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Planning Week for a joint event sponsored by members of Tribe / Dudesnude / JustUsboys, Recon, Manhunt, A4A, (gay sites) (events » other) Wednesday, January 21, 2015 - 7:00 PM How about a joint Tribe.net, JUB (JustUsBoys.com), Dudesnude, Adam4Adam, and Manhunt (etc) Gathering or Party?
Do you think it could be possible? Why? How? Where? When?
Got any ideas about how to make it work?

We're having a planning week for working on the idea of a joint event during the week of Jan. 21-28.
See this Eventbrite event (Plannning Event for a Joint JustUsBoys Dudesnude Tribe.net Adam4adam Manhunt Grindr Recon Gathering)
www.eventbrite.com/e/plannn...681373383

It seems that JUB (JustusBoys.com) members and even Tribe.net members are hosting small gatherings across the US. So I'm wondering if guys on Dudesnude.com, Adam4adam.com, Manhunt.net, Gaydar.com Grindr.com, Recon, etc, would be interested in organizing some private parties or one giant party or event -- either in the USA or Europe (or both or even elsewhere)?

Is anyone here actually participating in those -- attending and/or planning? I wonder if another large online virtual community like Dudesnude.com could do the same? Would there be any benefit of trying to hold a joint party/gathering?

That brings up the idea of a "joint" cross-group event - -but after all, isn't that what PRIDE events or the annual street fairs are all about (such as Southern Decadence). I am not nixing the idea of a separate Tribe.net Off-Line Mixer, or exclusive Dudesnude.com party or a RECON convention or some other event. Those single site (organizations) events certainly can and do happen.

I am just making some suggestions so a larger, more inclusive co-sponsored event might actually happen. For example, we could hook-up with an existing event and thus attract more Tribe / Manhunt / JUB (Just Us Boys) or Dudesnude members to attend. I am also explaining what I think is needed to be decided in order to get one organized.
Join us for the CMNM events at the Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend at Timberfell Lodge, TN, USA, Aug.7-9 (events » nightlife) Friday, August 7, 2015 - 12:00 PM 292 RSVPs
Join us for the CMNM events at the Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend at Timberfell Lodge.

www.eventbrite.com/e/mr-tim...486354102

Now that is mid-winter, I'm beginning to crave those long hot days of a Tennessee summer, and the sweltering nights of torrid passion that you can easily experience on an evening in rural Appalachia.

Although it is located in rural Tennessee, there is most everything you'd want to have at the resort grounds: a nice dining room, a variety of accommodations (from camping to deluxe rooms), plenty of men of all ages and body types, different races, persuasions, and passions. There are lots of nooks and crannies for anonymous sex, a great sense of community, and isolation from the main street (a county road) for complete nudity, plus reasonable rates, exciting home-spun events with enough technicality to be enjoyable,... and more.

There is while isn't still time this season (Winter 2015) to camp out, they do have rooms and a bunk-bed dorm for the less outdoorsy.
Labor Day Weekend in September, long gone now, was one of their biggest annual events, and the last major one before the pool closes later that month, followed on by their annual Cocktobear-Fest in October. There are few more events during the winter season, but when the weather starts to warm up, that's when things getting boiling hot in the Great Ol' Outdoors at Timberfell Lodge and Campground.

SPECIAL NOTE: Timberfell would make a great venue for a Daddy-Boy Retreat or a CMNM Weekend, complete with circus tent for live role-plays and exhibitions. I think I'm going to try to get one started there for summer this year or next -- hopefully during August (between Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend and Labor Day) -- perhaps in conjunction with these or another existing annual event on the Timberfell calendar.


What's hot and what is there to do?

1) Bears galore - If you're into them, you'll have a large assortment to dazzle your fancy. There are other types of guys too.. like me (gray fox), and otters, panthers, and wily coyotes, too. There are NOT too many twinks, however (awhhh!) every once in a while, a slim twinky-type does make an appearance, so a car-load of youngish, collegiate-looking dudes waltz in proudly onto the property. It just depends.

When I attended the Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend, there were only 4 young men (20s), who were there because one of them (a hunky stud) was competing for the title.
I'd say the average age is 45 - and there are plenty of older men, and quite a lot of younger ones 30 - 45. But only a few below 29. I did meet a 20-year-old who was into older guys, and a 70-something dude who was into younger (tweens). It's all relative.. after all.



2) The location is rather isolated, which means you have drive a while from the nearest town. But it also means that you can be nude anywhere on the resort (except the dining room).

3) There is a festive gay atmosphere for the weekend events; it's pretty laid back during the

weekdays, but it really depends on who's visiting at the resort, and who is staying at one of the two trailer/camping car mini-communities located adjacent to the Timberfell property.

4) The bar is open to outsiders, day visitors, and to guests, as are some of the nighttime events, so there is a chance you can encounter some enchanted stranger for a hot evening of sex under the stars or some fraternal nude swimming during the day in the medium-sized pool and sunbathing terrace.

