...that’s what life’s all about. Sometimes good food and the comfort of a familiar company is all I need. To celebrate finishing my latest deadline last week (which involved one of those no-sleep weekends), the lover took me to out local French café, and we celebrated over magret de canard, beet and goat cheese napoleons, and a lovely bit of bunny. With our aperitifs we toasted ‘accomplishment’, and later brought our wine glasses together in praise of ‘plenty’. It’s very gratifying to know th... read more

Men seeking women never do as well as women seeking men. This bothers several men I know who have open relationships, but I think it’s simply a basic truth of our slightly imbalanced society, and there’s just no point getting bent out of shape about it. If it really bothered me, I suppose I could always stack the deck in my favor, i.e.: be more assertive, work out and make myself more attractive, hit nightclubs and events more often, and in general spend more time and energy trying to get lai... read more

I haven't had a chance to look at tribe since the big change, and now I see that any and all nudity or porn is banned. Okay, I'll be painfully honest, here. people's candid dirty pictures was at least half the reason I liked Tribe. I don't really know if I'm going to use it much from now on.

>Groan< I’m finally reaching the tail end of a truly fierce hangover. My occasional tendency to drink without thinking is starting to alarm me.

Pretty-Boi J has taken to hosting a weekly brunch at his place (the location of the famous Farewell To Tits party), and this week it was breakfast burritos, and for some reason I’m not fully clear on, we had to wear swimsuits. I didn’t bother to read the email thoroughly enough, but I dutifully stuffed mine in a plastic bag and headed out.

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