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Hello, and welcome to Mistress Blue in a virtual nutshell. First off, if you are on livejournal, please feel free to friend me. My LJ name is "bluemistress" and I spill my guts often on that forum.

I am a priestess of love, sex and the sacred erotic. My best friend describes me as "party in a box," but I have a contemplative nature-loving side as well (which has been the stronger of the two as of late). I am frequently in the San Francisco Bay Area, but I reside in the small but infinitely cool town of Arcata in the far northern wilds of the California coast.

I am in a long-term relationship with my partner Cris, also known as Eros and DJ Razorburns. We are polyamorous, with more of an emphasis on playing together with other people rather than separately. Cris has been by my side through thick and thin. I feel incredibly blessed to have his companionship and love.

I love to take photos of all kinds, from sexy fetish spreads to sublime sunsets. Somewhere in between is where I make my professional living. I am also a writer; I write for bondage.com under the moniker "Mistress Ariachne." I was a professional dominatrix for many years in Seattle and am still very active in BDSM in my personal life.

If I were to create my own bumper stickers, they would say:
"The World Is My Toybox"
"We Are the Architects of Eden"

And existing ones I enjoy include:
"I believe in life BEFORE death"
"Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?"
"The Only Bush I Trust Is My Own" (my dad sent me this one, no really!)
"Namaste, Motherfucker!"

Activities I enjoy:
I aim my camera at a person, two people, a piece of the natural world, someone sexy wearing sexy clothes or a sexy birthday suit -- and I work till I think I have captured a little piece of their Truth.

I walk daily along the wild beaches nearby or the quiet redwood groves along the rivers and feel the incessant chatter in my head drain away after about an hour, leaving me silent and full of the real world.

Whenever I get the chance, I tie people up and do terrible things to them. These things are always completely consensual and I am diligent about safety, both physical and emotional. I am always on the lookout for new playmates, male or female. I play heavily on the Top side of BDSM, although I do enjoy the sensations of cutting and piercing and being fucked for hours on end.

I ran a fetish club for a number of years in Seattle and am helping run the awesome sex parties thrown by the Humboldt Imps here (www.humboldtimps.com/ ). I treasure any chance I get to introduce the masses to the joys of BDSM. i also love finding people who are entirely present and sexually/sensually open. I am a hedonist and enjoy sucking the marrow out of life -- with good food, glorious outdoors, intimate connection with people on both a physical and emotional level, and loud laughter.

And I always enjoy climbing into bed with my partner Eros and letting him bring me to a mind-blowing orgasm. What's not to like about that?

Thoughts on thoughts:
I have slowly over the years stripped away as much unecessary psychic clutter, worry and intellectual preening as I possibly could, trying to get that much closer to the world-as-it-is. This process will continue till the day I die. If you meet me, you may notice that despite my rather theatrical persona as a dominatrix, at heart I try to just be me, no pretensions, no expectations, no preconceptions of you or my role with regards to you or how we should be acting or the society in which we move. I am simply myself, no more, no less. I tend to gravitate towards others with a similar mindset, people who are often termed "real" or "down-to-earth." I recognize the wisdom that comes with real experience, real observation and the willingness to discard disproved hypotheses. I have done my time in the halls of academia and the heady discourse of mental masturbation. I have found it infinitely more useful to my happiness to discard the baroque stylings of unprovable but complex analysis and simply let whatever happens wash over me without attachment. But as you might have noticed, I can't quite break myself of my long love affair with the written word and the sound it makes in my head as it curls and loops around itself in tendrils.

I find great personal meaning in moments of the sublime, where the real world flares up in my face so dramatically that I can't help but notice its terrible beauty. Wilderness kindles this spirit in me, especially the heart-piercing moments when the light shifts colors and plays across the land. The erotic encounter kindles this flame as well. In this arena, I find great beauty and truth in encounters that cross boundaries, whether of taboo, pain, preconceptions, or any other edge. And the other thing that flames bright in my heart when it appears is true and deep friendship, friendship without condition or expectation, friendship that makes hardships seem smaller and the joy of life seem larger.

I hold dear to my heart the science of complexity, the child of chaos theory that shifts our perceptive paradigm to the system instead of the part, the relations instead of the individual components, the edges where a system constantly grows and changes and with the help of an influx of energy, shows flagrant disregard for the second law of thermodynamics (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seco...dynamics). When order INCREASES in a system, as in evolution, it shows me not the invisible hand of some overarching Creator, but instead the absolute miracle that is things-in-themselves, reality, or however you want to name the one moment in which we are all carried forward into ceaseless change, with our edges touching in one endless and delightfully heterogeneous continuum.

Blessed be, happy playing, and peace.