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Dear Soul Mate – You know, I just realized I’ve been meeting you in my dreams for years. Ever since I was a teenager, I’ve been having dreams where I meet you and feel such sweet, warm, all-encompassing love – a love I’ve never felt in ‘real’ life. The funny thing is that you look different in every dream: dark, fair, skinny, stocky, once a
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Why the Housing Market Crash Has Been Good For Me So one of my dreams has always been to own my own home. Even as a teenager, I used to dream about having my own place. It would be some old farmhouse, with a big yard, and maybe a big old tree. My friends and family would come over and we’d cook food together, share stories, create stuff, laugh a
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Dear 2007, Wow, it’s been a whole year! I can hardly believe it. It seems like only yesterday that I was down in Santa Cruz with my friends listening to the revelry as the clock struck 2007. I know we got off to a rocky start: horrible emotional throw-downs with on-again-off-again boyfriends can be like that. And at a Christmas party, no less! (yes, I know technically that was in 2006, but the
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Winter Wonderland Going through my mom's photo album several months ago, I came across two photos of myself that I borrowed, scanned, and had printed on photo paper. One of them is on my mantle, and one is on my altar, where I put little trinkets and symbolic objects to remind myself of what's important in life. One photo is of me as a little girl, probably 2 or 3 years old. I'm naked, leaning
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Be Here. Now!!Further thoughts on why self-help does not help the self When I was a kid, maybe 11 or 12, I remember listening as my mom sat on the stairs and talked to her friend on the phone. She was disconsolate, maybe even crying, and I remember very clearly her whispering into the phone: “Is this all there is?” At the time, I didn’t know what that meant, only that my mom was upset and I
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When the going gets bad, the bad laugh until the going slinks out the door in shame and disgrace. I've been called a witch, a bitch, an iconoclast, a genius, a ditz, and just about everything in between. When in doubt, I just flip my hair around until an answer becomes apparent. I'm constantly in search of the sublimely ridiculous, which always makes me laugh. Luckily, it's getting more and more common. I'm not a good housekeeper, nor a good gardener, and only pursue my goals in the most half-assed of ways, yet everything seems to work out OK.
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When Boundaries Make Fences (blog entry) I’ve always been a person with a heightened sense of integrity. Even as a kid, I worried about money, wanting to be as independent as possible, to not put a financial strain on my parents (as if that was ever an issue; my dad was a doctor!). I rar... read more
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Something's Happening Here....What it Is Ain't Exactly Clear (blog entry) So I've had some kind of transformation lately. I haven't written about it because the truth is, I don't know what to make of it.

Let's start from the beginning. As the two readers of my blog know, I can be kind of cynical about self-help, even... read more
blog entry posted Thu, April 10, 2008 - 4:45 PM permalink - 6 comments
Please Help me Help Others, AKA HB Asks for Money for a Good Cause! (blog entry) Hi everybody – Some of you may know that last summer, I went down to New Orleans to help rebuild houses with Habitat for Humanity and some other organizations. After that, I decided I wanted to do more work with Habitat, but reasoned that, instead... read more
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Letter to my Soul Mate (blog entry) Dear Soul Mate –

You know, I just realized I’ve been meeting you in my dreams for years. Ever since I was a teenager, I’ve been having dreams where I meet you and feel such sweet, warm, all-encompassing love – a love I’ve never felt in ‘real’ ... read more
blog entry posted Fri, March 21, 2008 - 10:19 AM permalink - 1 comment
Why the Housing Market Crash Has Been Good For Me (blog entry) So one of my dreams has always been to own my own home. Even as a teenager, I used to dream about having my own place. It would be some old farmhouse, with a big yard, and maybe a big old tree. My friends and family would come over and we’d cook ... read more
blog entry posted Thu, March 6, 2008 - 4:35 PM permalink - 6 comments
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The Pure Sweetness of Local Honey

I’ve always been a person with a heightened sense of integrity. Even as a kid, I worried about money, wanting to be as independent as possible, to not put a financial strain on my parents (as if that was ever an issue; my dad was a doctor!). I rarely asked for things that cost money, and I got my first job as soon as I was old enough. Even then, every decision I made seemed weighty. Is it right? Is it good? Am I making that decision for the right reason? When I would go on road trips with my ... read more
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So I've had some kind of transformation lately. I haven't written about it because the truth is, I don't know what to make of it.

Let's start from the beginning. As the two readers of my blog know, I can be kind of cynical about self-help, even though I work in the industry (maybe because I do.) Posts like this one (honeybtemple2.blogspot.com/2007...html) , and this one (honeybtemple2.blogspot.com/2007...l)are a testament to m... read more
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Hi everybody – Some of you may know that last summer, I went down to New Orleans to help rebuild houses with Habitat for Humanity and some other organizations. After that, I decided I wanted to do more work with Habitat, but reasoned that, instead of flying 2,600 miles from home, I could do more good here in my own community.

To that end, I’ve signed up for Habitat’s “Build-a-thon” to be held over the Earth Day weekend (April 19-22). This project will involve completely framing six homes i... read more
Thu, March 27, 2008 - 4:54 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
Dear Soul Mate –

You know, I just realized I’ve been meeting you in my dreams for years. Ever since I was a teenager, I’ve been having dreams where I meet you and feel such sweet, warm, all-encompassing love – a love I’ve never felt in ‘real’ life. The funny thing is that you look different in every dream: dark, fair, skinny, stocky, once a dentist, once a botanist. Maybe that’s just dream language, maybe it’s because I love everything about you – all of your aspects. But there have been ... read more
Fri, March 21, 2008 - 10:19 AM permalink - 1 comment
 
So one of my dreams has always been to own my own home. Even as a teenager, I used to dream about having my own place. It would be some old farmhouse, with a big yard, and maybe a big old tree. My friends and family would come over and we’d cook food together, share stories, create stuff, laugh a lot, drink wine, and maybe even change the world. Yes, I did spend a lot of time daydreaming back then.

A little over three years ago, I finally decided to do it. I had a good professional job in... read more
Thu, March 6, 2008 - 4:35 PM permalink - 6 comments
 
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