5) Having sex is not guaranteed but highly likely if you've got what it takes (smile). Public sex is not allowed, but there was plenty going on in the private areas. (Above photo is the blog author)

6) While it 'ain't the Ritz', there are fairly nice facilities at the resort. BYOB (bring your own bottle) is allowed for wine and hard liquor. Since they sell beer, you cannot bring beer in the resort (private

tents and rooms excepted,) but you can buy beer there in the canteen. The food served is like a home-style buffet - if you're not really a camp-style cook, you can purchase and meal plan, or just buy tickets for individual meals. The pool and large sun deck, sauna, and steam room can get active - especially at night - they are open all night for your pleasure (smile).

7) The best thing was meeting the great guys - I had great conversations and still managed to get off at the right time

Costs: Check it out online - but campsite $15 for 1 person per night, breakfast $6, dinner $20, poolside beer $3, snacks $3
From camping (in a tent or camper), to a bunk in the bunkhouse, to a room with shared toilet, to a fine private bedroom with private bath. It's all up to you! They have events all year long - even when it's too cold to camp outdoors. So you should book early.


ADDED Bonus: The events are not very expensive, and day-guests are abundant on weekends. Also, there is actually a community of gay men who live (and a few work on site) at the resort full-time, particularly in the summer months. There are rentable trailer and RV sites for those who want a live-in gay nude resort experience 24/7.


Find out more at:
www.timberfell.com/home/

You have to realize that Timberfell is way back in rural, Bible-belt America. If you drive passed it, (easily to do since its unmarked except for the street number), you'll end up in one of the most redneck parts of Tennessee, where the regular pastime could well be cornholing unsuspecting Yankee tourists, a la Deliverance (see film / novel of the same name) . However, Timberfell Lodge is a little gay oasis where bear-mauling truckers, silver-maned bikers, beefy jarheads, countryfied southern gentry, and white trailer trash all mingle rather happily, mostly naked around the pool or guzzling moonshine (not actually) in the dance-hall tavern-bar just up the hill.

Maybe we can get a group of interested people from Tribe.net to convene for some down-home fun and good times. Hey, ya'll come, y'hear!

Kelly ( originally posted on Tribe.net on Sept. 4, 2010, now with revisions Jan. 25, 2015)

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Previous Post about the Mr. Timberfell Contest Event to be held next on August 7-9, 2015, at Timberfell Lodge near Greeneville, TN, actually near the North Carolina border and gateway to the Appalachian Mountains.)


Come out to the woods and get naked, my friends. The weekend of August 7-9, 2015, is the annual Mr. Timberfell Competition.

Tucked deep in a hollow of the Southern Appalachians is Timberfell Lodge, a paradise for men seeking either solitude or camaraderie with their gay brothers and where inhibitions are shed as easily as clothing…

www.timberfell.com/home/

What is There to Do at Timberfell?


After breakfast and conversations lingering over fresh-brewed coffee, guests head for the pool, hike the gentle or more demanding trails circling the lodge property, or do nothing at all. This is when camaraderie is strongest and new friendships are forged. If the thought of getting dirt on your dock siders or having your hair mussed by tree branches drives you crazy, there are a number of alternatives to a wilderness walk.

Swim in the large, 20′ by 40′ heated clothing-optional pool or simply watch while sunbathing. Relax in the steam room or redwood sauna. Towels are provided for guests’ convenience while at the pool.


You can to relax in a heavenly 20-man sauna or “plunk” on the oversized porch and watch the sun setting between the mountains. There are some music / party/ dance events planned (clothing required), as well as the special activities around the Mr. Timberfell Competition, with a Benefit Mixer (free drinks with $5 donation) on Sat. Aug 8, from 2-4pm. Followed by the main event, the Mr. Timberfell Pageant later that evening.

Some CMNM events that could possibly be held at Timberfell, although they are not sponsored or endorsed by the lodge, but are privately organized by the some of the Mr. Timberfell Weekend attendees. Moreover, there are multiple acres of property and enough private areas (sauna) where CMNM interactions can occur. Some special events like strip poker, truth and dare, costume parties and role plays are planned during this Mr. Timberfell weekend, August 7 - 9. Plus, there will be plenty of time to enjoy the natural environment and the gay men's social events arranged for the weekend.


SPECIAL EVENT: Saturday, August 8, 2015, Annual Mr. Timberfell Competition and Benefit Mixer,


Last year’s competition was the HOTTEST ever with more than 15 men competing for cash, lodging prizes and the coveted title of Mr. Timberfell. This a big weekend with great parties and music.

A benefit event, the Leather and Cocktails Charity Mixer, will be held from 2-4pm on August 14, entrance $5 donation, free drinks, silent auction, and music by Ft. Lauderdale DJ, Dr. D.

