the event-horizon technique

Try to meditate for one or two minutes at a time, throughout the day, as you are able. Be aware that the benefit of your meditation session may not be visible for 3 to 12 hours. That’s a concept from the Kabbalah, that many scholars never mention. You should know this. And even if you don’t completely understand this now, then put it in the back or your mind until one day, in the future, when you need it, and suddenly you’ll “see” and understand it.

Remember, your focused meditation or prayers almost always have a time delay. In this way, you should know that the results of your efforts to meditate or pray, will not be felt for 3 to 12 hours. So to get stated, you must persist, even when there is no sign of immediate reward. That’s the difficult part.

After you meditate, don’t forget to notice, sometime during the next 3 to 6 hours, a momentary insight or an strengthened physical persona. The result of your focused meditation will be a common coincidence or sustained influence of a bit of healing light.

It will take some practice, and time, to build your awareness of the cause and effect associations. Look for each minute or two or momentary focused meditation, to produce a causal effect 3-12 hours later.

As you work through your day there are many times when you can stop for a minute or two to meditate or pray. The more often you meditate, the more of these causal events you’ll have to watch out for, 3-12 hours later. If you’re vigalent, there could easily be dozens! How then can you tell, which meditative session– or which mediative technique, produced what causal result? What might seem daunting at first, is actually very easy to do in practice. Let me explain.

When considering the interaction between you– your physical body and the higher realms of consciousness, which you are attempting to communicate with; be aware there is no such thing as time. This technique will work whether or not you understand this. But, if you’re interested: on the astral plane, which is sometimes referred to the other-side, or heaven and hell, there is no such thing as time. Past, present, and future co-exist.

To make this technique work, all you need to know, is how to associate all the focused mediative causal efforts you set into motion, with the 3-12 hour delayed, inner or outer light, causal events you’ve created. It’s easy! Really. Simply associate the most recent causal effort with the most recent causal effect. In this way, you will “see”, much to the suprise of your usual time impared perspective, that they mesh up perfectly.

The more you do this, the more you will notice that the response time, or turn around time, between the cause and the eventual effect, gets smaller and smaller, until they get so close together, you cause a cascade. That’s when the causes and effects are just minutes or second apart. This is called a cascade of synchronicity or a coincidence cascade. It is during these times that you will learn the most about your cause and effect abilities. You may ask questions, make requests, and show gratitued, much the way you usually do in prayer or meditation, but here, the turn around time is so short, that you “can” in a very real sense converse with God, or at least build a more informed and intimate relationship with whatever world you use to represent God in your life.

This is how you build the muscles of faith. Thus, this event horizon technique will be to you, as free weights are to body builders.

(c) 2-20-07 by Paul Zozem

8 years old is having extreme difficulty dealing with her empathic abilities...

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My daughter, 8 years old, is having extreme difficulty dealing with her empathic abilities at school during the day. My empathic abilities were largely stifled by my parents and family as a child- I was taught to suppress rather than cope- and I don't feel I have any more suggestions to offer her (i.e. I'm out of my league). She comes home saying things like "Nathaniel choked Elia at school and it made my throat hurt" and "When the kids get out of control and yell, it makes my whole body hurt". She wants to bang her head against the wall at times when such occurrences happen and I worry that if she does not find some coping skills and FAST that this will develop into self injurious behavior. She has no other problems in school socializing or following directions, though concentrating does seem to be an issue. She recoils at the thought of us pulling her from school and homeschooling because she genuinely *wants* to be there. We've tried teaching her to ground herself and put a protective bubble of light around herself, and this works at home, but not at school with all the input she receives. Crystals? Homeopathy? What helps extremely sensitive children in these situations?

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This is a very interesting situation. Obviously you have a gifted daughter, what advice I might give you, could easily be contrary to what a professional therapist would suggest. One thing for sure, your daughter needs someone who can "see" on her level. Whether or not, you can be that person, in her life, will take time to unfold.

There are two ways to go. 1- encouraging her empathic abilities, in which case you'd end up being a coach. Or 2- teaching her ignore her empathic perceptions, which is what most of us were taught. The deciding factor must of course be her ability to keep focused. Find out which way allows her to do better-- as in get better grades in school. I'm not sure which way would be better but if you try both, I'm pretty sure you'll find one path is clearly more productive.

If that leads away from developing her emapthic abilities now, it's a small sacrifice for the essential survival skills she is now leaning, know as education. Her empathic abilities will never go away, if she has to ignore it, for the time being, don't worry. There will be a continual outpouring of other opportunities as she gets older.

For now, you're going to coach her. I'm sorry. But I don't think your current tack will be successful. Teaching her to shield herself with a protective bubble of light, or "grounding" herself, my heard by her, as nothing more than confusing rhetoric. Even adults who have dealt with this all their lives don't have the visualization skill to do this effectively; which would require holding multiple visual images in the minds eye, then manipulating those images to produce the desired effect, and then-- continue doing so, until it's a familiar habit. No. I don't think she is ready for this.

