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My Crazy World

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Anybody have any thoughts on that one? I know some of ya'll are probably trying to remember who I am I haven't been around in such a while...

I've been going through a lot lately, and am finally coming out on the positive side. Through that journey I've managed to pick up a lost husband, a new step son, my own life back, a *cleaner* clearer vision on life, and overall just a happier more satisfied view on why we need to live life and not give up.

I'm still so young but I realize age is only a number mostly. My life experiences could put me up there with some of the best 40 year olds.

I just had to let go and live and I'm finally seeing that life is good. Always room for improvement, but overall, I'd sum it up *increasingly better*
Mon, April 9, 2007 - 12:12 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
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Sun, July 23, 2006 - 5:18 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
To play, you have to list eight facts/things/habbits abour yourself. You have to say who tagged you. You have to tag six other people (No tag backs), and let them know they have been tagged.


Alice tagged me!

1) I'm packing up everything I own to move to Georgia to be with my childhood sweetheart. I've known him since I was 8 and when my father died I had to move away from him and every body there.. But now I'm on my way back! and we still love each other more than before, and it's not just puppy love now. Yay!

2) My nickname from my family is Andy. My mom mispelled my name on my Birth Certificate. It's Adrienne, and she put Andrienne.

3) I am certified by the Dept. Of Energy as a Nuclear Reactor Operator.

4) I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove sunflower seeds. My aunt calls me Bird because I eat them so much.

5) There is great debate in my family over why my father named me Adrienne. He always said he liked it, everyone else says it was because of Adrienne Barbeau (sp?)

6) When I'm not using my tailor's form, I keep cloth pinned on it. I dunno why.... guess she needs to feel clothed too sometimes.. lol

7) I was accepted to Duke University and Savannah College of Art and Design while I was still in 9th grade.

8) I got both of my nipples pierced at the same time so that I wouldn't get one and then chicken out about the other....



and I choose.... hmmmm


Scott
Ciao
GentleGiant David
Mahasti
Jack Sim
Teejay
Tue, June 13, 2006 - 4:30 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
IT once occurred to a certain king, that if he always knew the right time to begin everything; if he knew who were the right people to listen to, and whom to avoid, and, above all, if he always knew what was the most important thing to do, he would never fail in anything he might undertake.

And this thought having occurred to him, he had it proclaimed throughout his kingdom that he would give a great reward to any one who would teach him what was the right time for every action, and who were the most necessary people, and how he might know what was the most important thing to do.

And learned men came to the King, but they all answered his questions differently.

In reply to the first question, some said that to know the right time for every action, one must draw up in advance, a table of days, months and years, and must live strictly according to it. Only thus, said they, could everything be done at its proper time. Others declared that it was impossible to decide beforehand the right time for every action; but that, not letting oneself be absorbed in idle pastimes, one should always attend to all that was going on, and then do what was most needful. Others, again, said that however attentive the King might be to what was going on, it was impossible for one man to decide correctly the right time for every action, but that he should have a Council of wise men, who would help him to fix the proper time for everything.

But then again others said there were some things which could not wait to be laid before a Council, but about which one had at once to decide whether to undertake them or not. But in order to decide that one must know beforehand what was going to happen. It is only magicians who know that; and, therefore in order to know the right time for every action, one must consult magicians.

Equally various were the answers to the second question. Some said, the people the King most needed were his councillors; others, the priests; others, the doctors; while some said the warriors were the most necessary.

To the third question, as to what was the most important occupation: some replied that the most important thing in the world was science. Others said it was skill in warfare; and others, again, that it was religious worship.

All the answers being different, the King agreed with none of them, and gave the reward to none. But still wishing to find the right answers to his questions, he decided to consult a hermit, widely renowned for his wisdom.

The hermit lived in a wood which he never quitted and he received none but common folk. So the King put on simple clothes, and before reaching the hermit's cell dismounted from his horse, and, leaving his bodyguard behind, went on alone.

When the King approached, the hermit was digging the ground in front of his hut. Seeing the King, he greeted him and went on digging. The hermit was frail and weak, and each time he stuck his spade into the ground and turned a little earth, he breathed heavily.

The King went up to him and said: 'I have come to you, wise hermit, to ask you to answer three questions: How can I learn to do the right thing at the right time? Who are the people I most need, and to whom should I, therefore, pay more attention than to the rest? And, what affairs are the most important and need my first attention?'

The hermit listened to the King, but answered nothing. He just spat on his hand and recommenced digging.

'You are tired,' said the King, 'let me take the spade and work awhile for you.'

'Thanks!' said the hermit, and, giving the spade to the King, he sat down on the ground.