There are variety of accommodations from primitive camping to cabins or bunkbed dorm rooms. Book early to get your choice of rooms. Meal plans are available the including breakfast and dinner.
Beer is available for purchase or bring your own wines and hard liquor.
Interested contestants call our office or email Timberfell for details at their site:

www.timberfell.com/home/contact-us


Timberfell Lodge

Driving address: 2240 Van Hill Road, Greeneville, TN 37745 (actually about 2 miles or less from the US 81 interchange, north on Baileyton Rd).

Mailing address: 1416 Baileyton Main St, Greeneville, TN 37745
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Contact us by Phone or Fax:
Lodge: (423) 234-0833
Fax: (423) 234-8512
Toll-Free: (800) 437-0118

Location: Timberfell Lodge (Bailyton, TN, not far from Greeneville, TN)

Timberfell Lodge (and Campground) is located about 65 miles further east from Knoxville off of Interstate Hwy 81. So it's about a 4-hour from Nashville, and roughly more or less 4 hours from Atlanta, Georgia or Charlotte, North Carolina. If driving, take Interstate 81 South to Exit 36 (Baileyton/Greeneville). Then drive north on Route 172 toward Baileyton to the Shell Station Truck Stop. From the truck stop, travel 2 mile, turn right at wide gravel drive, proceed through gate, follow driveway all the way to the main lodge approximately 3/4 mile.

Actual address: 2240 Van Hill Road, Greeneville, TN 37745

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serious but romantic, sensual and candid, self-challenging and generous, comfortable with myself but eager to grow and change, good at giving pleasure and reluctant to take something without working for it, indulgent and critical, warm-hearted but wise - poetic yet pragmatic
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Lastest Stuff: Travel / News / Events

Travel Itinerary Winter / Spring 2014-2015

Dec. 23-28 Trip to Bali (via Singapore)

Possible trip to Hawaii (Honolulu and Big Island) Feb. 12 - 21, 2015
Possible trip to US (visit home), Europe March 14-30

Summer 2014
I departed for The Big Island of Hawaii from August 11 - 15,
then visited my family in KY from August 16-24 by way of Atlanta.
I stopped in Honolulu on August 24 for one night before heading back.

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If I'm organizing any CMNM events, you can see details at:
go to our blog: Guys Into CMNM at: guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
or JUB Groups: CMNM www.justusboys.com/forum/group.php

See alternate CMNM schedule events at:
www.eventbrite.com/o/club-c...813880240

Wanted: CMNM (clothed male / naked male) enthusiasts, guys into underwear and gear fetish, guys into primitive, tribal, and ethnic attire, nudist buddies, scuba diving buddy, outdoor naked recreation partners, travel buddies, dickflashing, naked dare partners, camping or hiking groups

I'd love to hear from anyone into CMNM (clothed male naked male) scenes / nudism / nudist / naturist / dickflash / exhibitionist / voyeur / flashing / public sex / freeballing / exposing / expose / dares / public nudity / outdoor sex / toys / dildos / gloryholes / tearoom sex / toilet cruising / nude camping nude hiking / commando / cottaging / dogging

My Flickr id:
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Here is a list of most all of my blogs, groups, and profiles:

twinkaholic.tumblr.com/myblogs
mythreelegs.tumblr.com/myotherblogs

Among them, my favorites are:

guysintocmnm.tumblr.com/
cmnm-guys.tumblr.com/ (hardtwoholed Gmail)
mythreelegs.tumblr.com/
nudetravels.tumblr.com/
bumboiz.tumblr.com/ (hidetoo Yahoo)
twinkaholic.tumblr.com/ (garxon19 Gmail)
mydaddyisgay.tumblr.com/
dickflashing.tumblr.com/
uberhornygays.tumblr.com/
homoeroticfriends.tumblr.com/
passionhentai.tumblr.com/
ethnicgays.tumblr.com/
gayhorizons.tumblr.com (seefallus Gmail)

My general 'central' blogs: Kelly's Second Life kelly-sb.blogspot.com
Travels with Sunbuns sunbuns.blogspot.com

My gay erotic blogs and sites are:

twinkaholic.tumblr.com/myblogs
My Travel with Sunbuns blog: sunbuns.blogspot.com

A major interest recently is CMNM Guys into Clothed Men / Naked Men Scenes

There are smaller ones on Facebook and JUB:
Facebook Guys into CMNM Fan Page: www.facebook.com/guysn2cmnm
CMNM Dudes www.facebook.com/group.php

JUB Groups: CMNM www.justusboys.com/forum/group.php
See the Club CMNM (event calendar) at:
www.eventbrite.com/o/club-c...813880240

We also have a blog devoted to CMNM guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com.
Contributing articles and blog entry is welcomed.
Guys Into CMNM is our blog, devoted to Clothed Male / Naked Male experiences
guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
Related Tumblrs:
guysintocmnm.tumblr.com/
cmnm-guys.tumblr.com/

Note: Most of these are open to anyone. However, for some, you won't see much until you sign-up (free) to join. If you do join, please don't be just a lurker, fill in your profile, add a photo or avatar, introduce yourself, and contribute something: media (photos or video, links, blogs (most of these you can add a RSS feed so that your current blog can be shared with members - without having to re-write or create a new blog); however, that would be appreciated too.

