March 7, 2005
I feel like I can say anything to ms. CRS, and she’d get it. And she’d tell me the truth about anything I asked about. She’s cuddly, she’s smart, she’s got good advice, she’s got style. Plus, she’s got it alllllll goin awn.
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January 28, 2004
Whenever I see Cheryl out and about, I can’t help but think… “Fire with legs!” Translation” “Hot woman walking!”
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Ok, world. So I am back home, adjusting to life here in San Francisco. Things are pretty much how I left them, although, I have two new housemate and there is some settling that's been happening around that. But other than that, my cat is the same, my jobs are the same, my car is the same (getting broken into yet again just after my return, yup happy thanks giving to you too buddy!) and my friends are great as always.
Mon, November 27, 2006 - 11:16 PM
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Speaking of friends, some of the things that i have written in the past few months have gotten me into trouble. I want to remind those reading that this was not a blog so much as an open journal. These are my feelings and thoughts, and these feeling and thoughts are often fluid. Things felt in the moment, are that, things in the moment. If I have said anything to offend you or somone you know, or someplace that you love, or whatever, I sincerely apologize. As they say in movie trailers, "The views here are not a reflection of the views and opinions held by others" or something like that. I hope you all have a wonderful holiday season and look forward to the next great adventure!!! Cheryl Rennee Schaindel Rivkah "Cheryl the Good" "Bad Ass" "00 Schaindel" Stone
London, Heathrow
Wed, November 8, 2006 - 12:00 AM
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What a crazy 24hrs. Well, actually, many of the last 24 hrs were really quite boring, only about 7 of them were crazy. I arrived in London about 2 hrs later than planned. Figured out where to leave the heavier things out of my carry on, got lots of maps of the area, and got a pitiful amount of pounds for my dollars and out I went. London is so different than when I lived here. It is bright and clean! Its like they took the whole of downtown and polished it up. I know its been about 14 yrs since I lived here, and I know when I left I was rather depressed, it being gray all the time and what, but the city looks so different. First stop, one of the half price ticket places to get a bit of entertainment for the evening. I can’t believe how many of the same shows are running. I have seen most of the musicals and what I haven’t seen is remakes of old classics. I chose something called 39 Steps, a murder/comedy. Uh? Sure, why not. Not, off to the Trafalgar Square for a quick pick with my favorite lion, and then to the National Gallery. It was amazing how much I remembered. A revisit with my first Monet moment, when I fell in love with water littlies. The play was at 7:30 and I wandered around the museum for 2 hrs or so, but felt the urge to see more of the city. I had gotten a flyer for dinner and a concert in a nearby church, beginning at 6:30, so this gave me a couple of hours to see what I could before going in doors to get warm. I don’t have a heavy coat with me so little jaunts out side was the best I could do. I was aiming for Covent Garden, but I just kept being compelled in a completely different direction. I headed to the new footbridge. So many things have been built since I was here. As I was heading across the bridge, I realized that if I was to see anything else, I had better turn around. Just as I did I passed this friendly looking man. We stopped, chatted for a bit and he ended up joining me for my adventures. Fousi was his name. It was fun to have someone to hang out with and he kept me company throughout the evening. I’m running low on battery so I’ll make this the quick version. We did see the concert, the play, which, btw, was very funny, and then wandered around the city. Just a few minutes before midnight Fousi warned me that the trains stopped running at midnight. If I had a coat, I wouldn’t have cared, but as it was, I figured I had better catch the last train. Overall, it was a lovely time and I’m glad I went. It really is much better than I remember, but more than that, it was nice to remember a time when I called this home. When I arrived at the airport at 1:00, it was a virtual ghost town. I would have to wait until 6:00 to claim my bag, and until then, I would try to sleep. The first place I chose eventually became too cold, and I searched until a second, warmer spot became available. Managed about 3 hours or so of sleep. When I woke up, about 5:30, the entire place had become alive. Now I am checked in, sitting upstairs having a bagel and typing away as quickly as I can before my computer dies. This will be my last entry for this journey. It has been one amazing trip, the beginning and end to so many things. So many different spaces inside of me have changed. I will probably edit this one post, fix a few images and add a few reflections, but for now, this is the end.
