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Ptony (like Pterodactyl)

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Quest Worth Making

A wondrous woman recently shared this with me...

"To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade, through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be."

--Anna Louise Strong

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What'd they say? Me?

November 26, 2007
I LOVE THIS MAN!!!!!
August 20, 2007
Tony, as hot as he is, is Penguin's type of people. I'm ever so happy to know this dude!
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Play It Forward

Gender
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Age
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Friendography

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The stuff I say...

Re: how can you tell? (in Polyamory) Kinnari- After rambling on, I feel the need to summarize my message to you...

If you were in love with her at one time, and you actively love her, you will fall in love withe her again...and it can get better and better.

(Disclaimer: Huge sh... read more
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 10:42 AM
Re: how can you tell? (in Polyamory) One dudes opinion:

Loving someone is what you choose to do, actively. Being "in love" is powerful chemicals/energy involuntarily flowing through you, passively.

You only control the active loving and, with faith, that will create the in-lov... read more
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 10:31 AM
Re: how much time is too much? (in Polyamory) "as much as possible, try to remove the other relationship out of the discussion of what is good for the two of you."

Nails


Jenni- Your situation sounds like my wife's, 9 months ago...

Falling in love: Although I briefly met B (girlfrie... read more
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 9:52 AM
Re: quick question just for info (in Polyamory) - Personal Coach

- Manage Sales Training for a Software Company
discussion post on Tue, May 13, 2008 - 12:15 PM
Re: Schedule Fidelity - question and guidance (in Polyamory) I agree with those who said, in one way or another, that you have been working on some unshared "rules" and self defeating illogic.

AND...

I also want to acknowledge that you are hurting and frustrated, and I think most of us have felt the ... read more
discussion post on Fri, May 9, 2008 - 1:55 PM
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I'm Really Not That Deep

Dell's response to the launch of Apple's MacBook Air.

www.youtube.com/watch

Can you believe all that fits into an envelope! Modern technology?!?!?! *silly infomercial impressed drama face*
Mon, March 31, 2008 - 10:23 AM permalink - 7 comments
 
The other day I posted the thread about "compromise"- people.tribe.net/ptony/blo...22c8d7f9fa

In the responses, several people had ideas similar to mine and some appeared different. I like different. Thank you all.

My take- I don't think compromise is missing out on something I wanted to do, in order to do something I don't want to do...to me, that would be acquiescing. To me, compromise is understanding my motivation, comparing the options, and being ope... read more
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 11:07 PM permalink - 6 comments
 
I am really interested to hear what my friends have to say on this one…

Imagine you say to your partner, “Lovuh, I want to go to a museum today. Interested?”

Then your partner says, “Sunshine britches, I don’t want to go to a museum today.”

You aren't tied to your partner. There's no agreement that you are spending the day together...but you could if you choose. If you are completely true to yourself, do you go to the museum sans-partner, or is there room for collaboration? Other fac... read more
Thu, March 27, 2008 - 3:50 PM permalink - 13 comments
 
Feeble hands
Fragile glass
I've grown weak building this house
But it's almost done
One more task to overcome
Many flaws
Still, I deticate my cause
To glueing the cracks
Even as the blood runs red
There is promise of shelter ahead

~Mia
Wed, February 27, 2008 - 4:09 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
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Daughter's Favorite Song (I like it too)

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Lightning Striking In The Backyard

How is that for a lucky shot?
 
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