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Sun, December 7, 2008 - 4:31 PM
don't get me wrong, i love kids. i just don't need my own to be a fulfilled and happy person. birgit is supportive of my decision though she doesn't share the same resentments i had about parenthood and taking charge of my own destiny.
it's not without a big breath that i'm opening myself up to the ride and commit myself to this new reality. a breath that summons my strength and my experience and let's me have faith in myself and this love i cherish. i know i can do it. i am ready for this step and am raising the banner of love to charge ahead full steam.
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Sun, December 7, 2008 - 6:45 PM
Viel gluck mein freund.
I am really happy to hear that you have taken charge of your procreation or lack thereof. I have contemplated it myself quite heavily for a while now, but it's not really an issue since I am with someone who has a tubal ligation already. i echo your sentiment about children. I love kids, I totally love all my nieces and nephews, but it's not my choice, and if it were I'd adopt.
My best wishes to you and Birgit, and may your new adventure in cohabitation be a smashing success. Kinda funny that you both came almost exactly halfway around the world to find another German huh? I've heard that after vasectomy you have a really intense orgasm about two weeks later, so maybe you have something to look forward to :) |
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Sun, December 7, 2008 - 9:31 PM
oh my that pic hehe!
right on sprocket! i am joyfilled for the two of you! i know this is a big moment in both your lives and wonderful growth together. :)
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Sun, December 7, 2008 - 11:14 PM
cool sprocket. i haven't been on tribe in ages, and i love it that the thing that popped up first was this broadcast about your vasectomy. awesome. i know two men who love their vasectomies. i consider it a feminist move in that it takes that heavy burden off the woman. it's a great option that's seriously under-used. and congrats on your new love, too. xo
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Wed, December 10, 2008 - 4:17 PM
happy healing:)
heh - good on you to do as you are moved! SOOOOOOO happy to hear that you and Birgit are now sharing space officially! I just returned to Big I and would love to get together - so much to share... so much to hear! See you on the dance floor. Love to you both.
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Fri, December 12, 2008 - 11:37 AM
Congrats
I am very happy for you and proud of you and happy to have been a part of the previous discussion of this issue. Its was a good choice. and what Athonwy said about the orgasm after two two weeks is true......
I am sending the most intimate and beautiful love to you and birgit!!!!! |
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 5:47 PM
One of the few brave men
Awesome Sprocket! Not enough men are brave enough to do what you have just done, and very cool that you have made this decision. It definitely improves the sex life. :) See you on Sunday!
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Wed, December 17, 2008 - 6:28 PM
http://www.vhemt.org/
Yes, and 'tis a fine thing you do for us all...another option might be:
tantra-klub.crolink.net/faq_en.html#07 ...much less painful I mean, "Think of the kittens!!!". believe in great sex without conception! |
