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My fiancée left me yesterday

   Mon, May 23, 2011 - 8:39 AM
I cried a lot yesterday, probably will cry some more today, even now the tears are barely being held back. I love her so much, and think she is making the wrong decision, I told her that, but I had to let her go, no amount of tears or begging would keep her here. She thinks she wants to be with her ex again, and so she moved her stuff out and is moving into a friend's place and is going to see how that all works out. I wish her the best and hope she becomes happy again. 6 months of pretty good times, very sad that it is over.



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Mon, May 23, 2011 - 9:31 AM
love has made you brave, brother, to let her go like that
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 2:36 PM
Oh, sweetheart, I'm so very, very sorry.
Unsu...
 
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 2:59 PM
awww, that sucks big time.
Unsu...
 
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 3:02 PM
eat lots of ice cream

work out like crazy to work off the ice cream

eat more ice cream, only this time add peanut m&ms and crumbled cookies
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 5:56 PM
100% empathy, SB. I know only too well there's nothing I can say that will be of any use to you now, except MAYBE this:

once the stink of despair wears off, you will be slightly more attractive to women than you were before the engagement. Something evolutionary at work there; I don't pretend to understand it, but I do intend to revel in it.
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 7:32 PM
All my sym- and empathy! Look what a great online support group you have and have well deserved!!!
Mon, May 23, 2011 - 7:54 PM
something better is ahead for you sticky.
Sat, June 11, 2011 - 6:18 AM
HI Dear J:

saddened to learn such news. I hope you will be feeling OK soon. Just to let you know, I ran through your situation just about the same time as you did. its not easy especially if love is involved. But we are all believers and must be patient and hang in there!

As long as you had done everything in your power to keep this relationship alive and well (and I am sure you did), but in the end its simply God's will. This doesn't mean that its the end of the world, maybe you lines will cross again with your ex in the near future, so all you can do is stay as friends for now. You never know.

its says in the holy Quran: <<But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not.>> Al Baqarah 2:216.

Be well bro. Greetings from Palestine!

Cheers,
Sami