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Rachel Naomi Remen, MD on Service

From the Cancer as a Turning Point Conference, Stanford University, 9/96

The life force is our mutual birthright and it can be trusted. We can serve life, all of us. But if you don’t trust life, you become helpers rather than servers. When you help someone you use your strength to help someone of lesser strength. We are always helping someone weaker than we are. I am aware of my own strength because I am using it, but I don’t serve with my strength. I serve with my wholeness, with everything I have. When I serve I become aware of my wholeness and I have a greater acceptance of it. My limitations serve, my imperfections serve, my wounds serve, even my darkness can serve. We don’t serve weak people. We are always serving equals. The wholeness in us serves the wholeness in others, the wholeness in life.

Serving is different from helping. Helping always incurs debt. If I help you, you owe me one. All of business is based on these kinds of arrangements. Helping can actually diminish the life force in us. But serving, like healing, is mutual. There is no debt. I am as served as the person I am serving. The life force in me is as served as the life force in you. It is a level playing field. Helping gives one a sense of power, and leads to a sense of satisfaction. Serving gives one a sense of belonging and gives one a sense of gratitude.

Serving is different than fixing. Fixing is a form of judgment. When I fix someone, I see them as broken. And I act on their brokenness. When I fix, I don’t see the wholeness on life, and I don’t trust it. Judgment always creates distance. There is always distance between me and the person I see myself fixing. There is an inequality usually of expertise. Service is not about expertise. Service is about being human. We can all serve the life force. The disconnection that is built into fixing makes it very difficult to fix and serve at the same time. We can only serve that which we are profoundly connected to. We cannot serve at a distance. Fixing is an experience of expertise and mastery. Service is an experience of mystery and surrender. A fixer feels casual. A server knows they are being used and is willing to be used by larger, unknown forces. Service is renewing. Fixing and helping drains you. Everyone who serves, serves the same thing: the wholeness and mystery of life, the wholeness and mystery of each other.
Sat, May 3, 2008 - 3:05 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
All the true vows
are secret vows
the ones we speak out loud
are the ones we break.

There is only one life
you can call your own
and a thousand others
you can call by any name you want.

Hold to the truth you make
every day with your own body,
don’t turn your face away.

Hold to your own truth
at the center of the image
you were born with.

Those who do not understand
their destiny will never understand
the friends they have made
nor the work they have chosen

nor the one life that waits
beyond all the others.

By the lake in the wood
in the shadows
you can
whisper that truth
to the quiet reflection
you see in the water.

Whatever you hear from
the water, remember,

it wants you to carry
the sound of its truth on your lips.

Remember,
in this place
no one can hear you

And out of the silence
you can make a promise
it will kill you to break,

that way you’ll find
what is real and what is not.

I know what I am saying.
Time almost forsook me
and I looked again.

Seeing my reflection
I broke a promise
and spoke
for the first time
after all these years

in my own voice,

before it was too late
to turn my face again.

By David White, from The House of Belonging
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 11:00 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
Of course, a craniosacral therapist would get off on this...

No, this is not an image born of Photoshop...

This is Lali, born one month ago to impoverished parents in Saini, 25 miles from New Delhi, with a rare condition known as craniofacial duplication. Even though this condition often comes with more serious health problems, she is doing well. She can eat out of both mouths and opens all four of her eyes at once. She even shares one dimple between her faces. Isn't she lovely? I really do think so...

The people of Northern India seem to think so as well. Hundreds of pilgrims have visited her to touch her feet out of respect and receive blessings. She is being worshipped as the reincarnation of the Hindu warrior goddess Durga, also known as Parvati. The village chief is going to build a temple to Durga there, to help raise money for the family to take care of Lali.

Maha Durga, or the Great Mother, was created from a fusion of all of the female divine forces. Legend has it that during a great battle with demons, Shiva advised all the gods to concentrate and release their shaktis. These formed into The Invincible One, with 10 arms holding each of the gods' weapons, and a tiger to ride. Durga protects humankind from evil and misery by destroying evil forces such as selfishness, jealousy, prejudice, hatred, anger, and ego.

Is that irony, Dave Eggers?

