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I am, in varying order and to varying degrees: a mother, a bartender, homeless, a bookkeeper, a doctoral candidate, tattooed, a wife, a poet, a native New Yorker, a thief... but never a beggarman.
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but a little less boring than recent lists.

1. What do you do for physical exercise? Twirl my hair.

2. Do you enjoy eating black licorice? Yes. Even salted. Can thank my first husband for that habit. Damned Swedes!

3. Have you ever had or been a mentor? Yes and yes.

4. What beverages do you typically consume in day? Coffee, water and maybe one glass of sparkling with a splash of juice.

5. Do you know how to sew? I can darn a sock and replace a button, but that's about it.
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Sat, August 22, 2009 - 10:57 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
Edna St. Vincent Millay wrote what I think is the one of the best (love) poems, ever:

Love is not all: It is not meat nor drink
Nor slumber nor a roof against the rain,
Nor yet a floating spar to men that sink
And rise and sink and rise and sink again.
Love cannot fill the thickened lung with breath
Nor clean the blood, nor set the fractured bone;
Yet many a man is making friends with death
Even as I speak, for lack of love alone.
It well may be that in a difficult hour,
Pinned do... read more
Sun, July 5, 2009 - 11:47 PM permalink - 7 comments
 
For the past two days, London (and the rest of southeast England) lay still under a blanket of snow. Not a particularly thick blanket, to be sure, but a blanket nonetheless; from the speedy suspension of transport, businesses and schools to the ease with which people declared spontaneous holiday, there was a bit of the Sunday morning cuddle going on in the streets, when you just don't want to get out of bed and decide the day is an unday. People gave in to the snow even as they found themse... read more
Tue, February 3, 2009 - 11:17 PM permalink - 5 comments
 
OK, here goes, I must 'fess up 'cause it's turning my soul to mush -- I cannot stand a child. Just flat-out don't like her, she grates on me, she's only four. Damn.

Five weeks ago, I began taking care of a child other than my own. Her mother, a newfound friend with whom I'd bonded bitching about a crap-ass childminder, was unable to find childcare before starting her new job. Since I am, a. a stay-at-home mother with a daughter almost the exact same age as hers, b. a sucker, and, c. so... read more
Thu, November 13, 2008 - 10:30 PM permalink - 7 comments
 
Being (at least in practice) new to this site, the outages of the past couple of months were sufficient to dampen my initial Tribe enthusiasm. Inaccessibility is bad enough, but must the administrators specify the outage length and thereby instill false hope? Why not just say, "We are utterly clueless as to when Tribe will be back and suggest you try again in a week"? Or, if such a humble self-assessment is too much to expect from anyone in this day and age, why not the ambiguous, "Pl... read more
Tue, October 21, 2008 - 11:27 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
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