I pretty much survived the move and we are pretty much settled into our new place now. It was a pretty stressful time, with work, holidays, remembrances, but we lived. :) The place is beautiful and we are getting alone really well.

My ex decided to start hounding me for money and gifts he gave me when we were still together. He wants them back. I suspect he must be going through hard time financially but he has a very false sense of entitlement. This was a pattern throughout our relationship. At any rate, I'm not his mummy and I can never even look at him again for the way he treated me when we were together almost two years ago (together three years). He also choose the *perfect* time to start knocking on my door. He is definitely looking for a reaction from me and he's not going to get it. It all started about 2-3 weeks ago with emails. I kindly told him no. Then phone calls. Today, he went to my job!! Then the receptionist called me, I told her I didn't want to see him and she was able to think quickly on her toes and eventually he left. I will continue to ignore in hopes he get it through his thick skull not to contact me again. Next step? I'm not sure yet.