Wow, just reading through this to see where I left off and I can’t believe that that was just a day ago. So much has happened. I am now sitting in Ben Gurion Airport, near Tel Aviv, and it took no time to get through security, so I have a couple of hours to spare. I will type a bit and I was hoping to get online, but I’m having some difficulty, so this is better anyway. What I should be doing is working on my speech, no email will help with that.
Tue, November 7, 2006 - 11:47 PM
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Elad brought me to the airport this morning. I nearly cried when we said goodbye. I couldn’t believe it, as we drove out, that this was it, so much planning and preparation, so much worrying, nearly missing my flight here, and everything that has happened since, this is the end. In some ways it also seems like the beginning, but this time went by so quickly. As much as I keep thinking that I there is nothing special about Israel, and that I don’t particularly like it, certainly not in love with it, I’m going to miss it. Its something I can’t put my finger on. Yesterday was filled with a lot of shopping. Bought a lot of gifts, so much so that when I packed later I grew very concerned that my luggage would be too heavy. I ended up giving about 10 lbs of small but heavy stuff to Rayek. But shop I must! I really don’t think others buy as many gifts as I do, but I really enjoy it, so, while I didn’t buy much for me, I guess I bought it all for my happiness. I did make my final visit to The Kotel. It was so wonderful to be the bearer and deliverer of such amazing prayers and blessings. I inserted each of them into a wedge that I found, giving each an additional blessing. While I still don’t feel much about the wall itself, I was moved by the amount of love and hope people from all over the world have focused on that space. As I backed out of the area, I began to cry. Home and to the grocery store. I was completely intimidated about cooking for these people I had invited over. I stood paralyzed trying to figure out what to make. Its not that I can’t cook, its just that I like to cook foods that are light and simple. Ultimately I settled on pasta and veggies. Back at the apartment I finished packing, cleaned a bit and anxiously awaited the few guests. Turned out it was even fewer than I thought. Shoshi, Rayek and Rahel, as well as the three boys, and I was totally fine with that. The food and wine progressively moved into vodka. By the end of the night, I ended up having 3 glasses of wine and a good size drink. I was definitely feeling a wee bit tipsy and could have easily fallen asleep on Rahel’s shoulder. Rayek left, heading out to some event and then came back, which turned out to be a good thing, but then seemed never to want to leave. I was so tired, I practically had to kick him out of the door. Finally he left and finally I went to sleep. I woke up just a few minutes before 5 and jumped out of bed when Elad came to wake me up. Even so, we made it out of the house a half hour later than planned, but it seems it didn’t matter. I will be in London nearly 24 hrs, no idea where I will go or what I will do, but, key thing, I got my luggage to go all the way through. This is very good news! Ok, enough procrastinating I will start working on my speech. I will do the final journey entry perhaps in the airport in London.
Its early in the morning, 5:35 to be exact and I can barely see, but I can’t sleep either so I might as well type. This is my last morning here. I’m unexpectedly sad. Everyone said that when you leave you will be sad and since I haven’t felt such a strong connection to the land, I didn’t figure I would feel all that sad, but I do. I wonder what it’s going to be like, going home where the whole world revolves around Christmas. It has been nice to walk down the street and know that around you are other Jews, sure, they are annoying Americans teens talking too loudly, angry Israelis arguing with each other, or ultra orthodox who can’t even look you in the eye, but they are all Jews. When I returned from the Sinai, I was actually pleased to seek kippot again, not like overjoyed, but like a sense of the familiar, a comfort thing. And now I am leaving.
