Honoring Life Changes
The Wisdom Of Fear

Anything worth doing will always have some fear attached to it. For example, having a baby, getting married, changing careers-all of these life changes can bring up deep fears. It helps to remember that this type of fear is good. It is your way of questioning whether you really want the new life these changes will bring. It is also a potent reminder that releasing and grieving the past is a necessary part of moving into the new.

Fear has a way ... read more

Imagine glimmering balls of gas making shapes
Orange hues blended with light emerald orbs of flames
Hollow dream stronger than physical darkness
Fresh amber treasure sitting off mark upon a breast

Flickering candlelight in the mist
Overwhelmed by need to kiss
Arched and cried out craving thirst
Lost in the touch of exploration’s first

Aroused and tentative shifting shadows
Faint pressure of desire echoes
Distant thunder eclipsed by secret softness
Contradiction of strength and ... read more

Thou art to all lost love the best,
The only true plant found,
Wherewith young men and maids distrest
And left of love, are crown'd.

When once the lover's rose is dead
Or laid aside forlorn,
Then willow-garlands, 'bout the head,
Bedew'd with tears, are worn.

When with neglect, the lover's bane,
Poor maids rewarded be,
For their love lost their only gain
Is but a wreath from thee.

And underneath thy cooling shade,
When weary of the light,
The love-spent youth, and love-sick... read more

I shot an arrow into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For, so swiftly it flew, the sight
Could not follow it in its flight.

I breathed a song into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For who has sight so keen and strong,
That it can follow the flight of song?

Long, long afterward, in an oak
I found the arrow, still unbroke;
And the song, from beginning to end,
I found again in the heart of a friend.

~ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow ~