Valia
My TestimonialsJune 12, 2006
Valia is my succubus.
That's hard for people to understand sometimes, so I generally break it down like this (Purists, bear with me.): mythologically, a succubus is a female sex demon who comes into your mind, dreams, and/or bed and steals your life energy while you sleep. And, yeah, this one will wear you out! Well, she wears me out, and I am young and enthusiastic. I am lucky. Valia is warm and thoughtful and devoted, and so often it seems like she knows just what I need and how to give it to me. Should that slip, she is smart enough to listen to what I think about the subject. No One Twue Dominate Mistress here. I appreciate her willingness to communicate, process, and compromise -- and I sure as hell appreciate the times she grabs me by the hair and shoves me up against a wall to shut me up. On the surface, it seems an unlikely pairing. She's a definite sadist... I do not consider myself a masochist (I'll make that very clear when it gets too owwie). I'm a budding service sub... she does everything for herself (and has her own girl for the things she doesn't want to do). She's a toppy bitch a lot of the time... me, too. (Sssh!) I'm good at being a pillow princess... and so is she. (Well, okay, we switch up once in a while.) She doesn't like brats... but she likes me. (She likes knowing my "off button", too.) We work well together. Life is made of balance, yes? --Her Wench January 29, 2005
V ivacious
A nalytical L ickable I ntensive A dmirable All that and great breasts too!
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January 21, 2004
What to say about my favorite irreverent reverend?
Valia is a wonderful friend. She is honest and caring. I have shared many interesting moments with her and hope to continue to do so for many years to come. She also officiates weddings!
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Inside the Grey Matter
You Ought To KnowGender
Female
Age
37
Location
about me
37 years old, married, bi (but ONLY interested in women), poly, pagan, sadistic top (to make it clear, I'm very into BDSM, but I don't expect it of my partners). Known to be kind (or bitchy), shy (or a social butterfly), someone to lean on (when I'm not over-loaded with my own crap).
Physically....known for my 2 most prominent....tattoos, yeah that's it.... I have a large variety of interests....books, music, meeting people, going to Renaissance Faires & Science Fiction Conventions, wine tasting, driving aimlessly around the Bay Area, & shopping (a lot). I'm generally classified as a pagan, but I'm definately to the grey side of white, and the eclectic side of anything. I enjoy spending time with friends & loved ones, I go to BDSM parties nearly every weekend.
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My Tribes
*queer poly*,
Bay Area BDSM Polyamory,
Bay Area Femdommes and Friends,
BayCon: The Con You Can't Refuse,
BDSM and Polyamory,
BDSM Newbies,
BDSM Tips & Techniques,
BDSM Women Only,
Edges,
Erotic Nightmares,
New to BDSM (Uncensored),
Poly-Bi-Girls,
Service Oriented Submissives,
SF Bay Women's BDSM Parties,
SF BDSM,
SF Kinky Dating,
SF Poly!,
SF The Citadel,
sfbay bisexuals,
SFBay Girls Who Wanna Meet girls,
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Opening My Big Mouth Again
Today on 680
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License plate on a red Corvette
ILVKNK
blog entry posted Wed, May 14, 2008 - 6:27 PM
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Baycon Costume Idea
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This could be very bad...or very good. I haven't decided yet whether to go through with it.
Keeping in line with the Pirate theme... Imagine me in something scandalously low cut (ok get your mind out of the gutter now)...(Duh Valia, what's... read more
Friday 5/9
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Is when the 2nd interview is with the place that is considering me for an Office Manager position.
blog entry posted Thu, May 1, 2008 - 6:44 PM
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Re: Photo party?
(in Edges)
I think the Photo Parties are on the 2nd Friday of the Month.
discussion post on Thu, May 1, 2008 - 6:45 AM
Re: Death In The Stables!!!!
(in Edges)
According to an email sent to a few lists by Black Heart, EPG is very ill & in the hospital now.
There will be another DJ spinning tonight. According to Black Heart, 100% of the door will be going towards helping EPG with her medical bills. discussion post on Fri, April 25, 2008 - 6:31 PM
That Job Thing
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Because I don't feel like re-entering the stuff all over again...and because the layout at LJ is better...
If you care for the latest news on my job hunt, go here....NOW. :) valiaderekin.livejournal.com/219128.html
blog entry posted Thu, April 24, 2008 - 6:51 PM
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Just strange
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An odd (and all too frequent occurrance) -
Someone with very little in their profile decides to drop me a note, expressing their interest in me. I check them out & see that their profile is rather empty...so I reply to them & ask if they ca... read more
blog entry posted Tue, April 15, 2008 - 6:19 AM
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Re: Latex and paint!!
(in Edges)
I hope you all decide to do this party again in the future. It's something I'd love to do, but a long standing committment is in the way this particular weekend.
discussion post on Thu, April 10, 2008 - 6:45 PM
Re: Recommend a goth/sexy clothing store; North Bay or city?
(in SF The Citadel)
You might like Dragonfly shirts.
Here's a few examples of what they make. You can sometimes find them at Hot Topic, Leather Ect, and there always seem to be some on EBay. www.nextag.com/dragonfly-...search-html http://roc... read more discussion post on Sun, April 6, 2008 - 6:26 PM
On the Hunt
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Something happened at work today that made me take another hard look at things.
There's been a lot of things going on there, that while they do not directly affect me...do make me unhappy. Things I don't support and/or don't agree with. My i... read more
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