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Jen and Box at Harmoney Festival 2006
about me
So...about me...this is always a bit difficult for me...what do you want to know? This is some of what I say about myself on my work (KHUM) web page, khum.com/fsetmark.html: I was born right here in Humboldt County in 1969, first daughter to two Humboldt State students. After graduation, our family moved away from the area. I spent most of my growing-up years inland from here about 150 miles in beautiful, but HOT, Redding, CA. In my adult life I’ve lived in Eureka and Ferndale back here in Humboldt County, on Oahu, Kawai, and Maui in Hawaii, New Orleans, Louisiana, and Palmerston North, New Zealand. I’ve attend school, working in cafes, bars, restaurants, hotels and on board cruise ships along the way. Yet, I seem always to return to Humboldt after my travels, I feel at home in this community.....I've now been at the radio stations for 6 1/2 years!
Some other interresting facts not on the work bio....I was asleep in my canopy bed when our house caught on fire - I was five years old...I remember the firemen pulling me out of my bed and taking me outside....15 years later I lived in tha house again.....I'm on my second marrage...the first one I was 20-22 y.o...second wedding was just this March 5th, 2005...I think we got the only sunny day in March, which was a good thing cuz we got married outside in a redwood gove....a few of the pictures posted here are of the wedding.
I've always been bisexual...I often say that my mom came out for me....what i mean is, that once I lived through her coming out when I was in second grade, I had no drama within myself about the whole liking girls thing....what's been more difficult is figuring out how to satisfy both halfs of my bi-ness. I love my husband very much, but we both know that he's a man married to a lesbian...which makes me bi, not a lesbian, but what ever. We met while helping to set up a Club Risque event...we've been to all but the first two events now...I have so many good things to say about the producers of Club Risque and how volunteering at the events helped me learn more about myself...and changed the way i approach life and reminds me that life it too short to not indulge my wants and desires. So what do i want and desire? On one hand, I want the same thing everyone wants, to be loved, live a full life, make a difference....on the other hand I desire some things that aren't so common....more on that later....I want a child...I've never been pregnant, haven't been in a relationship long enough before now... but now I'm ready and am really looking forward to it. Ok..that's enough for now.....if you want more, feel free to drop me a line...

Only 3 more days and I can hardly wait!!!! It's going to be such a great party....and like 2 years ago, it's going to be very close to my birthday, so it's like my own kinky fun gathering!!
On Saturday, May 10th from 9pm–6am, my friends and other open-minded adults are invited to bring out their sexy vibes and come help pop the cherry on the hottest party in the Northcoast. Come enjoy live performances, an equipped and supervised dungeon, tasty treats, DJs and dancing, chill spaces, and play areas. All genders and sexualities welcome. The party is hosted by Impropriety Society, a local group promoting sexual self-awareness, providing opportunities for the exploration and celebration of erotic ideas and desires while respecting the boundaries of others, and showing community acceptance and support for a variety of sexual preferences and lifestyles. A limited amount of tickets are available, and Cherries Jubilee will sell out, so get yours early. Tickets are $30 and are available at the Metro in Arcata and Good Relations in Eureka. Sexy attire is encouraged. Cherries Jubilee is a twenty-one and over event. For more information visit www.humboldtimps.com.
Wed, May 7, 2008 - 4:32 PM
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The Impropriety Society Presents Cherries Jubilee
A Pansexual Affair
Date: Saturday, May 10th 2008
Time: Doors at 9 p.m.
Performances at 10 p.m.
Tickets: $25 per person in April, $30 per person in May
Tickets are available at The Metro in Arcata and Good Relations in Eureka; cash only.
21 & over, ID and signed waiver required at the door
Where: Tickets will include a phone number to call on the day of the event for location information
What: DJs spinning sultry sounds, play space, dungeon, erotic performances, appetizers, and tons of sexy people to connect with
Come enjoy our cherry poppin' event Saturday, May 10th. Dance to sultry sounds, enjoy erotic stage performances, frolic in the play space, and experience the dungeon. There are only 200 tickets for sale, and we expect this event to sell out, so get yours early! This is sure to be a fun, sexy play party so don’t be late!
Want to know more about this group or the upcoming Cherries Jubilee event? Check out the web site - humboldtimps dot com.
We are also hosting two Sex-Positive Play Party Primers. Whether this is your first play party or your tenth, a primer is a great way to meet others before the evening and get some ideas about how to have a great time.
∑ Saturday, May 3rd from 1:00–3:00 p.m. Please e-mail for registration and location bluegumbo at suddenlink dot net
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∑ Saturday, May 10th at 9:05 p.m. Start the party off with a short orientation and tour. Same location as the Cherries Jubilee party.
Another great way to get to know people before the party and to receive future announcements about Impropriety Society’s events is to join our Yahoo Group. Start a discussion, ask a question, you never know who you might meet! groups.yahoo.com/group/humboldtimps
We also need performers and technical staff. Share your energy and help create a hot, erotic show. We need sound and light techs as well as sexy performers. We have acts that need performers or, if you have your own ideas, we want to hear them, too! Contact Christy at 444-3203. And of course, feel free to create your own show anytime through out the night!
Are you an artist? Do you have erotic art you’d like to share? We need items to decorate the space to help create the mood for the evening. Please contact us at humboldtimps dot com.
And finally, we need pillows, beds, mattresses, futons, cushions, sheets, pillowcases, white Christmas tree lights, and other decorative items to make the space sexy and comfortable. Gently used items are great as long as they are clean. Please contact April at humboldtimps dot com to arrange pick-up or delivery.