Tue, November 7, 2006 - 11:45 PM
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Today I will visit The Kotel for the last time and deliver the prayers sent to me by friends and family. Then its out to get a few final gifts, pick up a necessity or two, to the grocery store and home to pack and prepare for this potluck tonight, which turns out to be a very small gathering and yet I am still nervous about it. Hmm, looks like I read my watch wrong, not getting as early of a start as I thought, but clearly just as sleepy, its more like 7:45, not 5:45. I know I’m a slow typer, but not that slow. Either way, for now, I will try to finish up the story of last week and then get ready for the day. Jericho. We drove in, past the checkpoints, without a map and hoped for the best. After a short bit we made it into what seemed to be the center of town. It took something like a nanosecond for a guide to spot us and wave us down. We agreed on a price and he climbed into the car. The first bomb of the Intifada was set off on a bus very close to where we were. Now Jericho is in the West Bank, but then, it was simply part of Israel and this bus was a Jerusalem, Jericho, Dead Sea route and had many Israeli Jews on it. This was the beginning of many bombings, all throughout Israel, many in Jerusalem. Now it seems as though two states are the best solution, at least on paper that’s how it seems, but in reality, I think the Palestinian people suffer more because of it. Like Beit Lechem, Jericho feels like a ghost town. You can see all the infrastructure for a once thriving community, but now, many of the shops and stores are closed. And so are the tourist attractions, as we were about to find out. Hisham’s Palace from the Ottoman Empire was exquisitely built and destroyed only 2 years after completion by an earthquake is one of the major sites. However, the government is not currently allowing tourists to see it. The guard was kind enough to let us in the gate, and only from there could we see the ruins. The guide signs to the various mosaics and details were up, but we couldn’t follow them. A few pictures and back into the car. We drove out to the furthest reaches of town. The road that once cut through Jericho to the Dead Sea was now closed off on the other end. To get there now, you must go around the city. Down below you could see the Israeli road, busy with traffic, but where we were was desolate. Back to being a tourist, and our next venue that more than likely was closed, Monastery of the Temptation. We were at the bottom of the mountain and we wouldn’t have time to climb to the top, however, we did find out that the lone priest who lived there was in, not in Jerusalem as previously assumed and there was a chance that we could go it, if only the cable cars were running, then we could go to the top, see if we could get in, and back down just in time to go home. But, look! They moved! All right, it was worth a try. Back down the short drive over to the cable cars, grossly overpaid to ride, our guide came along for free and we were on the cable cars heading to the top of the mountain. From here you could see the lushness of the city, what had originally drawn people there 10,000 years ago. Jericho is situated next to a small river, Ain es-Sultan, and from here it draws all its water for irrigation of the land and living. It truly is an oasis in a desert. We made it to the end of the cable ride and up the stairs. Aw, shucks, this was nothing compared to Mt. Sinai. And we knocked. The priest shouted from the balcony that he was closed. I had to lean over the ledge that held people back from falling down the sheer face of the mountain in order to see him and plead for our visit. Apparently Arabs were not allowed in on Fridays. Fine, our guide would stay outside. He thought about it for a while and finally we heard footsteps. The door opened and there stood yet another ancient man. He let us in to a narrow stairway and to the monastery that wrapped the side of the mountain. How did they built this? Like so many churches, this seems to exist purely on will power. One wall of the church was stone with little doors that presumably led to little rooms. The other wall was the face of the mountain. Along the wall was a grotto where supposedly the devil tempted Jesus. A small chapel at the end completed our visit. The monk was anxious for us to leave. Apparently a group of Greek Orthodox visitors had arrived by bus from Russia. It was now their turn. We thanked the man, made it back to the cable car, waited for about 15 minutes for something to be repaired, and then headed back down. Below us was the ancient city with walls dating as far back as 7,000 B.C.E. This was yet another site that we wouldn’t be able to visit due to government closure. We drove our guide back to the town center, thanked him and paid him. He invited us back to anytime and we would be welcome with his family. Getting out turned out to be just as easy as getting in. During our time together, Rayek and I took many of the same pictures, which in some ways was good since his camera is simply better at certain shots than mine, but was also frustrating for the whole parroting thing. It interesting having a living shadow. It is also frustrating that he has many of my pictures on his camera because I came to depend on him for the shots I couldn’t get. He promises me a copy on CD when I get home. I hope this happens. Back to Jerusalem to return the car on King David street, the street that I most feared. But I drove it with ease. Returned the car just as Rahel called me. Turns out she was just across the street with a car and would wait for me. Bid farewell to Rayek and sent him to Mahane Yehuda for the Friday excitement, and met up with Rahel. Turns out that she has very little driving experience and I felt more comfortable driving in the city than she did. We made it back to her house for Friday night Shabbat dinner. This part you already know, and look at that! I am all caught up. Took almost exactly one hour. Now to upload all of this, take a shower and face the day. Its not sunny, but its not raining either.
