enough to leave, he made his way to a land where anyone who is determined enough, can create a ... read more
Mon, January 21, 2008 - 8:08 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
Blessings in Disguise
I was recently asked by my partner of 2 and 1/2 years to move out so he could be single again. This came as a total shock to me as I was under the impression that we were deeply bonded in love and shared a very special connection. I guess this is my wake up call that even if a man feels a deep love, his underlying intentions are usually to have things exactly the way he wants them and doesn't necessarily want to take his partner's needs or requests into consideration. The things that were tol... read more
Mon, December 17, 2007 - 10:44 AM permalink - 5 comments
 
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