The loss of your loved one is a major event in your life. Some would argue that the consequences are not much different than losing a loved one through death. A relationship breakup is a death, the death of possibilities, a future full of promise and plans that were evolved during your better days together. Feelings of loss, sadness and grief are common to the experience. What you go through is a period of mourning and bereavement over the death of possibilities.

The "Us" that constituted your relationship has suffered a fatal blow. As with any instance of loss we are left feeling bewildered and confused.

If you’re the one who initiated the breakup, then you may have feelings of guilt. You’ve been feeling more and more estranged from them. You’ve started to dream about a life on your own. You’ve already been grieving this relationship for some time prior to the loss of your decision.

If anyone has found GraCee's orange mini tennis ball from SoulFire, please let it know, she is sorry she was distracted and failed to keep it within her possession, but it is time to move on... A new red mini tennis ball is soooo much more fun...