You can't argue with a sick mind.
Tis the season.
Tue, December 16, 2008 - 2:24 PMOne night, xmas eve, I worked until 11pm. I left the club and started walking towards the bus. It hit me as fast as the cold. "CRAP! No bus this late!" It was about 20 degrees and windy. There was a slight snow wafting under my coat collar. I had no way of getting home.
The Boston T is famous for not giving a shit about the populous and I knew they would NOT accept my bus pass. It was 14 mile walk to my house. I decided to go plead / bleed / give a hummer to whomever was working the T box on xmas eve.
I get maybe 2 blocks away from the club and the cold starts to work its way into my bones. All of a sudden, two homeless dudes walk up to me stemming for change. yay.
"Hey man, got any cash?" I said "Nope! I don't even have cash to get on the damn T sorry"..
They just sort of stare at me with a blank expression.
One of the dudes reaches in his pocked and comes out with a handful of coins. He drops them in my hand and says "Go home and be with your family, man". I asked his name and he said "Flash" with a grin.
I gave him all but 85 cents back and started walking towards the T. His friend says "Now you won't think we're all bums, man" Flash says "I ain't no bum. I'm homeless".
I get home to bickering and blathering and was pretty goddam grateful for Flash and his friend.
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 2:50 PM
I am so glad I am a bit distracted, I would cry over this otherwise. Aren't people just amazing sometimes. Fabulous story, won't forget this one.
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 2:51 PM
That is a really good story. Wow. Merry effing Xmas man, the spirit still lives!
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 3:37 PM
To further the possible confusion that happens when we don't always pay attention to those around us ... I talked with a guy recently who's spot for the last 3 years or more is outside one of the downtown pubs in the city. I gave him some money and went in. He follows me in and gets something to drink from the bar. Thinking I just enabled him, which I worry about doing, I asked the bartender what happened and she said he asked for water, and proceeded to tell what she new about him. So I went back outside, sat with him, and we talked for 20 minutes.
He's not homeless. He rents a room from a friend who has an apartment. He actually makes decent money on that corner. His issue is that, in a word (or three and an apostrophe, actually) he's very nuts (paranoid delusions, but very calm about it). That makes him unemployable. Considering all, he's doing well surviving. The fist time I walked past him, I don't recall what I thought, but it could have been "bum". Lesson learned, I hope. |
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 3:56 PM
Vocation and avocation: www.etymonline.com/poems/tramps.htm
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 6:40 PM
You know, I was just thinking about this story a few days ago and couldn't quite recall who had told it. I'm glad you posted this. I love it.
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 6:42 PM
I post it every year. I don't go for long without remembering it. It tends to take a bunch of the bitterness out of life.
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 7:40 PM
Yeah. It's a good touchstone story.
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 7:53 PM
It's moments like this that add balance and perspective to things for me. Here is my experience:
I went to my sister's college graduation. As the keynote speaker (a former US Marine) began to speak, a baby began to cry. Most people would get up and take the baby out until it quieted down. This mother was no different .. except that when she stood up, the speaker stopped her from moving. He reminded her (and everyone) that in places like Iraq and other parts of the world, the people go to bed not knowing if they will be hit with a bomb or rocket before morning ... and if they do wake up, will they be killed by a car or suicide bomber? We have things pretty good in this country. All we have to worry about is an "annoying" baby crying ... and that's a natural thing. There is nothing natural about bombs and rockets and killing. He invited her to sit back down and invited everyone around her to tolerate her baby crying because they could have to tolerate a suicide bomber. He got a standing ovation for that ... and it's something I'll likely never forget. |
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Wed, December 17, 2008 - 4:58 AM
Now that was a great story
I think the best part is that it put a human face on the homeless. It showed that they may be without a home, but they still have a heart. Maybe if more people heard a story like this, they wouldn't be so quick to turn away.
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Wed, December 17, 2008 - 5:04 AM
It is a great story.. really reminds you what Christmas is about.
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