When he had dug two beds, the King stopped and repeated his questions. The hermit again gave no answer, but rose, stretched out his hand for the spade, and said:

'Now rest awhile -- and let me work a bit.'

But the King did not give him the spade, and continued to dig. One hour passed, and another. The sun began to sink behind the trees, and the King at last stuck the spade into the ground, and said:

'I came to you, wise man, for an answer to my questions. If you can give me none, tell me so, and I will return home.'

'Here comes some one running,' said the hermit, 'let us see who it is.'

The King turned round, and saw a bearded man come running out of the wood. The man held his hands pressed against his stomach, and blood was flowing from under them. When he reached the King, he fell fainting on the ground moaning feebly. The King and the hermit unfastened the man's clothing. There was a large wound in his stomach. The King washed it as best he could, and bandaged it with his handkerchief and with a towel the hermit had. But the blood would not stop flowing, and the King again and again removed the bandage soaked with warm blood, and washed and rebandaged the wound. When at last the blood ceased flowing, the man revived and asked for something to drink. The King brought fresh water and gave it to him. Meanwhile the sun had set, and it had become cool. So the King, with the hermit's help, carried the wounded man into the hut and laid him on the bed. Lying on the bed the man closed his eyes and was quiet; but the King was so tired with his walk and with the work he had done, that he crouched down on the threshold, and also fell asleep -- so soundly that he slept all through the short summer night. When he awoke in the morning, it was long before he could remember where he was, or who was the strange bearded man lying on the bed and gazing intently at him with shining eyes.

'Forgive me!' said the bearded man in a weak voice, when he saw that the King was awake and was looking at him.

'I do not know you, and have nothing to forgive you for,' said the King.

'You do not know me, but I know you. I am that enemy of yours who swore to revenge himself on you, because you executed his brother and seized his property. I knew you had gone alone to see the hermit, and I resolved to kill you on your way back. But the day passed and you did not return. So I came out from my ambush to find you, and I came upon your bodyguard, and they recognized me, and wounded me. I escaped from them, but should have bled to death had you not dressed my wound. I wished to kill you, and you have saved my life. Now, if I live, and if you wish it, I will serve you as your most faithful slave, and will bid my sons do the same. Forgive me!'

The King was very glad to have made peace with his enemy so easily, and to have gained him for a friend, and he not only forgave him, but said he would send his servants and his own physician to attend him, and promised to restore his property.

Having taken leave of the wounded man, the King went out into the porch and looked around for the hermit. Before going away he wished once more to beg an answer to the questions he had put. The hermit was outside, on his knees, sowing seeds in the beds that had been dug the day before.

The King approached him, and said:

'For the last time, I pray you to answer my questions, wise man.'

'You have already been answered!' said the hermit still crouching on his thin legs, and looking up at the King, who stood before him.

'How answered? What do you mean?' asked the King.

'Do you not see,' replied the hermit. 'If you had not pitied my weakness yesterday, and had not dug these beds for me, but had gone your way, that man would have attacked you, and you would have repented of not having stayed with me. So the most important time was when you were digging the beds; and I was the most important man; and to do me good was your most important business. Afterwards, when that man ran to us, the most important time was when you were attending to him, for if you had not bound up his wounds he would have died without having made peace with you. So he was the most important man, and what you did for him was your most important business. Remember then: there is only one time that is important -- Now! It is the most important time because it is the only time when we have any power. The most necessary man is he with whom you are, for no man knows whether he will ever have dealings with any one else: and the most important affair is, to do him good, because for that purpose alone was man sent into this life!'

1903.
Sat, June 3, 2006 - 7:26 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
So HEY! I'm back. I'm better! And I'm in action. I'm out of the military now. General under Honorable Conditions discharge. I'm off all those wacky medications they were feeding me. And I have to tell you, I feel so much better. My head's not all cloudy. I can focus on life better. I've healed from the inside out about my past miscarriages. I'm moving on. I just recently welcomed my new 'nephew' into the world. My friend's healthy baby helped me realize that everyone has their own time. And on the romance front OOHHHH boy! The internet is just such a wonderful thing. The boy I grew up with, my first boyfriend, my first love, my first kiss, we've reconnected, re-ignited, and wow, just wow. I can't believe the blissful state I'm in. Reaffirms my belief that there is a reason for everything. We make not like it, we may not handle it well, but it always turns out. I'm going to be moving back to where I grew up pretty much. Beautiful ol Savannah, GA.