I finally made it out this afternoon. Still raining and since yesterday had been so lovely, I had packed up my umbrella and was unable to find it before heading out today.
Sun, November 5, 2006 - 11:46 PM
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Before heading out though, I crossed paths with Elad. He was on his way to work and was dropping by to change his clothes. Gasp! He had cut off all his hair. He had been growing his hair out for about 8 months and had a pretty decent fro going on. When I was wet, nice and tidy, but when he played with it, it would puff up to a good size puffball. He apparently had had enough, and cut it all off. He asked me how I liked it and when I said it would take some getting used to, he said that I didn’t like it and he wanted to cry. Awww. Honestly, I tried to tell him before that somewhere in between would be best, but he seemed convinced otherwise. Now it is short all around and just and inch or so on top. Anyway, after the shock, I headed out in the rain. By golly, I had things to do, rain or not! Thankfully, the bus came quickly and I rode it all the way down to Ben Yahuda St. I have a list of things to take care of, miscellaneous odds and ends including final gifts. First stop, book store, to exchange Siddur, check! Second stop, Mahene Yehuda to buy some spices and teas for gifts and perhaps pick up a snack or two. Who should I run into there, Rayek. Too funny. I swear I didn’t tell him I would be there. We ended up both buying spices and shopping together. One gratuitous stop in a clothing store. Rayek suddenly is into shopping, and I found myself buying a sweater and some shirts. Well, at least I no longer have to borrow Elad’s sweater. I’m beginning to fear for what I will do for my short stay in London. Temperatures there are in the 50’s. This will help. Elad and Yonaton have just come home. They are so distracting. No wonder I haven’t done a fraction of the work here that I thought I would get done. Too much fun to just hang out with them and do nothing. I am resisting their call right now to stay here and type. We’ll see how long it lasts. A few more stops and we were finally on the mission that I had set out to do, to buy a tallit. I pretty much knew the one that I wanted and within an hour had secured a good price and had tallit in hand. I met up with Bettina for one final dinner before saying goodbye. I’m beginning to be sad about this whole thing. She dropped me off at home. I had thought to go back out and continue shopping, but realizing that I had the whole house to myself, I practiced my Torah portions. Wow, there is a light at the end of the tunnel there. I pretty much have the Haftorah down, now just to get my Torah. But I was able to sing along pretty well, and I remember that’s how it started with the Haftorah, so there is hope!!! Where was I? Right, Thursday morning, Stalactite Cave. I called Rayek up the night before and asked if he wanted to come along. There something good about being the only two people on vacation, you always have someone to do something with. I picked him up in my car, boy, it feels just like at home, and we drove out the same way I had come in the night before. It actually wasn’t that difficult to find the cave. This particular cave had been discovered when they were doing blasting for some mining. Now, they sealed up the hole in the hopes that they hadn’t destroyed the whole thing and give educational tours. It was a lot of fun and they sort of relish trying to find the shapes in the formations. We beat the crowds, for just as we were leaving, whole school busses showed up. Phew! Ok. I’m compromising, I’m bringing the computer out and will type out here, but they are talking in Hebrew and watching football so I might not as well be here. Why did they all me out of my warm bed? They seem to no longer care what I am doing, so back to the story. Once we finished the cave, I gave a call into Shoshanah. We were now in her neck of the woods and perhaps she would have some suggestions of something to do in the area, and she did. She recommended that we find this little monastery not too far from her house. The monastery, Beit Jammal, was a bit harder to find than I imagined. We passed the place twice before finally finding it. Rayek had been nice enough to bring a little picnic. Apparently he had an ulterior motive. He wanted to talk. Great. We talked and while I listened to what he had to say and I got to get a few things off my chest, somehow we ended up not in a lighter place but more pissed off than ever. I walked away a