For a more or less complete list of all the CMNM groups (including those I belong to or have created), you can find out more at our CMNM wikispaces page. cmnm.wikispaces.com Check out the Web Resources section.

I've started these blogs and groups as a cooperative or collaborative projects. They includes stories and experiences (both mine and from others). including photos and a few links and resources. There is also some discussion about the role of nudity in male sexual and social development.
If you'd like to contribute, please send me an email with your story (illustrative photos are appreciated too).
I can also make you a blog 'team' member if you'd like to contribute more often.

Nowadays, the cooperative part of the CMNM project occurs within the bounds of the Guys Into CMNM Social Networks

Dudesnude: sunbuns99
www.dudesnude.com/members/9156
JUB: sunbuns99
www.justusboys.com/forum/me...sunbuns99
Tribe.net
people.tribe.net/sunbuns/

Other gay social networking sites:
Yahoo IM: hardtwoholed
Dlist: seefallus www.dlist.com/seefallus
GayWatch: sunbuns www.gaywatch.com/sunbuns.html
Manjam: sunbuns www.manjam.com/sunbuns
Hangoutnude.com seefallus
Hard Buddies sunbuns99 www.hardbuddies.com/member/sunbuns99
HardHornyMe: sunbuns

My other blogs:

Interracy: Gay Inter-racial Sex and porn interracy.blogspot.com

A Father's Pride and Joy: For young and older into Daddy-Son scenarios
fatherpride.blogspot.com
mydaddyisgay.tumblr.com

My Porn Blogs Around The Web
kelly-sb.blogspot.com
fatherpride.blogspot.com
flashdick.blogspot.com
guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
interracy.blogspot.com
mecapoil.blogspot.com
otoko-gay.blogspot.com
passionhentai.blogspot.com
queerquick.blogspot.com
sunbuns.blogspot.com
uberhorny.blogspot.com

My Tumblr Blogs or see entire list at: mythirdleg.tumblr.com/myblogs/

guysintocmnm.tumblr.com/
cmnm-guys.tumblr.com/ (hardtwoholed Gmail)
mythreelegs.tumblr.com/
nudetravels.tumblr.com/
bumboiz.tumblr.com/ (hidetoo Yahoo)
twinkaholic.tumblr.com/ (garxon19 Gmail)
mydaddyisgay.tumblr.com/
dickflashing.tumblr.com/
uberhornygays.tumblr.com/
homoeroticfriends.tumblr.com/
passionhentai.tumblr.com/
ethnicgays.tumblr.com/
gayhorizons.tumblr.com (seefallus Gmail)
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My Interests:

scuba diving snorkeling world travel eco tourism cooking photography underwater photography orchids cactus volleyball aikido ethnic music musicals opera dance ballet US politics and international news and politics real estate

Naked camping, nude beaches and nude outdoor activities "au naturel" along with scuba diving are some of my favorite leisure pasttimes, but NOT the only ones. I travel a lot, and while doing so, love to cruise gay beaches worldwide when I'm not enjoying the cultural or natural environments, the latter are really my true passions. Sex and/or romance may be important, but it IS NOT the completely dominant theme of my life.

As you can probably tell by the tone and content of my message here, I am not looking for a relationship of any special or limiting sort except true friendship. I like sex, of course, but by far there are much more important ways to appreciate one's fellow man than by simply fucking/sucking and by emotionally screwing each other over than what the typical male (probably especially the typical gay male) knows or can even comprehend.

To keep things simple, basic, and just primitive, I would love to meet up with guys who just want to get naked in public or challenge other (and photograph it) to naked male dares.

Let's hook up for a hot scene on the beach, or camp out naked, or hike nude together in the great outdoors or I am equally at ease enjoying a meal - one that we cook together is even better, or take in an event (museum, concert, street fair, etc) together (these cultural events are NOT in the nude, well - probably not)).
Just talking and enjoying a view of the beach, mountains, or urban city street is also a good experience too.
I am not always a horny bastard -- I supremely enjoy nature but also the arts, cultural events, travel, discussion, ethnic food and music and more.

