I've been kind of pissed off about the whole divorce thing. but today after talking to my ex wife's therapist (she couldn't make it so i took her time), I have came to realize that now i get to choose how i want my life to be and not have to live anymore based on what it Should be. Its a very refreshing angle, and i am excited about it. Now I get to live for me. Even the therapist thinks that she really repressed me. so I am very grateful for him allowing me to see things from a better view. So cheers to a new start, because most people will never get one!