I'd like to thank all of you who thought about me, and prayed for me. There's nothing better than knowing that if only for a moment, someone puts you into their heart and wishes healthiness for you. *HUGZ Everyone*
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Aedh Wishes For The Clothes of Heaven - William Butler Yeats
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Aedh Wishes For The Clothes Of Heaven


Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

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I was in the Navy for four years. Ran a nuclear reactor. *eyes pop* Holy cow! okay.... now I'm on to the next part of my life. I got married when I was 19. ummmm...... it didn't work. There were many reasons...... Now, I've reconnected with the first love of my life. My first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first .... everything. And everything is still there. We are as much in love now as we were then, and then some! There's only this one pesky thing right now.... we're seperated by 500 miles! :( I'm in Virgnina still, he's in Georgia. We are rectifying that situation though.
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What Happens when we lose ourselves to find ourselves (blog entry) ???

Anybody have any thoughts on that one? I know some of ya'll are probably trying to remember who I am I haven't been around in such a while...

I've been going through a lot lately, and am finally coming out on the positive side. Throug... read more
blog entry posted Mon, April 9, 2007 - 12:12 PM permalink - 0 comments
Pictures Pictures (blog entry) This is the Picture Comment Game. Since you've opened this blog entry, you must (if you wish) do the following things:

1. Go to the profile of the person who posted this blog entry.

2. Pick your favorite picture and comment on it.

3. Repo... read more
blog entry posted Sun, July 23, 2006 - 5:18 PM permalink - 0 comments
Ohhhhh Nooooo (blog entry) To play, you have to list eight facts/things/habbits abour yourself. You have to say who tagged you. You have to tag six other people (No tag backs), and let them know they have been tagged.


Alice tagged me!

1) I'm packing up everything I... read more
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Einstein's Wisdom

"Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love"
"Things should be made as simple as possible, but not any simpler."

"Joy in looking and comprehending is nature's most beautiful gift."

"Sometimes one pays most for the things one gets for nothing."

"Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age 18.

"Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them."

"Strange is our Situation Here Upon Earth"

"Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts."

"If you are out to describe the truth, leave elegance to the tailor."

"An empty stomach is not a good political advisor."

"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."

"I never think of the future. It comes soon enough."

"Force always attracts men of low morality, and I believe it to be an invariable rule that tyrants of genius are succeeded by scoundrels."

"If A equals success, then the formula is: A=X+Y+Z. X is work. Y is play. Z is keep your mouth shut."

"Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value."

"Perfection of means and confusion of ends seem to characterize our age."

"Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts."

"The faster you go, the shorter you are."

"Nationalism is an infantile sickness. It is the measles of the human race."

"The only reason for time is so that everything doesn't happen at once."

"If my theory of relativity is proven successful, Germany will claim me as a German and France will declare that I am a citizen of the world."

"The wireless telegraph is not difficult to understand. The ordinary telegraph is like a very long cat. You pull the tail in New York, and it meows in Los Angeles. The wireless is the same, only without the cat. "

"The foundation of morality should not be made dependent on myth nor tied to any authority lest doubt about the myth or about the legitimacy of the authority imperil the foundation of sound judgment and action."

"Too many of us look upon Americans as dollar chasers. This is a cruel libel, even if it is reiterated thoughtlessly by the Americans themselves." (1929)

"Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character."

"Perfections of mean and confusion of goals seem -in my opinion- to characterize our age. "

"Politics is a pendulum whose swings between anarchy and tyranny are fueled by perpetually rejuvenated illusions."

"All our lauded technological progress -- our very civilization - is like the axe in the hand of the pathological criminal."

"Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason mastery demands all of a person."

"Desire for approval and recognition is a healthy motive, but the desire to be acknowledged as better, stronger or more intelligent than a fellow being or fellow scholar easily leads to an excessively egoistic psychological adjustment, which may become in jurious for the individual and for the community. "
"On Education," Address to the State University of New York at Albany, in Ideas and Opinions

"We have penetrated far less deeply into the regularities obtaining within the realm of living things, but deeply enough nevertheless to sense at least the rule of fixed necessity ..... what is still lacking here is a grasp of the connections of profound generality, but not a knowledge of order itself.

"(1) Those instrumental goods which should serve to maintain the life and health of all human beings should be produced by the least possible labour of all.
(2) The satisfaction of physical needs is indeed the indespensible precondition of a satisfactory existence, but in itself is not enough. In order to be content men must also have the possibility of developing their intellectual and artistic powers to whatever extent accord with their personal characteristics and abilities."

"If the possibility of the spiritual development of all individuals is to be secured, a second kind of outward freedom is necessary. The development of science and of the creative activities of the spirit in general requires still another kind of freedom, which may be characterised as inward freedom. It is this freedom of the spirit which consists in the interdependence of thought from the restrictions of authoritarian and social prejudices as well as from unphilosophical routinizing and habit in general. This inward freedom is an infrequent gift of nature and a worthy object for the individual."


 
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