Re: Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
But, WHY?
Is he just into New Relationship Energy and ours got old? Is it that I'm 38 and he prefers 20-somethings? Did I not give enough? Did I give to much?
This really fucking hurts. I don't have anything else to say.
-K
discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 10:14 PM
Re: Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
Lumiere, (an appropriate name it seems) what was "clear" for you?
-K
discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 5:47 PM
Re: Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
Yes. Sage advice, Anne. Eyes wide open. I'll be spending this Mon and Tues with him in his town for biz meetings and a project management software session and I need to make sure I've got my boundaries in check. Also, he's driving me back and ...
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discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 4:24 PM
Re: What makes you jealous?
(in Polyamory)
"I don't mind that the other person gets what they're getting; I mind that I'm not getting it, too! :-) "
You just the the proverbial on the head (for me anyway), Ms. Scarlett!!!!!
Thank you.
-K
discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 4:13 PM
Re: Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
Yes, of course I've asked him what he means, lori. He just hasn't responded (yet). So, I thought I'd put it out there for the wise souls of EH and see if anyone else might have some insight.
But thanks for the sarcasm....
-K
discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 3:32 PM
Re: Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
So, I sent him a more in depth view of my initial post here and he wrote back saying:
"Kryssa,
I so love, admire and appreciate you...way more than my words can say.
Every word you wrote is right on darlin.
We both have had and wi...
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discussion post on Sat, July 12, 2008 - 2:36 PM
Recipe for relationship disaster?
(in Extreme Honesty)
*Ugh*
We've survived for 7 months against some seemingly insurmountable obstacles, but survive is the operative term right now...not thrive.
1-) Long distance relationship
2-) Business partners as well as lovers
3-) Both single parents (with...
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discussion post on Fri, July 11, 2008 - 10:08 PM
Re: How do you know when you're ready for a new relationship?
(in Polyamory)
All good questions, Lori...and I am in no position to offer advice. I took most of the past 6 years off from anything serious and dated a bit here and there, but never allowed for anything serious for much of the same reasons you stated. Was I r...
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discussion post on Sun, July 6, 2008 - 1:11 PM
Re: People are crazy. . .
(in !!~AllNighters, Unite~!!)
"Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead."- Charles Bukowski
Striving toward sanity seems a much more effective mode of living than assuming sanity.- Kryssa
discussion post on Sun, July 6, 2008 - 12:11 PM
Re: A Poly Pet Peeve
(in Polyamory)
Good one, *B*!
Polyamorous is not synonymous with lack of principles. Or, lack of boundaries for that matter.
And I recently discovered that my sweetie went through another similar situation. He'd been in monogamous relationships his ent...
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discussion post on Fri, July 4, 2008 - 1:20 PM