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BOHEMIAN RENAISSANCE MAN

Hi! I am a mature, warm, sensual, handsome, compassionate, easy going, friendly, down to earth, humorous, sane, giving man with an infectious smile, piercing blue eyes that is honest, secure, sincere, healthy, non-chemically dependant, in good shape, with little baggage and a bit of a bad boy.

I’m also a romantic; I love candlelight, holding hands, long slow kisses in public. A few years ago I kissed a woman on a street corner in Berkeley for an hour at high noon. Would that make me an exhibitionist?

I see the big picture, I’m open to new ideas (most of the time), and I am a take-charge problem solver. I am good with my mind and my hands.

I work hard, play hard and love hardly (which is why I’m here).

I am a Real Estate Broker. I am active within my local community in governmental appointments, nonprofits and charity work. I am also active within the Burning Man Community. I am a Craftsman, Artist, and a Biker (Harley type biker presently w/o ride). I am an open minded spiritual explorer and an erotic adventurer.

In some ways I lead a very colorful life and I am very comfortable sharing who I am and answering any questions. There are a lot of women in my photos. I date very few women but have lots of women friends and sometimes I just go up to a beautiful woman and say, “Can I get a picture with you?” I am wearing a kilt in many of the photos. This is a Utilikilt and is commonly worn by we Black Rock City Rangers (Burning Man). Real men can wear kilts and no I’m not Scottish, I’m Irish and Welsh.

I am easy going and friendly with a wicked sense of humor. I often see the absurdity in what I do and say and laugh easily at myself.

I am also an observer of life and sometimes I just take in what is going on around me.

I am a giver who would love to find someone who reciprocates effortlessly and participate in my giving to others.

I am open for friends (no sex), dating (yes sex) and if I’m lucky my counterpart (LTR).

Dr. Oz says middle aged men need sex at least four times a week. My doctor says: “use it or loose it”. Many middle aged women have learned how to truly enjoy their bodies yet the average male lasts only seven minutes. Then there are those of us with a lot of stamina an extensive knowledge of many techniques to please a woman, especially if the woman tends to be a bit on the sexually submissive side. I’m here trying not to loose it.

I am a student and teacher of many aspects of the Erotic Arts presenting formal classes in many disciplines through the Erotic Arts Institute. Go to www.eroticartsinstitute.com for a partial description of what I teach.

What seems to work best for me are young minded women 40 – 55, weight height proportional, physically fit, non-chemically dependant, sexy as hell and dresses the part in both a sophisticated and playful way. Lots of stamina and an open minded are also helpful.

While I once was a good ballroom dancer I have forgotten everything but I still have the shoes. Now, I love to dance the get out there and shake it up type of dancing including Trance Dance. Dancing is feeling the music, feeling the sexual energy, the endorphin high, and a good work out all rolled into one, kind of like sex. I can dance for hours.

I am spiritual in a quiet sort of way, I have grown through much. I believe that we are either spiritually growing or that we are spiritually dying, that there is no standing still. I follow an inner voice to unusual and amazing places meeting fascinating people and having extraordinary experiences. While I am open an accepting of others beliefs, it would be wonderful to find my counterpart to share this path with.

Honesty is very important to me. I will tell anyone anything about myself at any time I don't expect others to live to this standard yet I do pick up on deception quite easily.

I'd rather do something than read about it. I am spontaneous, playful and thoughtful; I am deep yet easy going. I weigh how my actions will impact others and I do not become enmeshed in others lives. I do not do drama.

To me it is more about the connection than the stuff, more about the substance than the trappings yet I am a male of the species and physical attraction is very much a factor. I am especially attracted to certain scents.

A woman friend recently wrote about me “this man is a rock a foundation you can build on. He won’t think so..but he is..” I don’t know, but I thought I’d throw this in.

This will give you a glimpse of who I am. Feel free to talk to me, I'm easy going non judgmental and happy to answer any questions.