Recently, I've started writing more (or at least collecting my posts into a themed journal on my blogs:

guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
www.justusboys.com/forum/me...sunbuns99
sunbuns.blogspot.com
people.tribe.net/sunbuns
www.meetnudemen.com/sunbuns/ (log-in require)

E-mail addresses (I check the first one (Gmail) daily.

sunbunz (at) gmail.com
Y! : hardtwoholed@yahoo.com
or seefallus@yahoo.com

Y! IM: hardtwoholed (Yahoo Chat)
RECON: sunbuns
Manhunt.com: sunbuns99
Adam4Adam: sunbuns

Iphone apps I use for gay social networking:
Jack'd
Radar.Adam4adam web app
Purpll
GayVox
GuySpy
Hornet
Bender
FindFred
Recon
Grindr
Manhunt
Mister


Guys Into CMNM (blogspot)
My main CMNM blog and gateway to the CMNM Social Network
Links to all my Net profiles, sites, blogs
- A casual self-reflective, spontaneous blogging place for me
My CMNM blog was deleted once but Google re-instated it, So I started another blog
You can also find links here to various CMNM blogs and groups.
Travel with Sunbuns (also available on Tumblr - see below)
Nude travel, outdoor naked recreation, FKK - mine and others
Just Us Boys Sunbuns99 blog, profile, and gallery
My longest running 'gay' profile and blog (newly updated 4/2012)
Sunbuns99 on Dudenude.com
my Dudesnude profile
Facebook profile (changed temporarily)
You must be a Facebook friend to view all (sunbuns on FB will return later perhaps)
Twitter.com/sunbuns
Follow me (or my alternate: CMNM ) on Twitter
Adam4Adam.com Profile (also an iPhone webapp)
- must have permission (be a member) to view X-rated pix
Mobile Guys Into CMNM network site
The newest version of my Guys Into CMNM networks for mobile phones
Homoerotic Antics - my public tribe on Tribes.net
For those interested in Situations and scenes where males, either friends, buddies or strangers, engage in homoerotic behaviors,
Nude Travels with Sunbuns-> Now called Naked Travels
- my personal nude travels, FKK, and nudism blog on Tumblr
Twinkaholic (blog) - was deleted on 12/01/2011 by Google; see alt:
Addicted to teen gays also at twinkle-boys.posterous.com/
Erotic adventures of a breeder-gone-'wilde' (a la Oscar) - That's me
Kelly's Third Leg - Misc photos that get me going or topics I find stimulating
InterRacy - Inter-racial gay sex (blog)
Interracial gay sex (blog) also at interracy.tumblr.com
The Spirit is Willing but the Flash is Weak, day and night.
Male-to-male flashing, exposed in public, and gay exhibitionists (blog)
My Dad is Queer (blog)
-- a gay dad's filial fantasies - daddy and his boy stuff at: mydadisqueer.tumblr.com
Father's Pride
_a gay dad's fantasies about his son
Guys Into CMNM (mashup site of various social networking tools)
Adhoc social network site for Guys into CMNM
CMNM Web Resources
Collected Links to various CMNM Net resources
Otoko-Gay (blog)
My blogspot devoted to Japanese and Asian gay men or at: otoko-gay.posterous.com
Bum Boiz
Check out the replacement for Butt Boiz (now deleted)
Alternative CMNM site that I created by combining parts of various sites
Includes links to separate units, e.g. mobile group, tumblr, blog, JUB group, etc
Hentai Passions (photo blog)
- join to contribute your own photos and stories (also at: hentaipassions.tumblr.com/
Sunbuns99 Links on Delicious
- not updated recently -
Manhunt profile
My profile on Manhunt

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x1randevbprsiq29g4n:

Business Blu!

Love business Blu.

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daddylovestofuk:

The boys learn more quickly with demonstration

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I promised myself a good while back that I would write a review of Timberfell Lodge, the outdoorsy gay resort in the foothills of the Great Smoky Mountains of east Tennessee. I made good on the promised, but it’s now midwinter (again — funny how that became an annual occurrence), and Im already dreaming again of hot summer days and warm nights camping out at Timberfell.

Before the great memories fade completely, I will try to remember some of what occurred there during my first visit to Timberfell. It will definitely not be my last time to go.

Now that is mid-winter, I’m beginning to crave those long hot days of a Tennessee summer, and the sweltering nights of torrid passion that you can easily experience on an evening in rural Appalachia.

SPECIAL NOTE: Timberfell would make a great venue for a Daddy-Boy Retreat or a CMNM Weekend, complete with circus tent for live role-plays and exhibitions. I think I’m going to try to get one started there for summer this year or next — hopefully during August (between Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend and Labor Day) — perhaps in conjunction with these or another existing annual event on the Timberfell calendar.

Although it is located in rural Tennessee, there is most everything you’d want to have at the resort grounds: a nice dining room, a variety of accommodations (from camping to deluxe rooms), plenty of men of all ages and body types, different races, persuasions, and passions. There are lots of nooks and crannies for anonymous sex, a great sense of community, and isolation from the main street (a county road)  for complete nudity, plus reasonable rates, exciting home-spun events with enough technicality to be enjoyable,… and more.

There is while isn’t still time this season (Winter 2015) to camp out, they do have rooms and a bunk-bed dorm for the less outdoorsy.

Labor Day Weekend in September, long gone now, was one of their biggest annual events, and the last major one before the pool closes later that month, followed on by their annual Cocktobear-Fest in October. There are few more events during the winter season, but when the weather starts to warm up, that’s when things getting boiling hot in the Great Ol’ Outdoors at Timberfell Lodge and Campground.