It just makes me wonder what would have happened to this little girl if she had been born into American culture, with its...excuse me...buttload of "evil forces"? OK, I know there is darkness all about, but what an amazing difference in perspective to worship someone who is unique and rare rather than worshipping the silicone goddess with the gleaming teeth known as Botoxia, whose single power is to turn a hairy stinking human into an ageless liposucked clone with a deer-in-the-headlights look and puffy lips.

But I'm ranting now....maybe I should go pack for my pilgrimage...


[Lali's photo credit: Manan Vatsyayana, AFP/Getty Images]
Wed, April 9, 2008 - 12:37 AM permalink - 2 comments
 

This morning it snowed
Big flakes, oblivious to
The fire in this room.
Naked at the window,
I wonder what the blooming
Trees think of spring.
Under you, I am bare,
Looking out through liquid.
My house is also yours.
Panes dripping with breath.

Ice crept in last night
With thin fingers,
Just above my breast.
Brittle crystals formed,
Beautiful and severe.
I want to crack this crust,
Break the habit of winter.
The frost wants to still me.
It congeals my joy,
Slows the nourishing sap.

Some plants require
The chill to blossom.
Even before the flurry ends,
Gentle melting begins.
You are solid, but not cold.
In your warmth I grow
Like one of your tiny trees.
Here inside there is movement.
Roots burst through bark.
I reach for your hand.
Sun, March 30, 2008 - 9:49 PM permalink - 1 comment
 

There are hours so crisp,
At the end of winter,
They taste like poetry.
This is the instant
The seed stirs in the ground.
Unraveling fronds
Build subterranean pressure.
On this breath the movement
Pulls and pushes evenly,
No effort.

I want to dance that way.
My body aches to push
Out toward the growing edge.
Why did I not move that way before?
It was so important to be small
That I could not laugh.
Unfurling is not a modest act.
The earth crumbles all around.
Trust is what I need,
Not effort.
Fri, March 21, 2008 - 10:12 AM permalink - 2 comments
 
If you have a chance to catch these monks who live in a refugee community in South India, they are on tour to raise money for a hospital which has been built from funds from a former tour, but which stands empty waiting for equipment and enough money to pay doctors salaries. Until then, this whole community and poor surrounding villages have no health care.
They are doing blessings and building sand mandalas throughout the US. I went to the healing ritual this morning and it was quite remarkable

The following was written by Lobsang Wangchuk of Gaden Shartse -


Gaden Shartse Monastic University is presently located in a refugee settlement in South India. Gaden Shartse is touring to raise funds to furnish our newly made hospital. Presently it stands empty and it is our wish that it be fully functioning by 2009.


This healing and purification removes all negativity, subdues negative states of mind and gives protection. The Lama will enter into a body, speech, and mind made of light; pour radiant nectars and rays of light into the crowns of participants and fill them with radiant bliss (removes gross negativity), sweep them with laser like rays (removes subtle negativities), subdue negative states of mind, evict and bind them with light; generate diamond like layers of light under the skin and around participants for protection. Each person will receive a photo of Vajravadharan; mantra, cord blessed by His Holiness the Dalai Lama and receive blessing pills.

www.gadenshartsetour.org <www.gadenshartsetour.org/>

562-794-6700
Sat, February 9, 2008 - 5:46 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
Looking through an old journal from 1992, I found the seeds of this poem. The more things change, the more they stay the same....


This morning it takes all my will
To lift my mind from slumber.

On these days
Crows huddle in the alder
Puffed up, beaks pointed silhouette

On these days
Clouds toss and tumble
Grey feather pillows hung out to air.

On these days
Dreams fight to stay alive
In the world of wake believe

This morning it takes all my will
To remember I am alone.
Mon, November 12, 2007 - 10:33 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
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Quotation Bank

The art of medicine consists in amusing the patient while nature cures the disease.
--Voltaire, French Philosopher (1694-1778)

You do not have to be good, you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft warm animal of your body love what it loves.
~Mary Oliver

"When you get into a tight place and it seems that you can't go on, hold on, for that's just the place and the time that the tide will turn."
--Harriet Beecher Stowe

"A rock pile ceases to be a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral."
--Antoine De Saint-Exupery

