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“Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.” – Dr. Seuss (1904-1991), from “The Lorax” (1971)

The Sufi sees the truth in every religion.

If invited to offer prayers in a church, a mosque, a synagogue, or a temple, the Sufi is ready to do so, knowing that all people worship the same God, the Only Being, no matter what Name they use. Yet the Sufi's true house of worship is the human heart, in which the Divine Beloved lives. Sufism is a religion for those who wish to learn religion from it, a philosophy for those wanting wisdom from it, a mystical path for any who would be guided by it to the unfoldment of the Soul, and yet it is beyond all these things. It is the Light of Life, which is the sustenance of every soul.

The principal teaching of Sufism is that the heart of man is the shrine of God, to recognize God in one's own heart, to feel His existence, presence, virtue, goodness, all manner of beauty. It must be remembered that the whole life around us is a life of falsehood. The more you see and experience the more you see how very false it is, how much disillusionment there is. The only way of getting over it is to light the lamp in the darkness of night, and all will be cleared. The secret of life is this: to produce beauty in ourselves. When beauty is produced in the heart, then all that breaks the heart vanishes and the whole universe becomes one single vision of the sublimity of God. ~~~ Hazrat Inayat Khan

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"If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else." - Booker T. Washington (1856-1915)

"Every time you express gratitude or compassion for any aspect of yourself or someone else, you breathe life in." - Mariah Fenton Gladis (from Tales of a Wounded Healer)

People born in the year of the horse are sanguine, sharp-minded, dress fashionably, gifted with a silver tongue, and have acute insight. But they fall in the snares of love easily, and break away from them lightly.

Most of the people born in the year of the horse leave their homes when they are young; those who stay at home start their careers early. They are vigorous and energetic. Their most striking point lies in their strong self-confidence, gentleness, and the ability to act as agents in financial transactions.

They do not adhere to old habits and like to show off. In dress, they usually select light colors and peculiar styles, gorgeous but vulgar when they take part in activities or parties.

They like to be engaged in intellectual activities and sports, and people can see this from their skillful actions, graceful posture, and eagerness while speaking. They react quickly and can decide promptly and opportunely. A person born in the year of the horse is generous, likes to join in fun, and is a totally easy going person. They are flexible, active and intelligent, and can usually control others.

However, they are impetuous and stubborn in temperament, and have fiery tempers. Most importantly, they cannot recognize their own weaknesses, and are therefore slow to change. They want others to work as quickly as they do, and if they fail to obtain satisfactory results, they are full of complaints and their faces become clouded. A person born in the year of the horse is always enormously proud of his own success, has many good ideas, and is good at solving knotty problems. He can achieve great success in dealing with chaotic matters. However, he usually feels satisfied and is intoxicated with the small achievements he has made. Moreover, he is often forgetful and absent-minded. Therefore, you should always supervise such a person and urge him on so that he will not become slack.

These people are self-centered and like to be surrounded and served by their relatives and friends. They can channel other people's thinking to their own by using excellent words. And they will not give up until they have poured out all their thoughts, dancing with joy.

People born in the year of the horse believe that their aim in life is to "seek individual freedom and happiness." If you happen to favor this creed, they will not stand at your side for they only believe in their own happiness. However, they are not greedy,selfish, or envious. They will only get angry, but never engage in intrigue or conspiracy when there is trouble on all sides.

Such people are not selfish about material matters. They do not make enemies of others intentionally, but others should not impose their opinions on them. They can scarcely wait when others do not comply with their acute thoughts and agile behavior. They may become excellent actors, but are not suitable to become teachers.

The contradictions in their temperament should be attributed to their changeable moods. They act according to their own intuitions. It is impossible to ask such a person to explain this, or to make a rational analysis of it. However, they can promote the further development of an activity by using their potential, which makes people gasp with admiration. They are often engaged in several activities at the same time, and are good at controlling situations. They put their plans into practice without hesitation once they have made up their minds. They either rush about to devote themselves to their careers, or they become extremely fatigued, and lie down.

It is difficult for a person born in the year of the horse to adapt himself to the schedule worked out by others, and they are too impatient to observe regulations. But they love stimulating jobs.

You should talk to such a person simply and clearly, otherwise he will not concentrate on what you are saying. You should tell him directly whether a plan is feasible or not, and he will appreciate your sincerity and frankness. You should not suppress his emotions excessively; otherwise he will burst into anger, and leave the table or a meeting.

These persons are unwilling to be with people they dislike. They have their own ideas or thoughts, and it is difficult to make them submit to others. They also usually have a large circle of acquaintances and friends, and make new friends every day. But, they never rely on their friends too much.

They are always active in stirring up situations, and can bring about sunshine in winter.