What’s hot and what is there to do?

1) Bears galore - If you’re into them, you’ll have a large assortment to dazzle your fancy. There are other types of guys too.. like me (gray fox), and otters, panthers, and wily coyotes, too. There are NOT too many twinks, however (awhhh!) every once in  a while, a slim twinky-type does make an appearance, so a car-load of youngish, collegiate-looking dudes waltz in proudly onto the property. It just depends.

When I attended the Mr. Timberfell Contest Weekend, there were only 4 young men (20s), who were there because one of them (a hunky stud) was competing for the title.

I’d say the average age is 45 - and there are plenty of older men, and quite a lot of younger ones 30 - 45. But only a few below 29. I did meet a 20-year-old who was into older guys, and a 70-something dude who was into younger (tweens). It’s all relative.. after all.

2) The location is rather isolated, which means you have drive a while from the nearest town.  But it also means that you can be nude anywhere on the resort (except the dining room).

3) There is a festive gay atmosphere for the weekend events; it’s pretty laid back during the

weekdays, but it really depends on who’s visiting at the resort, and who is staying at one of the two trailer/camping car mini-communities located adjacent to the Timberfell property.

4) The bar is open to outsiders, day visitors, and to guests, as are some of the nighttime events, so there is a chance you can encounter some enchanted stranger for a hot evening of sex under the stars or some fraternal nude swimming during the day in the medium-sized pool and sunbathing terrace.

5) Having sex is not guaranteed but highly likely if you’ve got what it takes (smile). Public sex is    not allowed, but there was plenty going on in the private areas.         (Above photo is the blog author)

6) While it ‘ain’t the Ritz’, there are fairly nice facilities at  the resort.  BYOB (bring your own bottle) is allowed for wine and hard liquor. Since they sell beer, you cannot bring beer in the resort (private

tents and rooms excepted,) but you can buy beer there in the canteen.  The food served is like a home-style buffet - if you’re not really a camp-style cook, you can purchase and meal plan, or just buy tickets for individual meals.  The pool and large sun deck, sauna,  and steam room  can get active - especially at night - they are open all night for your pleasure (smile).

7) The best thing was meeting the great guys - I had great conversations and still managed to get off at the right time.

Particulars: 

Costs: Check it out online - but campsite $15 for 1 person per night, breakfast $6, dinner $20, poolside beer $3, snacks $3

From camping (in a tent or camper), to a bunk in the bunkhouse, to a room with shared toilet, to a fine private bedroom with private bath. It’s all up to you! They have events all year long - even when it’s too cold to camp outdoors. So you should book early.

ADDED Bonus: The events are not very expensive, and day-guests are abundant on weekends. Also, there is actually a community of gay men who live (and a few work on site) at the resort full-time, particularly in the summer months. There are rentable trailer and RV sites for those who want a live-in gay nude resort experience 24/7.  

Find out more at:

www.timberfell.com/home/

You have to realize that Timberfell is way back in rural, Bible-belt America. If you drive passed it, (easily to do since its unmarked except for the street number), you’ll end up in one of the most redneck parts of Tennessee, where the regular pastime could well be cornholing unsuspecting Yankee tourists, a la Deliverance (see film / novel of the same name) . However, Timberfell Lodge is a little gay oasis where bear-mauling truckers, silver-maned bikers, beefy jarheads, countryfied southern gentry, and white trailer trash all mingle rather happily, mostly naked around the pool or guzzling moonshine (not actually) in the dance-hall tavern-bar just up the hill.

Maybe we can get a group of interested people from Tribe.net to convene for some down-home fun and good times. Hey, ya’ll come, y’hear!

Kelly ( originally posted on Tribe.net on Sept. 4, 2010, now with revisions Jan. 25, 2015)

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Previous Post about the Mr. Timberfell Contest Event to be held next on August 7-9, 2015, at Timberfell Lodge near Greeneville, TN, actually near  the North Carolina border and gateway to the Appalachian Mountains.)

Come out to the woods and get naked, my friends. The weekend of August 7-9, 2015, is the annual Mr. Timberfell Competition.

Tucked deep in a hollow of the Southern Appalachians is Timberfell Lodge, a paradise for men seeking either solitude or camaraderie with their gay brothers and where inhibitions are shed as easily as clothing…

www.timberfell.com/home/

What is There to Do at Timberfell?

After breakfast and conversations lingering over fresh-brewed coffee, guests head for the pool, hike the gentle or more demanding trails circling the lodge property, or do nothing at all. This is when camaraderie is strongest and new friendships are forged. If the thought of getting dirt on your dock siders or having your hair mussed by tree branches drives you crazy, there are a number of alternatives to a wilderness walk.

Swim in the large, 20′ by 40′ heated clothing-optional pool or simply watch while sunbathing. Relax in the steam room or redwood sauna. Towels are provided for guests’ convenience while at the pool.

