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The Dean

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joined on 12/11/05
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"Lå, tout n'est qu'ordre et beaute´, Luxe, calme et volupte´" - Baudelaire

Mortician by day.
Geek extraordinaire by night.

Despite what you may think, it's not really an unusual dichotomy.

I play with the dead during the day(embalming). I pretend to be the undead(vampire larp). I fight small wars to make little plastic figurines dead(warhammer 40K). My soul is dead to the world as well(enough said).

My career eats away most of my free time and sanity, and what little I have left to scrape together is usually dashed into oblivion by some caper, sharing time socialy, or by helping friends cope with the stresses and rigors of life as the "Oak" and "Big Brother".

I'm the most bull-headed, stubborn, grounded Taurean you're likely to meet. EVER.

He is a gadget geek?


My fetish for technology and gadgets is at unhealthy levels and I am a severe Mac Addict. My iPod changed the way I listen to music (instead of carting around massive CD cases) and I have never owned a Microsuck PC......only Apples and a Commodore 64.

He is a Freemason?


I became a Master Mason several years ago. Although I am proud of being a brother Mason, I have little time for lodge activities or to continue my path with the Scottish Rite. Despite that, the symbolic tools of a Freemason are used by me daily in my life and path(s).

He is a Dominant?


And for those of you who don't know about the another side of me.... I'm a sadistic, sensual, mental, and imaginative Dom. I am also a rubberist by heart and ethics. Take that hair pull and like it. *flogger snap* Remember class, "Sadistic Tendings & Baleful Pedagogy" is The Dean's curriculum.

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Quiet day at work.

Buddy Holly playing in the background, "Nick" the betta fish wandering around his big bowl playing in the roots, and the constant hum of memorial folders with a little boy's face on them printing out of the color printer.

Just another day in my life.

My back is much better. Laying flat with pressure on my hips or on my knees moving in a see-saw motion may not be a great idea yet. Much to mine and silverfight's displeasure. I knows she loves me, but I am sure by n... read more
Tue, May 16, 2006 - 12:31 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
If my father, grandfather, grandpa, and uncle are the male statistics for my family I now have about 25 - 28 years left before being shoved in a retort, put in an urn and not being able to tell people I am right about there being no afterlife or god in the fairytale biblical sense.

So my life trudges along as meaningless as before since I am no great man, writer, artist, thinker, activist or even a filthy hated pervert killer. I am the red betta fish in a bowl my co-workers gave me just s... read more
Mon, May 8, 2006 - 4:06 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
Not that gimp! No leather hood and ball gag for me.

For those of you that misseed my voice post, let me tell you a story. I have been working a ton. Four weekends in a row. I have wished for time off to spend with my Aurora. Well, like the song, fortune does not present gifts according to the book.

On Saturday about three, I was sliding a casket(yes, it was occupied) out of our Suburban onto a church truck (cart) and twisted wrong. Pain shot up my spine and being the good funeral dire... read more
Thu, May 4, 2006 - 3:50 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
I have to say that I am deeply saddened about sacrosanct24 and spooktress' separation. spooktress is an amazing and quirky woman and, I felt, sacrosanct24 was a perfect rock for her and a good man. Better than I ever was, I can honestly admit.

I have always wished the best for my friends and those deeply dear to me. I want sacrosanct24 to know that I honor and respect him for all the happiness and stability he did bring to spooktress' life. It means a ton to me(and I am sure to many that ... read more
Mon, January 30, 2006 - 3:49 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
A nice few hours with ltlgrrl, raven_gypsy, Logan, and velvettop at Johnny Rockets drinking malts, reading tracts left on the table, and good(lighthearted) conversation.

The tract warned that fornication is bad and that if you have ever hated anyone, you are a murderer. Yep, you don't have to commit the act of murder, just hate someone and you are a murderer. The bible says so, don'tcha know.

If you have never been to a Johnny Rockets, they draw on a little plate with ketchup. We conv... read more
Sun, January 29, 2006 - 1:01 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
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