I believe that the moment is near when by a procedure of active paranoiac
thought, it will be possible to systematize confusion and contribute to the
total discrediting of the world of reality. -- Salvador Dali

Let your Wit rather serve you for a buckler to defend yourself, by a handsome reply, than the Sword to wound others, though with never so facetious a Reproach, remembering that a Word cuts deeper than a sharper weapon, and the Wound it makes is longer curing. -- Osborn


The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of altering their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit their views ... which can be very uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.
-- Doctor Who, "Face of Evil"

There’s a trick to the graceful exit. It begins with a vision to recognize when a job, a life stage, or a relationship is over – and let it go. It means leaving what’s over without denying its validity or its past importance to our lives. It involves a sense of future, a belief that every exit line is an entry....
--Ellen Goodman
Columnist - Boston Globe

What is life? It is the flash of a firefly in the night. It is the breath
of a buffalo in the wintertime. It is the little shadow which runs
across the grass and loses itself in the sunset.
--Crowfoot, Native American warrior and orator (1821-1890)

I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to
do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires.
-Susan B Anthony (1820-1906)

The folly of mistaking a paradox for a discovery, a metaphor for a proof, a torrent of verbiage for a spring of capital truths, and oneself for an oracle, is inborn in us.
--Paul Valery, poet and philosopher (1871-1945)

You drown not by falling into a river, but by staying submerged in it.¨
- Paulo Coelho

"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering
is worse than the suffering itself.
And that no heart has ever suffered when
it goes in search of its dreams..."
- Paulo Coelho, "The Alchemist"

"When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy" --Rumi

"It's been so long since I've had sex, I've forgotten who ties up whom."
Joan Rivers

There is a road from the eye to the heart that does not go through the intellect.
--G.K. Chesterton, essayist and novelist (1874-1936)

”The world is within you and the whole world is springing up from it.” --Rumi

It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness.
-- Leo Tolstoy

"Security is mostly superstition, it doesn't exist in nature, nor do the children of men, taken as a whole, experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing." --Helen Keller (1880-1968)

Faith is an oasis in the heart which will never be reached by the caravan of thinking.
-Kahil Gibran

Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel...
--(Polonius to Laertes, his son.) from Hamlet.

"Never shake the bucket of nuts before you're tied to the yak rope."
-Peter Dorje
"Whassat!?...", you say?
See news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south...4644933.stm

“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.” – Mark Twain

Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns. ~George Eliot

“Only when you are in the flow of your dreaming, can you experience real power.”
- Tibetan proverb
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on Service (blog entry) Rachel Naomi Remen, MD on Service

From the Cancer as a Turning Point Conference, Stanford University, 9/96

The life force is our mutual birthright and it can be trusted. We can serve life, all of us. But if you don’t trust life, you become... read more
blog entry posted Sat, May 3, 2008 - 3:05 PM permalink - 0 comments
Amazing poem by David White (blog entry) All the true vows
are secret vows
the ones we speak out loud
are the ones we break.

There is only one life
you can call your own
and a thousand others
you can call by any name you want.

Hold to the truth you make
every day with your o... read more
blog entry posted Fri, May 2, 2008 - 11:00 PM permalink - 1 comment
Parvati herself... (blog entry) Of course, a craniosacral therapist would get off on this...

No, this is not an image born of Photoshop...

This is Lali, born one month ago to impoverished parents in Saini, 25 miles from New Delhi, with a rare condition known as craniofacia... read more
blog entry posted Wed, April 9, 2008 - 12:37 AM permalink - 2 comments
He Grows Trees (blog entry)
This morning it snowed
Big flakes, oblivious to
The fire in this room.
Naked at the window,
I wonder what the blooming
Trees think of spring.
Under you, I am bare,
Looking out through liquid.
My house is also yours.
Panes dripping with ... read more
blog entry posted Sun, March 30, 2008 - 9:49 PM permalink - 1 comment
Germination (blog entry)
There are hours so crisp,
At the end of winter,
They taste like poetry.
This is the instant
The seed stirs in the ground.
Unraveling fronds
Build subterranean pressure.
On this breath the movement
Pulls and pushes evenly,
No effort.

... read more
blog entry posted Fri, March 21, 2008 - 10:12 AM permalink - 2 comments
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