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Corin

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joined on 11/08/04
last updated 03/22/07
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about me
I'm doggedly uncomplicated.

I'm pathologically low-maintenance.

And despite an ongoing, valiant struggle against entropy, clutter constantly amasses on the floor around my computer.

I'm not sure personality can be described. I can tell you about behavior and you can derive personality traits.

For instance, at my last job, I biked 3 miles to work every day (including rain and snowstorms). Not for health reasons, though it keeps me in shape. Not because I'm in anyway eco-friendly. It's because I couldn't find parking in a timely manner.

I'm very idealistic about my pragmatism and very pragmatic about my ideals.
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...views may not neccessarily reflect...

 
The obvious answer to being happy is be who you are, but that's a tricky unless you break it down.

First off, you have to ask: how do you know another person? Is it by what they say or what they do?

You don't believe a the 40 year old guy with the get rich quick scheme who's living with his parents. You don't believe the woman who says she's strong and independent but won't leave her abusive boyfriend. If their actions consistently do not match their words, you start making negative jud... read more
Mon, March 13, 2006 - 1:42 AM permalink - 1 comment
 
INFPs tend toward depression and it's not really a big mystery as to why.

It's about making choices and decisions. I think that's why INFPs who are extreme Ps are more depressed more often than INFPs who border J.

The first reason is that I don't think INFPs can define "happy" in measurable terms. Happiness is some vague ideal like Truth. It's the P part of us, that keeps changing our definitions of happy. You can't achieve a goal you can't define. However, I do feel that most INFPs gro... read more
Mon, March 13, 2006 - 1:36 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
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D70s, f/2.8, ISO1000, 1/200

11/05 - the ice was pretty sucky at Olympic trials
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on the Net, no one knows you're a dog

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Girl on a Bus

She couldn't be more than four, blond tresses
bouncing as she crouches on her seat beneath the window
before jumping up to press her nose and hands
on tinted glass as if to say, I am here.
Her father smiles indulgently and continues
writing in his planner. On the sidewalk, a woman stares enviously
at a mannequin wearing a wedding dress. In the woman's hands
are bags of shopping, longing to be filled.
The planner holds the little girl's life.
Five: gets chicken pox, retains endearing scar
on chin. Sixteen: dates shiftless musician
against wishes. Remember, bad choices
lead to character. Twenty-two: graduates top at Brown.
Her father scribbles furiously.
Her first novel changes history. Her fiancee
has always loved her. Her teenage daughter
thinks she's the coolest. Her father has written
through two pens when I return 8 hours later to head home.
The woman with the shopping bags hasn't moved.
Beside him rest stacks of calendar pages for his planner
and a brand new receipt. He's bought more time
if he just continues writing and not looking at the girl
springing at the world. Meanwhile, his daughter
continues her peek-a-boo with the oblivious woman
playing peek-a-boo at her own window.
How can I not believe her father is right?
Her novel will change history. She will write
about a girl on a bus looking through the window
at a woman being fitted for a wedding dress
and every father will put down their pens.

 
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