"not all that wander are lost"- j.r.r. tolkein

More about me...
I don't take myself too seriously. I practice RADICAL HONESTY...seriously. That means I face my fear of rejection daily; I call it "living raw". I'm committed to telling the truth no matter what, as gently as I can, and it reinforces integrity in my relationships...aka weeding-out-the-weak. Being naked and transparent with everyone has freed me from guilt/shame, the perpetuation of gossip, and unhealthy dysfunction in my relationships. I'm grateful to my community and friends who "get it" and embrace truth/integrity as the foundation of our lifelong relationship. Many people don't "get it", and these are the people who generally reject, judge, or misrepresent "who I am". I've stopped trying to defend myself. Instead, my pattern over-time is all I can offer.

The ideal of community is intregueing, however, I'm sad to report that I've yet to a community that endures I've been observing/participating in various communities since I discovered the concept at Burning Man '01.

I believe my life is art. As with every art project, there are inherent limitations that reign in the endless possibilities. I'm curious if my partner is ready (or alive/born!) and looking for me. I'd like to begin the passionate dialogue and discovery of what we want to create together, why it't important, and how we're gunna inspire each other (and others!) to accomplish something great through love and perserverance. And yumm! I can't wait to roll around in it!

I think too much. I love to take care of people and make them feel special, and spoiled...(be the change you want, right?)..and birthdays are just an excuse! I've traveled the world and have studied the concept of culture and its phenomena extensively...my fascination is unceasing. I'm devestatigly in love with S.F. and I'm terrified of small towns, and small minds.

Whether you believe it or not...I am shy, and often don't know what to say; often fussing over dishes instead. What's worse, is I have a hard time trusting people. Timing is everything, and there is pattern over time. Let us all be patient wih one another!

I love it when I am wrong...though it's not often. I love learning and I am impatient to know more...and yet I'm certain that time reveals all. I'm investing my time, my energy, my heart in developing longterm relationships with quality individuals who share a way of being; this is my family, and I am grateful beyond expression to have them in my life.