bit and he pretended not to hear me. Fine. So I walked around to corner to discover a basketball court filled with olives, no seriously. Olives! Thousands of them. We toured the small chapel in the back where supposedly Saint Peter’s remains had been originally placed. The man who shared the story of the chapel was so very old, between every sentence he had to stop to breath. I fear that he might not be around too much longer. Then back around to the front. Somewhere there was a shop to buy locally made olive oil and wine. We waited and expected our same guide. Instead we got this other old man, friendly and slightly crazy. The caretakers of this space are Italian, so I found myself trying to speak Italian-Hebrew-heavy-on-the-English-with-French-sprinkled-in. I have been saying “vente” instead of “esreem” ever since. It was a fun conversation and Rayek bought wine, oil and honey. As we were making our way to leave, I saw a nun closing a door that we hadn’t explored before. Shoshanah had said that there was singing at 4:00 but it was only 3 and we didn’t want to wait around, but my instinct said to stop. We should stay here. We turned around and just in time too. For some special reason, this day they would begin the singing early. A kind woman, not one of the nuns, let us in and showed us the way to the balcony of the chapel. We got up there just in time. The singing was astonishing, 4 and 5 part harmonies. The nuns and monks all dressed in white, standing, each in her own little cubicle on the side of the chapel of pale wood and white. The affect was just as it should be, you felt closer to G-d. This is a French order and apparently there are 10 such monasteries all over the world. Sadly, though, there came the point when the incense came out. I eventually was smoked out and had to listen to the remainder from the hallway. Shoshanah had said that you could purchase the music and I knew that Meghan would just love this. Sadly, though, they had sold out of the CD, however, our stalling in the shop had given Shoshanah and her husband Avraham time to show up. Turns out that she had been inspired to come hear the singing, but, well, as you know, it was early and they had missed it. Turns out though, Avraham and Rayek know each other through a Chochmat connection. Not too surprising. Rayek and I made our way back to Jerusalem and Rayek had a restaurant all picked out, however, we found ourselves going through Ein Karen and I remembered that this was supposed to be a sweet small town just outside of Jerusalem. And, look, there was a restaurant, and I wouldn’t have to fight downtown traffic and find parking. All good things in my book. Turns out to be a Lebanese restaurant, no, really, that’s what it was called, the Lebanese Restaurant. The food was good, and the cats entertaining. Rayek and I were only able to finish about half of our dinners, mine chicken and his turkey. While Rayek got up to go to the restroom, one of the cats made off with his chicken. It wasn’t like the cat jumped up on the table and I could shoo him away. No, he was trickier than that. All I saw was a set of ears as the chicken slipped off the table. Poor Rayek, I offered him my chicken, but chicken apparently doesn’t sit well with him. So much for lunch the next day. Dropping Rayek off at home, I called Elad and swung by Shoshi’s to pick him up. I am such a natural at driving in Jerusalem. I don’t know what I was worried about. Sex in the City has been interrupted for a newsbreak. Apparently some feel it necessary to have a pride parade here in Jerusalem. Last year they did this and someone was stabbed. Why? This simply doesn’t make sense. Why not have it in Tel Aviv? There isn’t any reason to have the parade in Sacramento when the community is in San Francisco. It just seems to provoke the other side. Back to the show and back to my story. The next day, Friday, would be my last day with a car, but I had to have the car back by 1:00. Where could we go with such a short amount of time? Why not Jericho? Well, there actually may be a “why not.” Turns out Jericho is part of the West Bank and Israelis are not allowed to go there. Many felt that it wouldn’t be safe for us to go, but we were willing to try. Passports in hand and just enough gas, we made our way to the boarder. You think we were going into Iran for all the fuss that everyone made. It really turned out to be very easy. We showed our passports first to the Israeli police and then to the Palestinian police. Everyone just waved us in.
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