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xira

joined on 07/15/05
last updated 03/30/08
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January 15, 2008
Xira is just plain nifty. Seriously --- you try, you like! She is the calming force to my sometimes-turbulent nature. She pushes me to be a better dancer, puts up with being my living doll when trying out costumes, and listens to my stories for the 43rd time about Boy #412. Can you believe I've known her since we were TWELVE?!? Wouldn't know what to do without her...
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Yeah, I kinda like belly dancing. Not much. Just a little.
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Ode to Narcissism

Well, I agree with a lot of the advice given on my last blog about buyin' the house. That being said..........

We decided to try ONE more offer. The thing is, I am SURE this is the house for us. As far as, it's perfect for our needs and even the asking price isn't pushing our limit. We have talked (kev and i ) about it with each other til we're blue in the face. We both agree that even tho our pride is taking it up the strata choco lata somewhat, it's more important to us to get this house. The last one we liked we didn't even have a CHANCE on, it was snapped up too quick. With the loan we're getting, we don't have to pay our first mortgage payment until sept 1st if we close on july 1st. we're also willing to go pretty low on the price on our house in order to get this other one. Even if we have to take 20k less on our house, the one we're trying to get is not only a huge upgrade for US as a family (loads more room!) but getting it at the price she's asking is a freakin' STEAL.

we gotta try one more time!

(and thanks Salome. sometimes a little hard work pays off)
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 7:16 PM permalink - 4 comments
 
So to make a long story slightly shorter.......

We are trying to buy a bigger house. We found a house we love. Put in a bid giving the seller her ASKING price. w/the contingency we sell our house. but w/a cap of aug 15. NOT GOOD ENOUGH-she doesn't want it w/the contingency. fair enough. second offer.....we offer same price, no contingency. (oh and we gave 500 dollars in ernest money first time-that wasn't enough, she wanted 1500 and wanted to close july 25) and we give 1000 earnest money AND agree to july 25. she decides she still doesn't like that date AND is concerned about the loan we're getting . (which we were pre-approved for!) grrrrr. she was supposed to have an open house and we're convinced that was the real issue. well after the open house she still has no offers. it's been listed for 6 months. so, we give one more offer-close july 1st-but offer about 7,000 less. NOT EVEN A COUNTER OFFER. she drops it.

so, i guess we are supposed to do all the bending over and she isn't going to meet ANY of our requests. er.....no. so, we're just gonna work on selling our house. if she still hasn't sold the house by the time we sell ours, we'll try her out again.

people piss me off tho.
Mon, May 5, 2008 - 3:21 PM permalink - 8 comments
 
i was actually all set to whine about my work out today, but other than being sore (God help me tomorrow) i'm pretty freakin' jazzed about it. my boy and i got these cool "Smart Keys" from the community center we just joined. it's really just a glorified USB key but it not only keeps track of your exercise, progress, goals, blah and blah....it tells you what machines to lift (weights) on, how many reps to do, how much weight to do, blah and bladdy blah. that is of course after we had an initial assessment w/a trainer who went 'round with us to determine how sad and out of shape we are-lol. but i'm pretty psyched about this. it'd be great to actually gain a bit o' muscle (not to be confused w/ a bit o' honey.......that is pornographic i'm sure......oh wait, not that's candy. OH LOOK A CHICKEN!) while losing some o' the fat.

the other really cool thing that happened, oooo besides the Rockabilly Prom we went to......darn........too many thoughts......er......backing up.

so we went to a Rockabilly Prom. I posted pics. It was da' bomb. We all looked cute. the end.

anyway, so the other really cool thing, was that FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER i got clothes given to me. see, i'm FOREVER giving clothes -in lump sums mind you-to other people. i got to fat, i got too skinny, i don't like these anymore, i'm giving up pink for LENT (not really.....i love pink.) whatever. there is always SOME reason i'm gettin' rid of clothes. but i NEVER get them from someone else. seriously, i think the last time was when Bellatrix was still living in L.A. and gave a few of her things. that was a hundred and forty-eleven years ago. And the other cool thing about the chic that i got them from, is she is totally built like me (pear shaped) and nearly EVERYTHING fit great and looked great! yea! i love karma/the golden rule/whatever. i gave clothes to Andi, I got clothes in return. works fo' me!

AAAAND the other other cool thing is I got a WICKED cute vintage lookin' dress from Chop Tops for ten bucks. it totally rocks and has cherries all over it.

oh, backing up again, the clothes i was given are all "normal" (and i use the term loosely) sizes. not a lane bryant tag in the bunch! yea!
Mon, April 21, 2008 - 10:13 PM permalink - 6 comments
 
And before I whine, the UBER happy part is I have lost SIXTY FIVE FREAKIN' POUNDS since Jan 4. And eighty two since my biggest weight post baby. not bad. the part i would now like to whine about, is i just gave like 10 or articles clothing-all UBER cute (black t shirt w/silver foil guns over the boobs, red and white gingham rockabilly lookin' shirt, TWO black fabric bustiers......sigh) away to a friend. Lucky for me, I know she will take GOOD care of them and look HAWT! but........WAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Also lucky for me, I can fit into a bunch of OLD clothes that are very cute. so i can't complain too much. it's still sad to see my cute clothes go away. *sigh*

i know i know.....everyone is whipping out the worlds smallest violins and all that. it's still sad to see them go!



(p.s. SEE HOW CUTE THAT BUSTIER WAS!!!!!!!)
Tue, April 15, 2008 - 7:45 PM permalink - 14 comments
 
i'm sorry, but most of these are WAY more funny left OUT of context

Majnun: "i'd rather be robbing banks."
Kevin: "so you're really getting into this 'evil' thing?"
Majnun: "it's fun commanding my own ninja squad."


"Andrea! Come lick this off!"
-Majnun

Majnun "there is a line"
Bellatrix "hey! no butts! no butts!"
Majnun "butts are next!"

(anyone else noticing a trend here?)

Dawn P. :"um...excuse me...where is my penis?"
Wed, April 9, 2008 - 9:21 AM permalink - 5 comments
 
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