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who do you ask? (blog entry) I never realised how confused a relationship can leave you. I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months.I was almost ready to break up with him (just because i am an impatient soul) ,until I went away for a holiday,came back and realised that I... read more
blog entry posted Mon, May 28, 2007 - 1:04 PM permalink - 0 comments
time (blog entry) I never understood before the saying,"time ran away with me!" Its not that I didnt understand what it meant, its just that I could not fathom how someone could not keep track of time. I now know what that feels like. You slacken the reins a little... read more
blog entry posted Tue, May 22, 2007 - 3:10 PM permalink - 0 comments
crazy? (blog entry) question: if i have to take a day off work to tidy my room, finish up editing a society journal, get some forms for a job application...is that a sign that i am doing too much???
blog entry posted Wed, January 24, 2007 - 3:29 PM permalink - 2 comments
jingle bells (blog entry) So, the season is over, there is no more jangle in my jingle, no more mistle in my toe and damn well no more ginger and pep in my bread...! I have been so saturated by sugar and spice and all things nice, fattening and sweet that I think my sweet ... read more
blog entry posted Wed, January 24, 2007 - 3:25 PM permalink - 0 comments
A bad dream (blog entry) I knew I needed help...I was going insane trying to unravel things

Yesterday, I went to a career guidance/career development coach. For 5 hours we discussed my strengths and weaknesses, passions and interests. He used some pretty simple but po... read more
blog entry posted Mon, November 27, 2006 - 4:00 PM permalink - 1 comment
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what's the story?!

so, i have already made it clear that i am a tad bit talkative. I thought i would continue with this theme and perhaps explain a few things about me. At the moment, i am having a period of change in my life, i like to call it my Renaissance. I spent a lot of time throughout university and all my school years, doing well in my studies, getting the good grades and such. At the back of my mind i always knew that that was not what life was about and that someday i would have a chance to do the exploring that i so craved. So this is that time. 2003 was the start of it all. I worked in a corporate environment (i like wearing the heels and power suits, though an office environment is not the nicest itself!) and got very big into Brazilian culture and samba parties. Gradually i tried new things in order to tick them off or find what i enjoyed by a process of elimination. African drumming has started the final phase...rhythmn is amazing. Meeting new people got me interested in reggae, african music, more latin american grooves and all that. All of this as well as university has helped me to find things that i am good at.

so...what does all this prove? firstly, i love to just go to things that are a bit different..reggae, salsa, blues, music clubs where i can dance and just concentrate on that.interesting food restaurants, and other events like outdoor festivals..etc. At the same time, i am keeping my mind busy. Women's rights (i dont want to say feminism since that is almost always associated with whinny academics who analyse global media and ruin purely artistic expression by highlighting the unacceptable way that women are portrayed, in that, the artist intentionally was being anti-feminist!), is something i have recently discovered with the neo-feminists that are more pratical and pragmatic, not whinny and isolated in their ivory towers. Empowerment of people i guess is my main interest and where my interest in education of children and women comes from.(as well as my new interest in management information systems)
i dont believe that people should stand idly by whilst others plan and make decisions for them. i truly believe that people altogether, united by one purpose, becomes something alive and powerful in its own right. i see religions and cultures as other threads that join together to illustrate in glorious technicolour: "The Human Condition". i think that we all evolved the same way, and that once our consciousness was assured, that we then had different ways of expressing it... however the fundamentals of wanting to express ourselves, explain our world and structure our lives, underlie every theory, every religion, every action and explanation that we cluster under terms such as culture, customs, rites and ceremonies (hence the reason why geneology, anthropology and physics/engineering are also interests of mine). As you can see, i am a bit of an analytical soul and i am always able to get a more holistic, impartial perspective...i never like to take sides..someone always gets hurt and no one learns anything from remaining one either sides of the fence.

Besides empowerment, people themselves fascinate me. The way they express themselves, the features they inherit from whichever parent, or whichever dominate family line they have. Their language, their names and surnames.

hmmm, i have just discovered something new...i think too much!!!

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im a thinker with chatterbox tendencies.i am an endlessly curious person, i empathise easily. i am humbled by people who have deep convictions, who have survived hardships, i am humbled by brave, strong people who just keeping going on through life. i am awed by the potential lying within every child... i have moments of shrewd insight, comedic dry wit, bouncy hyperness and irritating deadpan seriousness... i love love my friends, boyf and family,the animal kingdom at large, little kids, grandpas and grandmas...everyone has the awesome capacity to shine at something, to be someone and to make a difference through their own talents and gifts... i have travelled around a bit, and love nothing as much as the buzz i get from new information: seeing a new place, new architecture, art, history, music and culture. i am a bit of a 'jane-of-all-trades' so life is just an interesting set of adventures: a journey of possibilities that excites me just to think about...i love nothing better than something that is mentally stimulating, inventive, thought-provoking or that requires analysis. its in my nature to be interested in something and then flit to something else new and exciting-however the mood takes me.there is so much world to cover and knowledge to explore!!! i am batty about science, technology, people, people, people....how we think, articulate, communicate and enact our realities.... and languages. deep down i am an idealist... searching for her niche
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I never realised how confused a relationship can leave you. I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months.I was almost ready to break up with him (just because i am an impatient soul) ,until I went away for a holiday,came back and realised that I had missed him and wanted to do lots of things to him when we were alone. However, practicalities got in the way and it wasnt to be until the following week. What gets me is...the minute something fun and pleasureable comes into the picture, things ... read more
Mon, May 28, 2007 - 1:04 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
I never understood before the saying,"time ran away with me!" Its not that I didnt understand what it meant, its just that I could not fathom how someone could not keep track of time. I now know what that feels like. You slacken the reins a little and all of sudden seconds turn to months in the blink of an eye. You are left breathless and a little bewildered, but DEFINITELY more envigorated now that you have slackened your grip. I was a control freak. Not in the extreme sense, but I needed to... read more
Tue, May 22, 2007 - 3:10 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
question: if i have to take a day off work to tidy my room, finish up editing a society journal, get some forms for a job application...is that a sign that i am doing too much???
Wed, January 24, 2007 - 3:29 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
So, the season is over, there is no more jangle in my jingle, no more mistle in my toe and damn well no more ginger and pep in my bread...! I have been so saturated by sugar and spice and all things nice, fattening and sweet that I think my sweet tooth has become numb!! Now, is the uphill struggle to get back on that treadmill and be fit for another christmas season where more shall be consumed!! And by the way, how can one start afresh if the shrivelled, dried out green husk of a christmas t... read more
Wed, January 24, 2007 - 3:25 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
I knew I needed help...I was going insane trying to unravel things

Yesterday, I went to a career guidance/career development coach. For 5 hours we discussed my strengths and weaknesses, passions and interests. He used some pretty simple but powerful techniques to help me to face reality. The expert version of my reality is that I am not a corporate person. I dont mind an office environment, but as a future career, hierarchy, that much structure, I dont like. No points there, I am heartily... read more
Mon, November 27, 2006 - 4:00 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
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