joined on 03/27/05
last updated 05/08/09
This is what I look like as of the taking of this picture, 9/29/2007
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With the proliferation of people I have never said 2 words to asking to be my friend, there are things you need to know before we can be friends. Some of them you may like. Some of them you may not like. For this reason, I will lay all my cards on the table and let you decide if you still want to be friends or not.
First and foremost ... I am not a nice person. As a person I met always says, I prefer to think of myself as "kind". I will always tell you the truth (unless I have gotten wrong information along the way). I will keep my opinion to myself until such a time that you ask for my opinion. I will give you my pure and unadulterated opinion without mixing words. If you do not like brutal honesty, you will not like me because this is how I am. Call me what you like but you will not call me "spin doctor" or "public relations manipulator".
Second ... I am not interested in filling my friends list just to say I have x number of "friends". I prefer to have people on my list that I actually communicate with enough to have a "relationship". Whether the relationship is business or personal, friendly or romantic, distant or intimate, I want to be able to communicate. If you cannot hold a conversation (for whatever reason) or you aren't interested in saying hello sometimes (or saying hello back when I say hello to you), well ... it seems we have very little in common no matter how many other things we share an interest in.
Third ... I need you to answer these questions:
1. How did you find me?
2. What is your goal for our relationship?
3. What is your favorite professional baseball team?
4. Finish this sentence .... A miss is as good as a ____________
5. What is your favorite Billy Joel song?
6. What is your first name?
7. In what state of the United States do you live? If you don't live in the United States, in what country do you live?
Now ... you can avoid this whole thing by sharing a few messages with me first. The messages don't have to be private. They can very much be public (in tribes). Say hello, tell me a bit about you ... learn a little bit about me. I am an open and honest person. I like to think of myself as approachable (though that judgment is up to you). Ask me questions. Answer my questions.
Just so you know ... I don't care about what you look like, where you live, how much money you make, what your gender is or what your sexuality is. What I do care about is if we can help each other to grow as people or not. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be perfect, either. What I do expect, though, is communication. If you are unable to communicate, how good a relationship (on any level and in any medium) do you expect to have?
My friends all know who they are. Being a friend of mine puts you in line to receive gifts from time to time. I make videos for a living. You may well receive one as a gift. This means I could possibly save the pictures you have in your profile to make a video. If this is unacceptable to you for whatever reason, just say so and it won't happen. These pictures (friends only or not) will not be shared with anyone else unless you share them. As I said, if this is unacceptable, say so and it won't happen.
If you request being my friend without talking to me first or answering the questions, I will deny said request. If this offends you, I'm sorry, but it is posted here and you opted to not read it.
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about me
I am interested in touching lives ... but only for the better. I believe that a lot more can be done with a lot less if we just use our positive energy and leave the negative for some other schmuck. The main way that I touch lives is by putting slideshows together. This is important to me because more often than not, our family and friends don't find out how much we care about them until they are gone ... and then it's too late. I do these slideshows as a way of preserving the memories and showing love to those who want or need it. You'd be surprised at how much tough people will cry when they see something I've put together.
If you'd like to see my work, visit my website at: www.lovelydaymedia.com
I am also an optimist ... one who is always looking for the silver lining to every cloud. I know it's always there but I can't always see or feel it. There is a lot to know about me, though. Too much to tell you all of it in this little box so I'll make your a promise ... if you have or can get the cajones to ask, I'll have or get the cajones to answer whatever you choose to ask me. To save you the hassle, I don't have any credit cards so I can't give you the numbers. :) What I do have, though, is a lot of time for the building of relationships and networking.
I believe I can have whatever I want in life if I will help enough people to get what they want. I do the best I can, but at some point something has to change. I don't want to stay this way (financially) forever, so if there is something I can do for you ... let me know ... even if it's just talk. :)
I want to be a millionaire one day. I don't want to charge 1 person a million dollars for anything (though that would be nice, too). I'd much rather charge a million people $1 if that were possible .... so we'll have to strike a balance.
October 4, 2007
Walter/O.F is one of the most caring people I've come across on Tribe. He's genuine, thoughful and very respectful to one's feelings. He's always wanting to make sure that you are having a good day....and asking if he could make it one iota better. He truly is a wonderful man. *Hugs* to you Walter!
May 15, 2007
Walter is One Flirter and is a good friend to have, open, honest,intelligent and straight up. I'm proud to call him my friend and he can post my boobs any time he wants to on his photos ; )
Hugs
Leslie
January 22, 2007
Just knowing Walter lives in the same world that I do makes the sun shine a little brighter. What a good man.
April 28, 2005
I’m not very good at testimonials, but I will do my best. Oneflirter is a very sweet, caring person, has a kind and beautiful spirit . We have talked about a wide variety of subjects. His statements and responses are always intelligent and feeling. His emails always brighten my day, make me smile, laugh, feel special. I have found a very good friend in him. Plus, as if that weren‘t enough, he’s totally hot and sexy! Alas, I am married and don’t live near him… so Ladies, all I can say is… don’t pass this one by…
There is a young man I met about a year ago. He is my ex's best friend's son. He's now 20, about to turn 21. Make a long story short, he has problems. Drug addiction, unprotected sex addiction, stealing from family to support the habits, etc etc. As if this isn't a big enough problem, it gets worse: he's in denial ... as is everyone in his family. Even my ex is in denial over the situation. They think of him as a problem child, etc etc .... and he is ... but they all have problems tha...
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My truck is gone. ;( Here's the story behind this truck:
I was going to school to learn how to drive a school bus when I saw it sitting on the side of the road for sale. I stopped and looked at it ... I ended up buying it. It is a 1988 Chevy C1500 Silverado. 5 liter V8, 4 speed automatic, power windows, door locks, a/c, power steering, power brakes and an am/fm radio (no cassette or cd player ... I couldn't even put one in because of the funky radio Chevy put in these things) and an...
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My mother has decided it's time for her to get a new car. It boggles my mind how they say we are in a bad economy but there doesn't seem to be any fewer new car sales. ...
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So for the last few days, I have been playing Mobsters on Myspace. I often wondered why tribe doesn't have games like this, but there are enough stability problems to get involved in something else ... but I digress.
For those who don't know about the game, it's a role playing game (MMORPG for those in the loop ... that is ... massively multi-player online role playing game) where one lives the life of a mobster ... one goes around buying property and weapons while fighting people to ta...
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I keep hearing from everyone that the prices I charge for Lovely Day Media Productions is "far too high" ... so to prove the theory wrong, this is what I'm going to do:
50% off to the first 5 people who order productions and say they found me here on tribe. Offer expires 4/30/09.
This is to prove that it doesn't matter what the price is .... people aren't going to buy more than they want or need, anyway. If there are 100 responses to this, then I'll have to rethink my pricing (even th...
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