Randal is a sleek cat creature who slides along the walls and catches me off guard. Intense is a good word for him. Other good words for him are: artist, generous, teacher, student, skeptic, believer, guide and wanderer.

(he's also a fabulous cook and does a great ant attack)

Living with Randal is a daily education- full of surprises and tremendous fun.

Randal is not only a whirlwind of creative costumes and photography, but he alwasys strikes me as very present, spiritual, vulnerable creature with an unabashed honesty.....What will he do next?????

I fell in love with Randal over tea wearing bedsheets, or maybe it was over an old neon clock, chocolate covered asparagus and again the moment I met him. Randal is the only man I have loved forever, will love always and completely unconditionally. Randal is my socially unacceptable, worldly responsible, sagely wise, creative genius twin. I miss him daily, he is my..."life used to be so grand." I have never been as beautiful to anyone as he finds me, as he leaves me. I can never be a drag queen without him. And he has all the answers...all the answers in the universe. He is my male ant woman. When my son is horribly brilliant, I think, yes, he will be like Randal. Randal zapped him with photographic pychic genes while my son was still in womb after all. That is what that flash was, wasn't it? Did I say I adore Randal. Keeper of my secrets, the man who has dressed me up and tucked me in more than any other. I adore Randal.