Try this. Just be honest with her. Tell her, she is seeing and feeling things that other people don't, because she's special. And while it may be difficult for her now, thanks to her special abilities, she's going to be very successful. You don't need to use those exact works. Say it any way you want. She will grab onto the idea that she is special. Once she believes that, then at least during these empathic occurrences, she will always be aware that not everybody shares her perceptions.

Also, if you have to discuss this with any other adults, it would be better NOT to mention empathy, or even being highly sensitive. As neither are admirable. Put it in your mind that your daughter may have a higher IQ than most children. A concern expressed from that point of view, would be much better received by other adults, and will likely get many more people on her side, which will only reinforce her positive growth.

Maybe a music teacher might be helpful.

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telepaths & clairvoyants using affirmations to manage synchronicity and coincidence

> I need your advise how NOT to be afraid and how to deal
> with this increasing energy-clairvoyance in me.. I just feel
> a bit scared since the increase is so vast and in every aspect.

When you push far enough, or more aptly, hold on long enough, your empathic tendencies become telepathic. The difference being, that one requires the presence of the individual, the other requires only a picture in your minds eye. And of course it is always easiest to be telepathic with those who are similarly charged.

But you asked about fear and clairvoyance. Pushing yourself to your limit, going further than you have before; when days and nights almost start to blend together and you begin to question which one is which, there– at that point– that’s when the clairvoyance kicks in. Clairvoyance is just a channel selector for your telepathic abilities. In this realm, it is not just day and night that meld together, but time itself. And with practice you learn to distinguish the purely lucid from the precognitive.

As for fear. There should always be fear when you push yourself to your limits, for as you do, you are always given more power of discernment and direction. The more often you visit these new unfamiliar places, the more familiar they become, and the easier it is to avail yourself of, or simply channel, these new powers of travel and perception.

Yes, it is daunting to come face to face with synchronicity and the ability to direct these coincidences. New empaths, still facing such basic obstacles of responsibility and finding some mediative technique that works consistently, cannot go there. But even they, now in their inexperienced interest, can with very little effort learn to direct synchronicity. While they may not be able to consciously get themselves there; as they happen to find themselves there, as is often the case, when they do– when coincidneces are prevalent– that is the time to make an effort to direct them. Very little effort can produce startling results.

This is in fact the whole area of affirmations. Many say affirmations or prayers don’t work for them. Either they are not charged or centered enough, or they have no idea how to construct a simple affirmation. Don’t ask for material things, especially those that are not at all likely to be presented to you. It is always best to start by asking for signs. These are very easy to get, as there is always an uncertainty and vagueness about how they will appear. Do not be phased by your inability to interpret the signs as they arrive. Just make a mental note of each one. Write them down if you dare. If you have any doubt about a sign’s true meaning, they simply disregard it.

It is a great misnomer that an opportunity missed can never be gotten back again. If you are destined to be or do something, then you will continually receive signs and opportunities leading you in that direction, at least until something or someone changes your destiny.

So… you make an affirmation by saying to yourself something like, “I’m not going to make a decision until I see a sign point one way or the other.” Then you must keep that in the back of your mind for a while, attentively waiting and watching for that sign. In time you may get bored and forget to watch, but by that time your subconsicous mind has taken the suggestion, and will be watching for you.

This process of using affirmations to direct synchronicity is an essential technique for any telepath. Sometimes it may take days for the sign to appear. If you are charged enough– to the point where you are are seeomg a cascade of coincidences, responses to your affirmations can appear in a matter of minutes.

Sasha and my Early Qabalah days

> I’d like to know why you came to choose the system
> you now use to operate in your daily life?

When I was in my 20’s I took the whole hippie doctrine to heart, and spent many years traveling from teacher to teacher, learning what ever I could, looking for some great secret wisdom. I was a silversmith back then; living and traveling in camper van, always rolling in to a new town with my tank near empty, and only change in my pocket. This was the norm for me, and more or less, what I was comfortable with. I always knew, in a few days, or a couple of weeks at worse, I’d sell enough jewelry and be able to leave… if I wanted to.

One warn winter, in Tucson, Arizona, I was introduced to this an elderly woman named Sasha. She wanted me to pay for Qabalah lessons. I objected, telling her, “None of my other teachers asked for money!”

She assured me that if I took her “lessons” I would earn much more money– and I’d easily be able to afford the lessons. I took her up on her challenge… and sure enough… within a couple of weeks, I meet Simon, who agreed to purchase all the jewelry I could produce. And so… twice a week for about a year, I visited with Sasha where she taught me from the book, the Mystical Qabalah by Dion Fortune.

