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notisnotisnotisnotisnotisnotis

अस्तीति शाश्वतग्राहो नास्तीत्युच्चेददर्शनं
astīti śāśvatagrāho nāstītyuccedadarśanaṁ
(To say) "Is," is eternity-grasping; (to say) "Is not," is a nihilistic view.
तस्माद् अस्तित्वनास्तित्वे नाश्रीयेत विचक्षणः।
tasmād astitvanāstitve nāśrīyeta vicakṣaṇaḥ|
Therefore, those of discerning vision would not have recourse to Is-ness and Is-not-ness.

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Quotage: Clinging and Emptyness

"Emptyness is not something sacred in which to believe. It is an emptying: a letting go of the fixations and compulsions that lock one into a tight cell of self that seems to exist in detached isolation from the turbulent flux of life. This emptying leads to a falling away of constrictive and obstructive habits of mind that - as in removing a barrier across a river - allows the dammed up torrent of life to flow freely.

Letting go, even momentarily and unintentionally, of that desperate and obsessive grip on self does not obliterate you but opens you up to a fleeting and highly contingent world that you share with other anxious creatures like yourself. This can be frightening; for the only certainty in such a world is that at some point you will die. You realize that your self is not a fixed thing or personal essence but a tentative and confused story hastening toward its conclusion. This might prompt you to scurry back to the familiar perceptions, beliefs, and routines in which you feel secure. But once the process of emptying has started, to cling to such consolations will hinder you from feeling fully alive. To become empty...is to encounter the raw, unfiltered contingency of life itself. The challenge of emptiness is to plunge into life's torrent rather than hover uncertainly on its brink. "

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Blah Blah [big word] Blah [insight] blah

not a chance..but thanks... (in Authentic and Honest Relationships) I guess what I meant to say that even if the two of you have come to a place where you both know you both can't thrive together, I hope that even if apart you both find happiness.

Be well.
discussion post on Tue, November 24, 2009 - 8:37 AM
Re: Molly, A Preliminary in Lieu of a Longer Reply Later (in Intellectual Barbarians) You people are talking dirty.
discussion post on Sun, November 22, 2009 - 8:25 PM
There was another documentary right before that ... (in Buddhism) ....it was beautiful...

video.pbs.org/video/1336049754
"Lost Cave Temples of the Himalaya"
discussion post on Sat, November 21, 2009 - 11:15 PM
Mustang on PBS (in Buddhism) www.pbs.org/mustang/

"Mustang - Journey of Transformation is a 30-minute documentary that tells the remarkable story of a Tibetan culture pulled back from the brink of extinction through the restoration of its most sacred sites. Narrated... read more
discussion post on Sat, November 21, 2009 - 11:07 PM
Re: "and they look away and don't reply..." (in Authentic and Honest Relationships) Sure. Hopefully all will turn out well for both of you.

Gassho
discussion post on Sat, November 21, 2009 - 3:17 PM
"asking for clarity around what is or isn't happening in a relationship, negotiating boundaries etc. does not equate 'owning' someone. " (in Authentic and Honest Relationships) I agree, but this does not necessarily manifest practically in a relationship. Very often I have heard 'I wouldn't let [my partner] do 'x'...' which connotes some sort of authority. I have been witness to many moments of posturing that seems to be... read more
discussion post on Sat, November 21, 2009 - 3:05 PM
"and they look away and don't reply..." (in Authentic and Honest Relationships) I have to say I am also a big fan of two people being a team. Though I have had successful poly relationships, my current guy is more a monogamous guy, so the 'team' oriented core of me doesn't want to betray that. Though flirtation might feel goo... read more
discussion post on Fri, November 20, 2009 - 7:49 PM
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