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I'm an up-standing gentleman, and I always try to do the right thing in most situations. I'm a hopeless romantic, but certainly not a perfect one. I can honestly say I've been alone a lot longer than I've ever been with a woman in a healthy long term relationship; which makes me wonder if I'm honestly any good at them? I'd like to think I'm not that excentric, but my perception is just it; mine!
I know this reads like a profile for a dating site, but I feel it's also worth mentioning, so I don't give the wrong impression to any ladies that might find me intriguing for my looks, hobbies and feel the need to contact me. Please know that I'm complicated: filled with both good and bad attributes! I'm very picky, and I only date women, who are usually within a decade of my age, because I want mutual time of living commonality. So, if you are searching for a wealthy man with cold hard cash; Please, "STOP READING NOW!" I don't want to waste your time, I'm not him! "I'm not your pot of gold, your diamond in the snow, but I shine!" There is wealth here in other facets if you would just stop to look? I'm looking for a woman who is secure in herself, not caring what others or the media deems attractive; style and class, and a reciprocating romance are all, "A MUST!" Someone who is genuinely nice to people, and has nothing to gain but to be in-love, cared about, with a willingness to work at all things that a relationship entails. I have no room for callous, spiteful, self-absorbed vain women. If this is you, please drink more "mean juice," and go cruise the gym, those guys will be happy to serve you; or is it take advantage? Until that elusive beautiful classy lady takes my breath away, I bid you good day!

Oh, in mentioning: I would like to think that I've remained friends with most of my ex-girlfriends; even the ones that have done me irreversible harm; granted this certainly isn't a daily or monthly contact. Regardless of a possible e-mail that I might send near the holidays, or, a birthday, doesn't mean I haven't moved-on; nor, am I trying to rekindle something that is gone; it just means that I thought of you on the days that should matter most in our lives. I'm just not accustomed to cutting people out of my life, regardless of relationships ending. One day we might run into each other, I would certainly like to wish you well; all of which is the polite standard protocol. Plus, though we might no longer be together, it doesn't mean that I don't want good things to happen to you in your life; that means a life filled with love; without me! So, if any of this contact is not welcomed, I was wrong by assuming and taking such liberties, and please accept my humblest apologies.

Best wishes to you and all your endeavors!

Always,

Jeffrey