I’ll never forget the last time I saw her. She told me, “Someday you will no longer travel to find new teachers. You will be able to look within and find as many teachers as you want.”

She also said, “There is nothing more for me to teach you.”

At the time, I didn’t understand what she meant by finding teachers within, but the part about having taught me all she could, made me feel really good. It was as though she knew I was leaving before I uttered a word.

So to answer your question. I don’t think I really choose the Qabalah. It choose me.

My love for Swami Vivekananda’s teachings, and all he taught me about Karma and Raja yoga, before I was introduced to Qabalah, has never diminished. But it was the Qabalah that provided me the my first glimpse of that “secret wisdom” that I so diligently sought.

Sure, the Qabalah is many things to many people, but the one thing that distinguishes it from other disciplines, is this skill of being able to look within to find reliable teachers. It took many years, but sure enough, it is, just as Sahsa said, “You will be able to look within and find as many teachers as you want.”

That’s what her lessons were really about. At the time, a lot of what she taught me didn’t make sense. But over the years, slowly all the pieces are fitting together. Now, having lived over 20 years, with these “inner teachers” the mechanics of all this, is always plainly evident. So much so, that it is very easy for me to teach to others. It’s all about telepathy. And… this blog is my attempt to reach out and offer others… and offer them the same lessons I received… when I was young.

Note to blog reader: This post is completely different FORMAT from my usual Q&A posts. If you like this format better, do leave a comment.

Paul Zozem
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light body calastenics, genies, meditative ruts

> their presence gets so intense that I panic and can’t meditate at all.

Sounds like you already know the remedy is some form of meditation. No doubt you already have some skills in this area.

There is technique of meditation that you already know about. An ideal technique for these kinds of situations. Let me provide you with a review. You simply need to build and maintain a strong center.

Meditating for 20 minutes a day twice or a day, OR even for hour hours a day, every day, still misses the mark. Eventually you will want to take your meditative skills and build a strong center. Meditative skills are like tools. Use these tools to build yourself a house of light. This is often called a light body. And the door to that house of light… is your center.

Almost anything can be used as a center. You breath, your hands, a image in your minds eye, even an inanimate object like a ring or necklace. Be careful though with those material objects, least you end up someone’s genie. I digress.

Lets me use the breath as an example, since that is the most common technique of meditation. Instead meditating for an hour a day, you meditate for 1 minute 100 times a day. This is called a center. Periodically throughout your day you CONTINUALLY come back to your breath. Even if you have a busy work schedule, you’d be surprised at how often you can spare a minute. How many breaths can you count in a minute. Make that your basis.

In this way, your meditative state is always ready at hand, to provide you with a moment of clarity or relief from some stressful situation. In time, as you build a stronger and stronger center, it becomes a part of you– like a piece of clothing. Some call it a light body.

Ordinarily when meditating, it takes a while to get into a deep meditative state. The longer you work with a center, the quicker it is to get into that the proper state.

In the beginning you will need to initiate your focus on your center. When your center or your breath calls out to you, reminding your to initiate focus, then you know you are making real progress.

Tantra & Telepathy

> Does masturbation count as “sexual activity”?

The MOST IMPORTANT aspect is to “see” this energy as being quantitative. Each morning you wake up. Look around, and what ever is there. That’s what you’ve got for the day. As to what degree of activity diminishes your level, this should be obvious through experimentation. Without getting to graphic, let me just say, a little sip of water can sometimes take you a great distance.

> I find that when I work on deep intimate levels with
> another being I feel drained and so deeply connected
> to that person that I no longer have the perspective and
> clarity to be able to further my own metaphysical
> education. But I don’t necessarily feel that they
> are diminished,”

Yes. Your light energy is passing to them. You become them. Your energy supports them. You work momentarily stalls, but that is okay because they are uplifted, if that is what you intended. Even though everyone tries to be equal, light energy usually flows from one partner to the other. Before equality can is reached both must be able to assess their own energy level, and then that of others.

Sometimes I sit at the mall and watch all the people go by. I can “see” exactly how much light energy each person carries, as clearly as their hair color. Every once in a while, some psychic or spiritually evolved person will walk by, no matter how they are dressed, with the glance of eye, we each recognize each others conscious level of light. A subtle smile– a telepathic high five– and the crowd moves on. Why do I tell you this? To emphasize that the most important step, is to be able to “see” this energy quantitatively. From day to day, as you awake, you should always know whether you have progressed or slipped back.

> My question is, then, Is there a way to integrate these
> two processes? The deep union of two people coming
> together in sexual expression with the personal journey
> of nurturing one’s own psychic abilities? I haven’t yet
> learned this secret- I am curious if others have any
>wisdom to share.”

Couples working together for a shared goal– that’s an unconscious Tantra. As for conscious Tranta, no one can go one indefinably. But if you can share goals and milestones, it may seems so.