You can to relax in a heavenly 20-man sauna or “plunk” on the oversized porch and watch the sun setting between the mountains. There are some music / party/ dance events planned (clothing required), as well as the special activities around the Mr. Timberfell Competition, with a Benefit Mixer (free drinks with $5 donation) on Sat. Aug 8, from 2-4pm. Followed by the main event, the Mr. Timberfell Pageant later that evening.

Some CMNM events that could possibly be held at Timberfell, although they are not sponsored or endorsed by the lodge, but are privately organized by the some of the Mr. Timberfell Weekend attendees. Moreover, there are multiple acres of property and enough private areas (sauna) where CMNM interactions can occur. Some special events like strip poker, truth and dare, costume parties and role plays are planned during this Mr. Timberfell weekend, August 7 - 9.  Plus, there will be plenty of time to enjoy the natural environment and the gay men’s social events arranged for the weekend.

SPECIAL EVENT:   Saturday, August 8, 2015,  Annual Mr. Timberfell Competition and Benefit Mixer  (2- 4pm), Contest Events (8pm-12am),

Last year’s competition was the HOTTEST ever with more than 15 men competing for cash, lodging prizes and the coveted title of Mr. Timberfell. This a big weekend with great parties and music.

A benefit event, the Leather and Cocktails Charity Mixer, will be held from 2-4pm on August 14, entrance $5 donation, free drinks, silent auction, and music by Ft. Lauderdale DJ, Dr. D.

There are variety of accommodations from primitive camping to cabins or bunkbed dorm rooms. Book early to get your choice of rooms. Meal plans are available the including breakfast and dinner.

Beer is available for purchase or bring your own wines and hard liquor.

Interested contestants call our office or email Timberfell for details at their site:

http://www.timberfell.com/home/contact-us

Timberfell Lodge

Driving address: 2240 Van Hill Road, Greeneville, TN 37745 (actually about 2 miles or less from the US 81 interchange, north on Baileyton Rd).

Mailing address: 1416 Baileyton Main St, Greeneville, TN 37745

Contact Timberfell by Phone or Fax:  (in USA)

Lodge: (423) 234-0833

Fax: (423) 234-8512

Toll-Free: (800) 437-0118

I’m staying in downtown Nashville the one night before driving northeast. Let me hear from you on Tribe.net, via email or thru grou.ps/cmnm

Location:

Timberfell Lodge (and Campground) is located about 65 miles further east from Knoxville off of Interstate Hwy 81. So it’s about a 4-hour from Nashville, and roughly more or less 4 hours from Atlanta, Georgia or Charlotte, North Carolina. If driving, take Interstate 81 South to Exit 36 (Baileyton/Greeneville). Then drive north on Route 172 toward Baileyton to the Shell Station Truck Stop. From the truck stop, travel 2 mile, turn right at wide gravel drive, proceed through gate, follow driveway all the way to the main lodge approximately 3/4 mile.

Actual address: 2240 Van Hill Road, Greeneville, TN 37745

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Contact Club CMNM Event Organizer at:  sunbunz (@) gmail.com

Club CMNM Events:   http://clubcmnm_events.eventbrite.com

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fraternityrow:

the clerk was very accommodating :)

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guygear:

Review Time Again…

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humiliatedmen:

stripped and wanked off by his mates as a birthday prank - sweet

vid loaded up onto the web - priceless!

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watchmenaked:

this is perfect !

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truedadsonlove:

Nursing Dad before he goes to work 

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Starting a blog is an idea that always excites a budding or would-be writer. We all have that basic urge to leave our thoughts inscribed somewhere for posterity, an instinct akin to the one that also drives the sexual libido - at least in part, - the primordial necessity to procreate. Having an audience of any kind is of paramount importance as a writer whether newbie, old-timer, or one who is still craving the ‘writer’s experience’ — even if the audience is only one member - the blogger himself. Several commenters and other bloggers have mentioned that they write first and foremost for themselves, and often solely of themselves. I think keeping up a blog –regularly enough to create a following audience - may very well depend on getting some kind of audience initially, or even just the possibility that a few people actually can find and are reading it.

 

For the dozen or so blogs, in my case [if you can actually call them that], I use JustusBoys (sometimes) and Blogger (less now that Goggle is deleted what it calls ‘spam’ blogs), but more and

more frequently I am using Goggle’s Blogger, JustUsBoys (personal pages), Tumblr, and Tribe.net, but not solely because Typepad and Wordpress (no porn / adult content allowed on the Wordpress hosted version) are useful, too.

Wordpress hosted on the company’s own servers does not allow pornographic material so that kind of limits what gay content can be published there. I actually think of those blogs as either my memory banks (places to store stuff I want to retrieve later, or ‘semen deposits’ - places where I store photos, stories and stuff that excited me when I saw it.

