Life as I know it...

Growing.

   Tue, April 29, 2008 - 8:56 PM
My little dude is small for his age. Not so much that his doctor is freaked out (he had his well-baby checkup today), but small enough that he sent him for some tests "just to rule stuff out." He's height/weight proportionate, just small for his age overall, about 7th percentile. The doctor did point out that a: the growth charts use formula-fed White babies as the standard, and Max is a 1/4 asian breastfed baby. My husband's family isn't particularly tall, and half of my family is short. I feel torn because I really don't want to worry and want to just continue to go with the flow. But, part of me really doesn't want him to be a short man. :)

And, I had to take him to get his blood drawn. They used a butterfly needle, and while he cried during the collection, afterward he high-fived the phlebotomist and then picked his own sticker from the prize drawer. He's a brave buddy, my sweet boy! But, shit, being a Momma is such hard work. I want to protect him!!!

Anyway, the doctor feels that Max is developing well overall, and beating most of the milestone timelines. He's very good with his hands...he builds puzzles, he makes Lego creations, he can put beads on necklaces (which he apparently inherited from Web). He goes up and down the stairs "like a big boy." He drinks from a cup. He feeds himself soup, and doesn't make a giant mess! He's totally personable and give high-fives and blows kisses.

He's starting to talk, and I'm trying to compile a list of the things he says. I think they speak volumes, literally, about my sweet and silly son. So far, he says:
Momma
Dadda
Cheese
This? (What's this?)
Debbeh (Debbie, his daycare lady)
Mine
Go out!
No
Shoes
Down
Up
Uh oh
Oh no
Woah
Bottle
Boo (Boob)
Poopoo (he also points at his diaper and says this after he's done a number 2, supposedly this is a sign that he's getting closer to starting potty training)
Woobiee (his favorite snuggle blankie)
AND, tonight, Chris taught him to say...STAR WARS!



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Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:13 PM
"Woah! Star Wars!" must be next. So, he just high-fives everyone, hey? I thought I was special *sniff*.
Maybe this will make you feel better... My brother, who is very successful, has a smart gorgeous wife, an interesting life, lots of friends & two amazing kids, is 5'7& 12". OK? You feel better?
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:15 PM
Oh... & yr son? He's beautiful, bright, & will certainly learn zee ways of love & how to be good to women. You'll watch him like a mama hen, & he'll be fine.
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:16 PM
Umm... my bro's height is 5'7" & 1/2, not twelve!
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:17 PM
That does make me feel better, actually. :)
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:20 PM
omg he is adorable....and fmm's right, he is gonna be just fine your man...he's awesome.

Star Wars!!!!!!!!!! wow i'm impressed.

How the hell do you say this word?

**phlebotomist **

is it flebottomist?

((blinks))
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:20 PM
Clearly all the words that came before were simply leading up to "Star Wars".

except for "cheese". That's a very important milestone right there.
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:20 PM
5'7 is tall

I'm only 5'3

And my Mum is only 4'11
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:21 PM
Leisa, you pronounce it "vampire"..lol
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:22 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

lol ok
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:29 PM
What an amazing young boy he is. Sounds like things are going just splendidly, development-wise. Isn't being his Mom just worth any burden that could possibly be borne? Yeah... it's like that. ((Lizzie))
My son was a runt until his senior year in High School. Now he's 6 ft. 3 in. tall and about 180 pounds.
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:30 PM
It's not really his height as an adult that's my main concern, actually. I am okay with that, I guess, because it is what it is, and there's nothing I can do about that ultimately.

I am just worried that there might be something *wrong* with him. My mom instinct says he's totally fine and healthy, but the part of me that, oh, has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, is feeling a little freaked out. Must continue repeating to myself: trust your gut trust your gut.

As a result, I forgot to schedule my own appointment with the doctor while I was there. I am still having problems with my ears, and have a few other things going on, nothing major, that I really should talk to him about. I talked to an NP friend about them, and she said, "I think you should have your thyroid checked."
Tue, April 29, 2008 - 9:48 PM
He is amazing and I am sure you know that. Look at all those words he can say. That is fantastic!

Working with kids I have often noticed that most of the ones who are smaller for their age are so much more graceful and dexterous than the other kids.
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 2:18 AM
Woobie... LOL! Just what the little kid in Mr. Mom called his blanket. :)

Little Dude... that's what we call Logan. :)

Your Little Dude sounds adorable and SO brave!

And yeah, I know: needles and your child... hard to deal with. :( I've only had to deal with it once so far, for the first set of inoculations. 2nd set coming up next week.

Try not to worry too much... after all, there's all these growth spurts boys go through when they are a teenager. :)

But I understand the worrying. I have OCD.
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 6:58 AM
I wouldn't worry about the tests - I think it's just the doc being thorough, which is a good thing ;-) My daughter is at the other end of the growth charts so we went through some similar stuff when she was little. You know where the "key" is for the growth charts way up in the corner? That's where Beky was from about 9 months on. Some kids are small and some kids are big - I'm sure the doc just wants to confirm he's naturally small and he's A-okay inside and out!

IMHO the milestones are much more telling than height/weight anyway and I think as long as kids/people are within the height/weight proportionate range it's all good...
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 11:31 AM
lizzie, have you checked yourself for wms?
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 12:26 PM
WMS?

Why Must I Stress?
Wiggly Marshmallow Surprise?
Wacky Mom Syndrome?
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 11:34 PM
worried mom syndrome, of course. moms are carriers but dads and kids are the ones suffering the disease