Tue, April 15, 2008 - 12:28 AM
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I got this e-mail form my friend Kerry. He's in charge of recruiting volunteers for several awesome music festivals this summer. If you like festivals, but money is a little tight, or even if it's not, I highly recommend volunteering....you get to see the show, go camping and it's a great way to meet other wonderful peole. I will be at all three shows this year!! Hope to see you there!
Jennefer
this is from Kerry:
I'm currently recruiting for three different shows in June - SummerArts at Benbow, Harmony Fest in Santa Rosa and Kate Wolf at Black Oak Ranch - Send them my way if you have people that are interested - Thanks. festivekrew@yahoo.com Have them drop your name and a hint of their capabilities...Thanks again!
Tue, April 10, 2007 - 8:19 AM
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So...I feel like writing about my birthday before I get to the Hawaii stuff....which, by the way, was kick ass! We had a really wonderful time. I've loaded some pictures into a slideshow that should be playing on my myspace page (let me know if it's not working). I'll write about it later...for now, I want to write about my very awesome birthday evening.
So the morning was nice and slow, Box took our friend to the vet in Arcata and I chilled at the house. He came back with flowers and birthday cake - he's such a great guy! We enjoyed a sunny walk at the Elk River slough with our amazing dogs, whom we missed very much during our cruise. Then we ate a bit of Chinese food and came home to get ready for Dionysian Delights, a Club Risqué event....and what an event! I was so lucky to have my birthday on the same night :)
I thought I was going to dress up Hawaiian style for the night....but I actually wasn't feeling very good nor very sexy, I just wasn't feeling the Hawaiian thing....then it clicked - I'd wear my wedding dress! I'd look and feel like a princess and fulfill my desire to wear my wedding dress more than once. Then I decided instead of getting birthday spankings, I'd give them. Once I made up my mind about my outfit and goals for the night I started to get excited for the party. I put on my velvety, furry, emerald green dress, put on my sparkly earrings and necklace. I made myself a head wreath of ivy and faux grapes and left my hair down. Box tightened me into my corset...that all by itself helps me feel sexy....by the time we left I was feeling like the sexy birthday goddess that I was.
Even thought it was my birthday, I still wanted to volunteer at the party...I love working at the parties! E and B were so kind as to put Box and I on the first shift of the night, which was very nice, thanks guys! We were all done by the time performances started and it started getting busy. And what a night I had...I was honored to have 10 different amazingly, beautiful women present me their bottoms for birthday spankings:
eva
christy
becca
tonya
carrie
teresa
annie
becky
leslie
heather
In the group, there were a few who had never been spanked, a couple I was just warning up for more spankings later with someone else, one spanking I did with Box - that was fun :) One girl let me play with her awesome full breast after I gave her a nice ass warming...and another honored me by letting go and crying. I've never had so much fun spanking people!
And can you believe that's not all!! Since this was a Club Risqué event there were sexy performances to watch....very, very hot....if you can get yourself to the next event you will not be disappointed! I can't tell you much about the performances here--they are X-rated after all! I will say one skit had both stripping and hula-hoops! Then there were the folks entertaining the voyeur in me, people having sex in all the comfy corners, doing pole dances, others getting spanked and flogged....I just wandered around watching for a while. One guy's fantasy was to be a bar tender for the night so I let him make me a drink which I sipped on as I walked around the party, flirting and mingling.
Then there was the lap dance!! Two sexy, hot women came and gave me a fantastic birthday lap dance. One girl in front the other behind me....some serious body rubbing and intense eye contact going on - very nice. And what made it even better, one of the hotties actually called me today to ask if I had a good birthday and did I enjoy the lap dance? It was supper sweet!
The night ended with Box and I curled up together in one of the 'cool down' areas.....I closed my eyes and fell asleep one very happy birthday girl!
Tue, May 9, 2006 - 1:34 AM
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Current mood: optimistic
Category: Life
Latest news....I started my period on sunday! So the good news is that I don't need to take one of the drugs, the one that makes me bleed, since I already am....and it moves up the due date if I get pregnant this round....now the due date is the middle of December. If that is the case, we'll have half-birthdays in the summer so the kid has a chance of getting some presents....so that's it for now folks....
Tue, March 14, 2006 - 10:22 PM
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Cherries Jubilee
(blog entry)
Only 3 more days and I can hardly wait!!!! It's going to be such a great party....and like 2 years ago, it's going to be very close to my birthday, so it's like my own kinky fun gathering!!
On Saturday, May 10th from 9pm–6am, my friends and ...
read more
Cherries Jubilee - A Pansexual Affair
(blog entry)
The Impropriety Society Presents Cherries Jubilee
A Pansexual Affair
Date: Saturday, May 10th 2008
Time: Doors at 9 p.m.
Performances at 10 p.m.
Tickets: $25 per person in April, $30 per person in May
Tickets are available at The Metro i...
read more
Adult Play Party - Cherries Jubilee
( events » nightlife ) The Impropriety Society Presents Cherries Jubilee
A Pansexual Affair
Date: Saturday, May 10th 2008
Time: Doors at 9 p.m.
Performances at 10 p.m.
Tickets: $25 per person in April, $30 per person in May
Tickets are available at The Metro i...
read more
event starts Saturday, May 10, 2008 - 9:00 PM
Volunteer Opportunities at Summer Music Festivals
(blog entry)
I got this e-mail form my friend Kerry. He's in charge of recruiting volunteers for several awesome music festivals this summer. If you like festivals, but money is a little tight, or even if it's not, I highly recommend volunteering....you get t...
read more
My Birthday
(blog entry)
So...I feel like writing about my birthday before I get to the Hawaii stuff....which, by the way, was kick ass! We had a really wonderful time. I've loaded some pictures into a slideshow that should be playing on my myspace page (let me know if ...
read more
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