They try to do things quickly, but lack persistence, and they cannot endure hardships over a long period of time. They are flexible, and can adapt themselves to circumstances. When meeting with others, they will not be as blunt as people born in the year of the dragon. For example, they will not visit you without notifying you in advance. On the contrary, they may send you a calling card first, or telephone you before visiting you at your convenience.

A woman born in the year of the horse likes to arrange all things in perfect order. She is so energetic that she would like to appear in ten different places simultaneously, if that was possible.
Her appearance, which may be like a lithe soap bubble, gives people fresh and bright feelings. Some of the women born in the year of the horse are gentle, while others are so arrogant and unyielding that one can hardly control them. However, they can always win people's appreciation. Family is only a part of their social life, and a woman born in the year of the horse will not always stick to an old place over a long period of time.

She will have deep love for tender plants, natural scenery and pleasant sounds. She has unusual methods for entertaining, and her imagination and passion may be aroused by the roar of the waves and rustling of leaves. She will become overjoyed and full of eagerness when she throws herself into nature. If you fall in love with such a woman, remember not to shut her into your own little worlds.

People born in the year of the horse may be rich, but the property that they own is not safe as they do not worry about protecting it, and therefore they may lose a part of it. They spend extravagantly, and like to make fun of others, both of which are by-products of their imaginative nature. They like to make their marks in the world, and often take the lead when there is nobody else to take responsibility for a decision.

They are quite sensitive to crises of love, and will lose everything if disappointed in love. There are many things that they finish unhappily, and they may experience several broken marriages during their lives.

Those born in summer are usually more able to cope with their lives than those born in winter. When they are middle aged, which are their peak years, they will be capable and experienced, able to bear responsibilities, and scarcely ever fettered.

What type of guys do I like?

Easy on the eyes (but don't need to be body beautiful); pretty guys always get my immediate attention (until they speak - packaging is great, but what's inside?); sober, non-smokers that I share at least one common interest with (preferably movies).

Androgynous or slightly fem men and men with a boyish appearance or youthful energy about them make my dick hard (THAT'S RIGHT, I SAID IT!), but my interest doesn't end there. I am almost exclusively attracted to men of color (African diaspora, Asians, non-European Latinos, Middle Easterners all come to mind - there are others, no doubt). Black men with freckles make me weak in the knees. I prefer men who can discuss their feelings in depth with lucidity. Nothing satisfies me better than clarity of understanding.

Now, if you'll allow me to dream for a few moments, I'd say my "type" is also someone who (is): bright, affectionate, ebullient and loyal, with a strong sense of self... oriented towards the God of his understanding and seeking to KNOW his-SELF… mature... wise... open & friendly... easy to move around in bed... funny... venomless but still able to bite... a movie lover... relaxed about time and relaxing to be around... self-aware and can articulate his thoughts, feelings and desires with precision... has a need for reflective dialogue...aware of his attachments... creative... living out loud... reflective... sweet face... (hopefully) much more patient than I am sometimes... knows that giving is getting... willing to try... happy and free.

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With women...

I'm occasionally attracted to women. I rarely act on it anymore, but might be willing to. Two things would have to be given.

1. She would have to accept me AS I AM, not as she'd like me to be.
2. She must not be my mother in a brilliant disguise.

I LIKE: the many paths of Self-discovery... movies (all genres except musicals, westerns and animated)... cold wind.... slow kisses...the scenery of the white lines on the highway at night... waking up with an erection.... men that come into my life and stay... air-conditioning... long talks... CLARITY... lyrical prose... sexual and/or romantic involvement without the drama of dysfunctional attachment.... someone's hand on my leg while I'm driving... starry nights... the open sky... laughing out loud... loyalty...and looking at younger guys (smile).


I DISLIKE: WHEN PEOPLE INTERRUPT ME WHEN I'M TALKING... the fact that I often do not understand others, but need to accept them as they are... hot, humid weather...kissing guys who open their mouths like fish out of water when kissing... when a brother I'm dating isn't able or willing to articulate (preferably voluntarily) what he's thinking, what he's feeling and what he wants with lucidity... tight holes...uncircumcised dicks (sorry, was that too much information? Tough!)... hairy bodies... the vast majority of things that come on television.... sports... sweating without exertion... unstructured social activities... fickle men... tobacco smoke... having to get up in the morning... not having money...WAITING!!!


How about you?

Be helpless, dumbfounded,
Unable to say yes or no.
Then a stretcher will come from grace
to gather us up.

We are too dull-eyed to see that beauty.
If we say we can, we're lying.
If we say No, we don't see it,
That No will behead us
And shut tight our window onto spirit.

So let us rather not be sure of anything,
Beside ourselves, and only that, so
Miraculous beings come running to help.
Crazed, lying in a zero circle, mute,
We shall be saying finally,
With tremendous eloquence, Lead us.
When we have totally surrendered to that beauty,
We shall be a mighty kindness.

~ By Jalalud'din Rumi

"When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy." - Jalalud'din Rumi