joined on 04/26/09
last updated 05/02/09
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about me
I'm here for the fish. I'm having adventures. Living life. I love to read and I'm a bit of a comics geek. Not much for superheroes but for the Vertigo genre especially. Sandman, Lucifer, Swamp Thing, Hellblazer, Preacher, Walking Dead, Y the Last man, Fables, House of Mystery. I read obsessively. I love Historical Fiction. I have a thing for Vampire/Werewolf stuff too. Anita Blake Vampire Hunter, True Blood. Really, I read too much to narrow it down. I read a lot of non-fiction also, mostly about society and psychology. I'm fascinated by human behaviour.
Is is an affair if there's no touching?
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I recently ended a fairly intense three month affair. It was intense and romantic and sexy. We talked twenty times a day sometimes more. But we never even saw each other in real life. He lives three thousand miles away. We knew each other a long t...
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I live in a zoo
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Seriously. My 118 pound dog sleeps in my bed. My black kitten likes to hang around my bathroom watching me in the shower. My tabby kitten wants nothing more than to be exactly where I am at all times. There is not a moment where I don't have som...
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Valentines Day
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So it's Valentines day. Hmmm. I will say that I enjoy Valentine's day a lot more when I am not in a relationship than when I am. When I'm not in a relationship I take it as an excuse to indulge myself. Have a glass of wine, watch a sappy movie. ...
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What a difference a year makes
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The last year has brought such a huge change in me, that I was tempted to just throw away this profile altogether and start a new one. I didn't do that for a couple of reasons. One, I am still very much the person in this profile just a little m...
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Commitmentphobe or closet romantic
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I think I've outed myself. To myself. In my dreams. I always think of myself as this cocky, self-reliant, tough girl with a soft spot for puppies and men who were misunderstood as children. I am all those things, but I'm coming to realize that m...
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I recently ended a fairly intense three month affair. It was intense and romantic and sexy. We talked twenty times a day sometimes more. But we never even saw each other in real life. He lives three thousand miles away. We knew each other a long time ago, when we were both in out twenties. It started out with finding each other on Facebook. Some mild flirtation. But it developed into something far beyond that very quickly. Whispered phone calls and furtive code laden emails. Not once did we m...
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Seriously. My 118 pound dog sleeps in my bed. My black kitten likes to hang around my bathroom watching me in the shower. My tabby kitten wants nothing more than to be exactly where I am at all times. There is not a moment where I don't have some creature under foot, meowing, barking,hurting their paws, scratching their butts, asking me to scratch their butts, kissing me, purring, wagging their tail. Wanting to be let in, wanting to be let out. Eating, pooping. I really really love it. My o...
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Wed, April 29, 2009 - 4:02 PM
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So it's Valentines day. Hmmm. I will say that I enjoy Valentine's day a lot more when I am not in a relationship than when I am. When I'm not in a relationship I take it as an excuse to indulge myself. Have a glass of wine, watch a sappy movie. I have long since lost any sense of jealousy or anger at 'happy couples' If they are really enjoying each other's company then please have at it. Anyone generating love on any level is just compounding the available love for everyone else. I guess on...
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Wed, April 29, 2009 - 4:01 PM
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The last year has brought such a huge change in me, that I was tempted to just throw away this profile altogether and start a new one. I didn't do that for a couple of reasons. One, I am still very much the person in this profile just a little more optimistic and not as cynical. But my journal entries show where I've been and some of the paths I've taken to get here and I am very proud of my journey.I have just decided to incorporate more gratitude in my life. Every single day we can find s...
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Wed, April 29, 2009 - 4:00 PM
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I think I've outed myself. To myself. In my dreams. I always think of myself as this cocky, self-reliant, tough girl with a soft spot for puppies and men who were misunderstood as children. I am all those things, but I'm coming to realize that my extreme trepidation about traditional marriage and relationships has nothing to do with a fear of love. I'll throw myself wholeheartedly in front of that train when it comes. So why don't I have a 'boyfriend' when the offers do come along? I've jus...
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Wed, April 29, 2009 - 3:59 PM
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"Second Life",
*Beauty Secrets for Divas*,
ADD adults,
Attention Deficit Disorder,
Costume Chaos,
Costume Tutorial Database,
Crafty Vixens,
Elizabethan Clothing,
Green Tortoise Riders,
Historical Costumers,
Menopause, the things Mom never told us,
Reconstructed Clothing,
Relationship / dating people w/ ADD/ADHD,
Retro-kittens, Pin-ups & Vintage Vixens,
Santa Cruz,
Second Life Residents,
thrifting,
TRUE BLOOD - The HBO Series,
Underground Fashion,
Vintage Fashion,
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