 Consequently, not ever so-called blog post is even text or image intended for a real audience. However, some people are definitely only likely to continue writing if they can get some type of feedback about their efforts and the content (albeit, self-focused stories). Therefore , I recommend that first time bloggers start out by making blog-type posts inside another social networking site (Not Facebook!). Obviously, JustUsBoys is a good candidate. As you can see, they have recently upgraded both their members profiles, the forums (discussion boards) and their blog (although I really do wish they had included the capacity to insert HTML (Blogger, Typepad and Posterous all have the function).

 Even Xtube has a blog function, also so does, Tribe.net, which is a good place to get a few people to notice and comment on your blogs — whether they be literary narratives, simple diaries, opinionated essays, or just sharing a sexual adventure or romance, or some new realization about life, or something interesting or attractive that you’ve found in the real world or the virtual one, and even the odd rant or rage sometime. JustUsboys.com is also a widely known porn-focused site, but dit allows members to interact in forums and create a blog (now with some enhanced features). Tribe.net was actually the original Facebook-like social network — at least conceptually, and it still has a great following of alternative eggheads and potheads, along with some other truly great people, some of whom also write. It is mainly composed of many sexually liberated people who freely mix explicit sexual content along with their contemporary sentiments and sensibilities found so abundantly in our chaotic world(s)… Smile.

 I sometimes have the notion that not everyone on Tribe is from the planet Earth, me included (sly grin). Perhaps others can name some other (similar or not) places where newbie bloggers can find a niche and a sympathetic audience (sometimes by default).

JustusBoys is firmly grounded in commercial sales and marketing of gay media (porn) and products. Therefore, its ‘services’ for social networking have a decidedly “down-to-earth”, and ‘back to business’ tone. Nevertheless, I am grateful for the free (so far) services that JUB does provide. I’ve said it often to my (imaginary) readers, and privately to dozen of non-blogging members of those sites above: The best way to write is find a topic that you care about and then respond. From that response (usually yours and others’ comments to the poster/blogger and the reactions that ensue) may come the crystal of a idea that can easily turn into a valuable blogpost. At least in your own mind, it will have value and be worth repeating, i.e, posting elsewhere. 

Sometimes, it a matter of self-confidence, and also a realization that real writers are never actually born as great manipulators of word and thought. In fact, they just develop themselves into that self-definition, and are shaped and reshaped by the nature of their work as writers (communicators), and by the perceived feedback (enjoyment, useful, sympathy, empathy, and exhilaration (sexual and/or emotional) of their audience) This blog post actually started out as a comment (response) to another person’s blog post, and the ideas that it generated in me.

It has now become the seed (or the whole peach) of a posting on several of my personal narrative blogs. It took on again a new life and was subsequently revised and lengthened in response to a new development: the debut of JUB’s improved blogging tools. I separate my various blogs (nearly two dozen of them) into different functions to serve my own dichotomies of thought and interests: sexual (gay, straight and bisexual or non-sexual) , social, political, emotional and spiritual. It’s not necessary to do that for most people, but I find that I tend to follow those bloggers who usually stick to a theme, 

or at least, who have a thematic core to their message, instead of constantly changing from one mundane topic to another as if the events of life direct their consciousness instead of the other way around.

 Unfortunately, quite a few of the ‘blogs’ here on JustUsBoys do exactly that: skip around randomly and also fail to cover the issue/topic/event thoroughly. Most are far too short to be useful. (OK.. you can also argue that some (like mine) are too long to appeal to the average readers/members. Quality is something that requires a sense of discipline as a writer/thinker AND as a reader. It helps when there is an appreciative audience. So when I do manage to find one blog entry on JUB (or elsewhere) that’s entertaining, useful or otherwise, meaningful, I try to give the writer more than ‘thumbs up’

sign. ‘Liking’ a post is good and better than no response at all, but it is ultimately not very instructive or reflective of what the person (reader) actually got from a blog post or other writing/photo work. 

OK…. I may not have convinced you to begin a blog. It’s not such an easy thing to do - or to do well… particularly when one has high standards of journalistic writing. Still, I hope many more people (gay, bi and curious men here on JUB) will attempt it. My wish is that many others will enjoy the fruits of those efforts (as readers and responders), and let the authors know that their writing is appreciated, that it has improved (or positive critique), or whatever. Be grateful for it, even if it provokes anger or disagreement. Go with blog and be good at doing it. Ciao, 

Kelly (sunbuns99 or sunbuns) :rb: (P.S. I am currently a bit fixated on some erotic experiences I have recently experienced with male masseurs and physical therapists, thus, the porn pic at the top. Secondly, as I live in Japan and surrounded by men in my daily live 98% of whom are Japanese, so that accounts for the later photo of Asian men. Finally, I love celebrity fake porn photos, particularly the one with Justin Bieber looks very authentic - although it’s *probably* not him. )

gay blog, gay blogs, porn blog, starting a blog, writing a blog, writing mature content, 

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members » Kelly link to this profile: http://people.tribe.net/sunbuns