> I have found in about 20% of my students that it is quite
> the opposite, that the more sex the person has the more
> energy he/she is able to activate, control, and utilize.
> Typically these students are female, but I have seen
> such differences manifest in one or two males.

As for, “the more energy he/she is able to activate,” I see this. Yes. But you’re talking a different kind of energy. While we’ve been talking about saving up all this light energy, we have yet to discuss the many possibilities of spending this energy. Each has their place and time. If you’re going to go before a crowd, you want to have as much saved up as possible. If you’re composing a song, or painting a canvas, you can easily get stuck, unless you’re willing to spend a little.

Note: These Q&A questions were not from the same person. Though they all arrived within one or two days of each other.

Paul Zozem
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The key to telepathy: Not all celibates are saints. Not all saints are celibate.

> Does sex reduce telepathic abilities?

Just because you are sexually active does not mean you will not mean your telepathic abilities will disappear.

You will notice though if you experiment with this, by refraining from sexual activity for a little while, your telepathic abilities will continue to get strong, each day– day after day. Within a week, what you telepathic abilities will provide you with a very intense, even overwhelming experience. At that point, sex will drop the intensity by more than half– sometimes as much as 90%. The drop off depends on two factors. 1- The higher you’ve climbed, 2- your degree of sexual activity.

If you do choose to experiment with this, I promise you, there is a level of telepathy that you never imagined, where your senses will be filled, with not just relationships, but perceptions of another world completely. It is not a passive experience, like watching a show. It is more like driving a very fast car, where you must continually maintain balance and control. Your sixth sense that opens this world to you, is not like any of your other senses. If will take you years to grasp all the rules of the road, and then to find your way around.

I should warn you though, if you decide to conduct such experiments, especially if you are challenged to push this experience as far as it can go– be careful. Don’t drive a car if you are extremely charged– for a untrained mind, can easily instigate accidents in the immediate vicinity. For me, that is always a sign to back off. When your telepathic experience coincide with sirens, that a big warning sign, it’s time to stop the experiment.

Telepathic conversations are just the first step. There is an entire universe to explore. Call it the other side. Call it the astral plane. It is all right there before you from the comfort of your home and front yard. What makes exploring this world so difficult, aside from not knowing your way around, or not having a familiar frame of reference in the physical world, is that your every thought, quickly comes back to you in a very pronounced and noticeable way. For this reason, it is imperative you stay calm and think good thoughts. Bad thoughts produce bad results. It’s pretty simple like.

To everyone in this group: If you do decide to experiment and push-the-envelop, do let me know. I myself have spent my entire life pushing this realm to it’s limits and will be able to offer techniques and advice as you progress.

> In reference to what you said though, virgins would be highly telepathic, no?

Oh yes… good point. I guess there is another step which I forgot to mention. Sorry. Virgins, even though they do not have an active sex life, do experience up and downs in the amount of sexual-magnetic-light energy they carry. Even children do. This is usually based on the habits instilled in them by their parents. Once an individual becomes sexually active then they have the opportunity to notice how their sexual energy affects others. This happens to everyone. A young girl notice how heads turn when she walks by. A young boy gains new found respect from his peers.

Most people go their entire lives without taking it to the next step. And that is the simple realization that sexual-magnetic-light energy is quantitative. Only after having this realization is it possible to amass great quantities.

It’s done all the time without even putting one toe into the other side. A professional singer knows having a good voice is not enough. They must raise their sexual-magnetic-light energy to the point where they can captivate others. Once you see there is a quantitative factor, THEN it is possible to experiment.

What starts out as an quantitative awareness of sexual energy– becomes magnetic energy when you get to the point where you see that your pretense alone affects others. Continue on, and you learn that you can heal or assist others. At that point you’re dealing with light energy. When you’re starting out, all you can see is sexual energy, and in that context, it is relatively easy to grasp the quantitative aspect.

Of course there is the first-barrier. Normally when most people carry more sexual energy than their body is accustomed to, it dissipates while they sleep. So… you must also learn to sleep differently.

And lastly, if you do decide to experiment, you do NOT need to take a vow of celibacy. Going for long periods without sexual activity does not get you there. Or else all celibates would be saints.

BUT it is good to know how to be a saint for a week or two. Sometimes, when you need to be at your best. Sometimes it’s a good place to be. Whether you have a job interview, a public appearance, or just a important date, everything will go you way. It’s a good skill to learn. It’s a good skill to have. But you definitely don’t want to be there all the time. It’s like sky diving. Very exhilarating– but you don’t want to live there.

Once you learn how this is done, it doesn’t take long to get there. A few days or a week the most is all you need. That’s why I always say, “Not all celibates are saints. Not all saints are celibate.” Simple really.

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